wut should i do??? :(

[Waqas Naseem]

hey guys and galz i want u ppl help...look i love a girl who claims to love me so much....but she flirts around wid guys so much which i dont lyk..i asked her to stop several times but she though sware everytime but broke it days later saying she cant stop flirting....i yesterday insulted her so much...eg called her a ***** that initially she begged me to be wid her but later... she blocked my fone no. And is not replying to my any msg...for which i m very sad as i loved her...i wanted to know wut i did was right or not...if not wut should i do then???should i forget her or say her sorry??whose mistake is more in this???

 

[DJ Malik]

I think you are both wrong in this. Sure she shouldn;t be flirting around with other boys, but one the other hand you shouldn't of called her a *****. I'd tell her that i was sorry and that you didn't mean it. But that's only if you still want to be with her. Take some time to yourself and think out what you truly want.

 

[Waqas Naseem]

so wut should i have done if not calling her a ***** that although she claims to love me but breaks her swear everytime and says she cant stop flirting??

 

[DJ Malik]

We'll thats what i'm saying! If she does all this stuff that she does, is she truly worth it??

 

[Waqas Naseem]

so u mean i m right to call her a ***** and she isnt worth my love if she breaks her swear everytime and says she cant stop flirting??

 

[DJ Malik]

No! it's not right for you to call her a *****, but at the same time if she's not willing to give her undivided love to you, why should you give yours.

 

[Waqas Naseem]

so wut should i do then.??isnt there any other option to either leave her or do compromise wid her???cant she corrected???i dont even talk to girls becoz of her...becoz she once said she wants me to be all hers...

 

[DJ Malik]

That's basically all you actually have. Either you can work hard and try not to be so jealous and help her stop flirting or you can give up on the relationship and find somone better suited for you.

 

[Waqas Naseem]

i have just been trying all this time to stop her flirting...i have been so nice to her but she always stabs my back...flirting wid other guys...its my fortune that i always find it...she is incorrigeable in regards of flirting.....atleast this is wut my experience is...she has broken her swears to stop flirting tens of times...

 

[DJ Malik]

Well Again I say. Is it even worth it?

 

[Hinato]

If she can't stop....then maybe u should let her go and if she still loves u, she might actually comeback or even forget about u

 

[Waqas Naseem]

hey bro wut u mean by if she loves me she might come back to me or even forget me???
And i forgot to say i abused her so much...she said me sorry more than ten times but when i asked her to stop flirting she said she cant stop flirting but dont want to lose me as well....i m so much confused and depressed at her diplomatic wordings...

 

[DJ Malik]

Wait so your saying you abused her physically??

 

[Waqas Naseem]

no yar i meant abused mentally...i mean saying bad words abt her character...and her family....i m not that stupid or bad guy to abuse some1 physically...beside i told u i loved her and dont even talk to girls normally becoz of her...i just used very bad language abt her family...at which she switched off her fone and is now not replying to any of my msgs... :'(

 

[DJ Malik]

Oh. Okay Good. Well I've helped you as much as I can. Your just going to have to decide if you want to continue being with her.

 

[Waqas Naseem]

thanx 4 ur help bro ...i guess i have to leave her although i love her but i cant tolerate her flirty nature...

 

[Grim]

stop wasting your time or serching for advices, u wont find any. From what i've read i think theres no one who could help you, girl is young and needs attention, so what she likes you, looks like your not the only one

 

[Hot.Tendo]

look for a girl that has your taste... girls like those are attention seekers

 

[Sade]

Sexy Tendo is not right....

Waqas Naseem,dont listen to anyone ...Just listen to me U_U

She doesnt love you,neither likes you or anything else....Its all in your mind U_U

 

[Waqas Naseem]

wut u mean by she dont loves u not loves any1...its all in my mind???she always says loves me...she even sware and begged me to not leave her when we had fight...how can u say its just my thinking..??she herself said...