What you saw was my claiming the fathers of Madara and Hashirama, respectively, are much weaker than said latter. Also, I never made the claim that they are the leaders of their respective clans.Did I just see the leaders of the Uchiha and the Senju being called weak? Oh wow...
Hashirama, Tobirama and Itama all showed slight fear towards their father as they seemingly normally tiptoed around him.