Wait till you experience the pain of losing someone cause of war and also the pain and humiliation of almost getting sexually assaulted. I hate talking about soldiers and their deaths because i lost someone i love.
To be fair - you can't expect other people to know, implicitly, of your struggles.
Part of the grieving process is learning how to accept that others have difficulty understanding your experiences - especially when they have no similar experiences.
When someone attempts to harm you, humilate you and take advantage of you because you are weak. Your personality changes... Some people become weaker, some become stronger and some become unstable. Guess which one i became....
I think that people become all of these things, and will shift between these different states for a while. Some of my experiences have made me stronger in some ways - weaker in others.
So the fact that this church protests the death of everyone as an act of God for our sins and that the damn 8 year old boy deserved to die, disgusts me.
They need to be taught what pain and loss feels like...
Honestly, I don't think they will process it the same way most of us do.
It would be a curious experiment to kill one of them and see if they rationalize that death as being God's revenge against them - or how that would work... but I really don't think you'd find empathy in their response.
Some people just won't process loss the same way, and will refuse to accept the consideration of other individuals.