Why do we love?

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A good theme for discuss: Love.
Why do we love? In what do you believe? You love someone b/c of the hormones other ppl release and when you ''smell'' then you react by being attracted, do you think love is an illusion people create to feel better? Or because you believe in true love? Something that can't be explained scientificaly?

I personnaly believe in science, about evolution, deja vu's, etc but in this case is totally diferent.


You love someone and then you feel attracted by other person and you betray the person you love. But after that you feel terribly sorry, are hormones responsable for that? In my opinion no, its the feeling we develop when we like someone, is the stronger connection you have with that person.

If it's because the hormones, why do you miss that person? Why did you miss that person in a point that you would give and do everything in the world just to hug that person, just to look at that person, just to talk a little with that person?

Then when you feel that you dont like that person and you separate from her you feel like you did it wrong? Why do you feel sorry for that? Why do you feel you still like that person?

Why when you have a discussion with a person and you feel sorry for what you said? Many of you will just say that are feelings, but for me they're more than feelings, is a strong connection you created with that person, the feelings both share, its something that can't be explained.




For me, love, is something it can't be explained with words.
yeah it kinda sounds gay but f*** it! For those who think that at least ppl who trully love each other can always count with the help of each other, they trully trust each other while you f*** 10 girls per month but you arent happy and when you need help, everyone says it can't help b/c they need to go to bathroom
 
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You can't explain love. Nor science, nor religion, nor faith can explain it
Something like love is way to complicated and can never by understand fully.

It's easier to explain God than love.
 

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You can't explain love. Nor science, nor religion, nor faith can explain it
Something like love is way to complicated and can never by understand fully.

It's easier to explain God than love.
yep yep, love isnt something that can be explained.

Its funny, one of the most commun things on our world (at least ppl have one true love in theyr life) and one of the hardest to explain
 

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I don't love. I curtain.
Rofl. xD

No one can xD

*waits for Rei's long text wall*
Rofl again.

Hmm... Why do we love?... I don't know... Because people just want to feel "complete" or something, and I guess finding the person you love will make you feel "complete." (the sounded lame)

I honestly don't know... xD
 

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Sorry... I can explain sexual attraction to you if you want... maybe it is connected, since you love someone because you want that person to be your partner, the one who will continue your genes by giving birth to you child.

But if you're talking about love as in boyfriend and girlfriend kissy kiss, Then I can only say that it is indeed hormones.

I'm sorry but love an other feelings are something with the ability to mess with a part of your brain.

I may not know what causes that mess, but in as no supernatural explaining...
 

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Sorry... I can explain sexual attraction to you if you want... maybe it is connected, since you love someone because you want that person to be your partner, the one who will continue your genes by giving birth to you child.

But if you're talking about love as in boyfriend and girlfriend kissy kiss, Then I can only say that it is indeed hormones.

I'm sorry but love an other feelings are something with the ability to mess with a part of your brain.

I may not know what causes that mess, but in as no supernatural explaining...
Yeah but love is not only about *** or kisses and having child, is to be with a person, talk to her, to have fun, etc, not just those definitions.

Its like thw word smile in the disctionary:

Contraction of the facial muscles; to smile, to look or regard with amusement or ridicule

Do you think a smile is only that?
 
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