I've done something stupid, help.

[Amaterasuice]

Okay, I like this girl, and she likes me. We've been together for almost a month.

I went to a party and for the first time in my life, I drank some alcohal. I got a bit tipsy, and well, made out with a different girl. I was drunk enough that I thought it was her, but then I realized she wasn't. I stopped immediately afterwards, but I feel like shit.

I'm not drinking that much alchohal again (especially cuz I'm a minor). and I will never cheat on her again. I just want to know, do I tell her or not?

P.s. My first and hopefully last hangover until I'm 21 where it's actually legal. How THE FREAK can you guys that drink deal with these?


I'm telling her today. If she dumps me, I deserve it. I've been a dumbass.
It was spiked punch and I had no idea. We also went together, but somehow I lost her. I forgot to mention that. Still isn't an excuse.

Edit:
I've told her. Earlier today. She still wants to be with me, but I've hurt her so bad. None of this was worth it, but she said it was better than I told her. Thanks guys. Sorry I couldn't rep all of you.

 

[From the Dark Spire]

Simple, just don't tell her shit.

 

[Joe Black]

Thats why you shouldnt drink too much. Makes you do things you regret later. Not worth it.
Imo tell her the truth. It's not the end of the world after all.

 

[FreakensteinAG]

"Yeah, I was on-my-ass piss drunk that night and totally thought that girl was you anyway, I would never do this with another girl sober. I mean, alcohol literally screws up your cerebrum's thinking process."

 

[2justin9]

dont tel her kids your age dont understand you wil get dumped and the drinking part you get use to it and its something you have to live with because your nights are 10 times better with alcohol btw way the guys that comented above dont know what they talking about beers are nice shots are even better you wil see when you get there its Gods gift to mankind lol cheers

 

[The Necromancer]

"Yeah, I was on-my-ass piss drunk that night and totally thought that girl was you anyway, I would never do this with another girl sober. I mean, alcohol literally screws up your cerebrum's thinking process."

Yeah, this works i suppose.

 

[Hemsey]

At least you didn't proceed further. My opinion is man up and tell her what happened. Because once you keep a secret it's just going to build up until you don't know whats the truth anymore. If you tell her off the bat, she will trust you more for telling the truth and actually forgive you possibly.

 

[Donald J Trump]

Tell her what you done and be honest.

This question can be answered very very easily but you have to be honest to yourself.

If the girl done that, would you like to know that she done it? Would you mind her not telling you that and maybe finding it out from another person.

 

[Douryoku]

Who's potentially going to become single now? HAHAHAHA. ****ing loser.​

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[From the Dark Spire]

"Yeah, I was on-my-ass piss drunk that night and totally thought that girl was you anyway, I would never do this with another girl sober. I mean, alcohol literally screws up your cerebrum's thinking process."

No shit, why do you think he just said he was drunk? I don't think he should tell her, females can't really comprehend as well as a man, at least from I see.

 

[Rike Senju]

Two options. Don't tell her and go under the risk she may find out (all hell would brake loose) . Or explain to her what happened and she'll probably forgive you U_U

 

[Punk Hazard]

Who's potentially going to become single now? HAHAHAHA. ****ing loser.​

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Just wondering: Where's your gf?

 

[-Punk-]

Sorry but I don't respect cheaters , you Fvcked up, tell her & move on . just rememeber that Karma it' a b1tch .

 

[Blunt]

Well, you either don't tell her or you do, if you are trying to get laid, than I wouldn't say anything to her about it. She might even forgive you for it if you happened to tell her, since you were being honest. All people aren't the same though, so that is up to you.

Don't mix alcohol, stick with one drink when you party. Rum is my preferred choice, Bacardi 151 to be specific. You most likely won't have a hangover if you stick with one type of drink. If you can help it, try to down a bottle of water before you fall asleep. Eating bread or crackers helps with it as well.



Like Dark Spire said, females can't comprehend as well as a man, which is the truth.

 

[Clouds]

Just wondering: Where's your gf?

At my house.

 

[Punk Hazard]

No shit, why do you think he just said he was drunk? I don't think he should tell her, females can't really comprehend as well as a man, at least from I see.

There it is. This thread's gonna turn into a bunch of people putting you in your place now.

 

[Kαmi]

Lmao you must have been out your box or something, I've never drank so much to where I get people mixed up. Anyways, you should really be asking yourself this. Do you have the heart to go on with the relationship even though you cheated, do you have a conscious that will eat at you? If your answer is no to the last part, then don't tell her. Also depends on how many other people saw you kissing her. Cause if other people did who know your girl, you should definitely tell her before someone else does.

 

[FubukiShirou]

Don;t tell her she will dump you.

 

[Hemsey]

At my house.

Hell Yea. You get rep for that.

 

[XxLapizxLazulixX]

If not telling her makes you feel like crap, then you can either tell her and risk being dump like the trash you are, OR, you can not tell her, but learn from this and NEVER do it again. You are both young teens, who have been together for a month, dont take it so seriously this early.