A few weeks back i had a girlfriend and she was into me really hard, she used to spend the whole day texting me and she was really intense and seem to be really happy when i was with her , but all of the sudden she changed and started to act really distant , so long story short we broke up and a few days later she told she didnt feel anything anymore for me.
What i don´t understand is the sudden change of feelings towards me, one day she loved me and just a few days later she doesn´t feel anything anymore, i mean at least for me it takes some time to grow sick of someone, you don´t go to sleep loving someone and then the next day your feelings for that person are gone.
So in your opinion do you think she's telling me that she doesn´t feel anything for me because she wants to keep me away or she's just that coldhearted and she changed of mind and one day felt like not loving me anymore?
By the way i didnt do anything to her , i didnt cheat on her, i didn´t get her into trouble with anyone, we had some discussions but nothing out of the normal couple stuff, and even if she may resent me for something i may have done, i really find it hard to understand how she erased her feeling towards me that fast, i mean it´s been almost a month and i still think about her so how did she forget about me in the blink of an eye.
What are your thoughts on this?
What i don´t understand is the sudden change of feelings towards me, one day she loved me and just a few days later she doesn´t feel anything anymore, i mean at least for me it takes some time to grow sick of someone, you don´t go to sleep loving someone and then the next day your feelings for that person are gone.
So in your opinion do you think she's telling me that she doesn´t feel anything for me because she wants to keep me away or she's just that coldhearted and she changed of mind and one day felt like not loving me anymore?
By the way i didnt do anything to her , i didnt cheat on her, i didn´t get her into trouble with anyone, we had some discussions but nothing out of the normal couple stuff, and even if she may resent me for something i may have done, i really find it hard to understand how she erased her feeling towards me that fast, i mean it´s been almost a month and i still think about her so how did she forget about me in the blink of an eye.
What are your thoughts on this?
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^___^ Umm, if you're in grieve then cry it out as much as you can, it will make your heart feel more lighter. Not saying stay depressed 24/7, but if you catch yourself near tears at any given moment, just don't hold back. Let it all out and let it in the fact that she wasn't the one for you. Also, make sure to let it in that the feelings aren't there forever. Once you can do that, see the positive of things and take things slow. 
