Women´s feeling

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A few weeks back i had a girlfriend and she was into me really hard, she used to spend the whole day texting me and she was really intense and seem to be really happy when i was with her , but all of the sudden she changed and started to act really distant , so long story short we broke up and a few days later she told she didnt feel anything anymore for me.

What i don´t understand is the sudden change of feelings towards me, one day she loved me and just a few days later she doesn´t feel anything anymore, i mean at least for me it takes some time to grow sick of someone, you don´t go to sleep loving someone and then the next day your feelings for that person are gone.

So in your opinion do you think she's telling me that she doesn´t feel anything for me because she wants to keep me away or she's just that coldhearted and she changed of mind and one day felt like not loving me anymore?

By the way i didnt do anything to her , i didnt cheat on her, i didn´t get her into trouble with anyone, we had some discussions but nothing out of the normal couple stuff, and even if she may resent me for something i may have done, i really find it hard to understand how she erased her feeling towards me that fast, i mean it´s been almost a month and i still think about her so how did she forget about me in the blink of an eye.

What are your thoughts on this?
 
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You're asking for complex feedback and you've given little to no information on the situation's specifics.

How old are you? How'd you meet? Were you friends originally? Etc.
 
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She must have caught sight of my boy Zealot who is vacationing in Mexico.

In all seriousness, how old are you? Most people my age aren't looking for love you know.
 

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You're asking for complex feedback and you've given little to no information on the situation's specifics.

How old are you? How'd you meet? Were you friends originally? Etc.
she is 16 and i'm 18 and no we didnt have ***, we met because we share some friends and just stumbled upon each other in a meeting, we were friends for like a week and half before becoming a couple, i don´t know it's just that in the instant we met each other, we just clicked and got along so good, i´ve never been with a person with whom i get along so good besides her.
 

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she is 16 and i'm 18 and no we didnt have ***, we met because we share some friends and just stumbled upon each other in a meeting, we were friends for like a week and half before becoming a couple, i don´t know it's just that in the instant we met each other, we just clicked and got along so good, i´ve never been with a person with whom i get along so good besides her.
Yeah..

The same thing happened to me once, but me and the girl were 15 at the time. IMO, a good majority of people under the age of 25 are emotionally immature.. some more than others. Your average 16 year old is still discovering who he/she is and it doesn't have anything to do with women, per se. Women (in this case, a girl, because she's 16) don't just turn off their feelings and not like someone overnight as much as men want to believe that. If this is sudden, she more than likely never felt the way you thought she did, and that applies to her as well. You guys weren't friends for long before you started dating and it was probably more puppy love and impulse, rather than genuine feeling.

All I can tell you in a nutshell is to try not to get attached to girls/women so easily, because this won't be your last time going through this.. that's for damn sure.

Keep your chin high m8.
 

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Your first mistake is dating a younger female.
I can only think of a couple things:
Puppy love (Was nice at first but then she realized it was more lustful than actual feelings)
She found someone else.
She wants to mess around instead of settling down.
How long was the relationship?
 

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Some people just do that. Get interested, but quickly get uninterested. She just peeled the band-aid off quick and not deal with it anymore. It's better for you to move on as soon as possible, as well. Don't feel bad and harp on it. You'll feel better, I promise.

I hope you find that special person that you want to spend every day with and vice versa. Someone who loves you and someone you love back. May you be blessed enough to have a relationship like me and my Mother.
 
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A few weeks back i had a girlfriend and she was into me really hard, she used to spend the whole day texting me and she was really intense and seem to be really happy when i was with her , but all of the sudden she changed and started to act really distant , so long story short we broke up and a few days later she told she didnt feel anything anymore for me.
or so you thought
 

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Well so short just one week that doesnt look like love

I always thought it takes months to get used to each other well in my parents case it took 2 or 3 months i guess

Well but one week is short i think she didnt really love you but well
 

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Lmao I'm the type of person that'll be interested in being in a relationship but will change my mind after 30 minutes, and it's most likely because I haven't met them too much. You two didn't know each other for too long which made her scared of any kind of commitment before getting to know you more. And since she's not that old it's likely that she was unsure of herself anyway and was being impulsive. Try not to think negative of her because I'm sure her intention wasn't to confuse or play with anyone and I'm sure she feels sorry.



Just casually go get a fwb man.
 

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I got bored half way through your post... Maybe she felt the same
I hate to be mean, but this is it must have been the way he written it. @OP...this girl sounds like me, I get sick of people too easily. :lmao: ^___^ Umm, if you're in grieve then cry it out as much as you can, it will make your heart feel more lighter. Not saying stay depressed 24/7, but if you catch yourself near tears at any given moment, just don't hold back. Let it all out and let it in the fact that she wasn't the one for you. Also, make sure to let it in that the feelings aren't there forever. Once you can do that, see the positive of things and take things slow. :happy:
 
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