Women´s feeling

[Crossroads]

Just casually go get a fwb man.

Jailbait.

 

[Mr Akatsuki]

A few weeks back i had a girlfriend and she was into me really hard, she used to spend the whole day texting me and she was really intense and seem to be really happy when i was with her , but all of the sudden she changed and started to act really distant , so long story short we broke up and a few days later she told she didnt feel anything anymore for me.

What i don´t understand is the sudden change of feelings towards me, one day she loved me and just a few days later she doesn´t feel anything anymore, i mean at least for me it takes some time to grow sick of someone, you don´t go to sleep loving someone and then the next day your feelings for that person are gone.

So in your opinion do you think she's telling me that she doesn´t feel anything for me because she wants to keep me away or she's just that coldhearted and she changed of mind and one day felt like not loving me anymore?

By the way i didnt do anything to her , i didnt cheat on her, i didn´t get her into trouble with anyone, we had some discussions but nothing out of the normal couple stuff, and even if she may resent me for something i may have done, i really find it hard to understand how she erased her feeling towards me that fast, i mean it´s been almost a month and i still think about her so how did she forget about me in the blink of an eye.

What are your thoughts on this?

I've been in this for months my friend. Mark my words, this will become a pattern. Don't act too cool or beta. Let her know how you feel but keep seeing other girls, even if you don't feel like it.

Be prepared for when she comes back and tells you she 'needs' you.

 

[Atalaya]

Jailbait.

Stay away from me.

 

[Crossroads]

Stay away from me.

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[Conspirator.]

I've been in this for months my friend. Mark my words, this will become a pattern. Don't act too cool or beta. Let her know how you feel but keep seeing other girls, even if you don't feel like it.

Be prepared for when she comes back and tells you she 'needs' you.

I have to agree with this.

 

[Atalaya]

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You mean swerved.

 

[legarcon]

I've been in this for months my friend. Mark my words, this will become a pattern. Don't act too cool or beta. Let her know how you feel but keep seeing other girls, even if you don't feel like it.

Be prepared for when she comes back and tells you she 'needs' you.

well i´ve been trying to look cool and pretend it isnt affecting me, though the first week after we broke up i tryed approaching her and she literally told me she didnt feel anything for me anymore and since then i try to act cool, do you hink i should tell her i miss her?

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Hey I remember this. You made a thread saying how you were trying to pick your girl up, it didn't work out you said some stuff on Facebook and she was mad at you.

Is this still that same chick? Move on with your life, if she said it then and she's still saying it take a hint. You can't force someone to love you.

 

[Mr Akatsuki]

well i´ve been trying to look cool and pretend it isnt affecting me, though the first week after we broke up i tryed approaching her and she literally told me she didnt feel anything for me anymore and since then i try to act cool, do you hink i should tell her i miss her?

I know exactly what you mean. You should distant yourself for a while (as hard as it is) but that doesn't mean that you have to cut her out of your life. Pushing her will only annoy her. Give her some space by waiting for a couple of days. If you really do wonna send something, text something short at night like 'miss you' but no more.

Keep it subtle and give her her space. By dropping a subtle hint she'll know she's on your mind. If she doesn't act on it, it means she doesn't miss back (yet).

 

[legarcon]

Hey I remember this. You made a thread saying how you were trying to pick your girl up, it didn't work out you said some stuff on Facebook and she was mad at you.

Is this still that same chick? Move on with your life, if she said it then and she's still saying it take a hint. You can't force someone to love you.

i´m not trying to get her back, if she comes back that will be her own decision i won´t chase after her anymore, i was just commenting how quickly it all happened and how quickly she got over me or at least how quickly she gathered the guts to say she didnt feel anything after so little time.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

i´m not trying to get her back, if she comes back that will be her own decision i won´t chase after her anymore, i was just commenting how quickly it all happened and how quickly she got over me or at least how quickly she gathered the guts to say she didnt feel anything after so little time.

That's what I'm saying though, you got to move on. What does thinking about how she feels solve? Especially when she doesn't care about you.

Which is most likely a lie, but thinking about it is wasted effort imo. Which is easy for me to say, I know. But there's truth in it.