Wife-beating husband gets 30 lashes

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Even though she is the one hitting you, she probably feels more pain than you have.
It's not like she is enjoying herself by hurting you.. There must be a story behind this. >_>
Yes, because when she laughed at me because I wouldn't hit her back she was actually dying inside. Btw didn't mention she bloodied my nose multiple times when we were younger.

I'm the bad guy in this situation because I'm male?
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Going all feminist on me pretty quickly.
 
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Yes, because when she laughed at me because I wouldn't hit her back she was actually dying inside. Btw didn't mention she bloodied my nose multiple times when we were younger.
Maybe she didn't get enough love from you? :shrug:
Tbh I understand your situation. I used to hit brother for ignoring me. >_>
That's a long story. The point is that we made it up, he ignores me less now.
Anyway, I'm sure she never meant to make you nose bleed and that she won't (that's at least what I think) say sorry unless you said it first.
 

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Maybe she didn't get enough love from you? :shrug:
Tbh I understand your situation. I used to hit brother for ignoring me. >_>
That's a long story. The point is that we made it up, he ignores me less now.
Anyway, I'm sure she never meant to make you nose bleed and that she won't (that's at least what I think) say sorry unless you said it first.
So, what you're saying is it was alright that she hit me because "I didn't love her enough", if this situation was flipped and I was the one that hit her would you make excuses for me? Would it have been alright because "she didn't pay enough attention to me" or "I didn't get enough love from her"?

This is to me why things are flawed. It's only 'wrong' or 'sexist' or 'bad' if a male does it, but if a female does it it's still the male's fault because he did something wrong. Like ignored her or didn't pay enough attention to her or "didn't love her enough". I didn't love my cousin enough so it was alright for her to randomly punch me in the face then run off laughing.

What if a male has anger issues is it okay for him to hit his gf or his cousin (female) for that matter because she made him mad or ignored him or didn't love him enough? Hell no, but you basically said it's okay for a women to.

Should this be law and do you think this method will work on man?
I think no matter, how much pain he is going through, at least he is learning from his mistakes. ^_^
Kinda hard way to teach him a lesson.. But still.. His wife had it harder. D:

Should they try out this method out on America?
Going back to this. If the situation was reversed would the punishment fit the crime? If a women was hitting her husband, and harming him because he ignored her or something. Would 30 lases be a proper punishment? This is why I said I don't think the punishment was correct. Yes either person deserves to be punished for being abusive but it should be something like jail time or time in a mental institution to work out their mental or emotional problems. Punishments should always fit the crime for male or female no matter who broke the law.
 
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Maybe she didn't get enough love from you? :shrug:
Tbh I understand your situation. I used to hit brother for ignoring me. >_>
That's a long story. The point is that we made it up, he ignores me less now.
Anyway, I'm sure she never meant to make you nose bleed and that she won't (that's at least what I think) say sorry unless you said it first.
Even though she is the one hitting you, she probably feels more pain than you have.
It's not like she is enjoying herself by hurting you.. There must be a story behind this. >_>
Going to go out on a limb here. My sister who I've been with my entire life slowly became a drug addict and an alcoholic that craved attention and if she didn't get her way on things she'd lash out and attack you, we both had the same problems growing up, we had it extremely hard, growing up in abandoned houses homeless shelters and just many, many bad things. Her bf got into a car accident, he broke nearly every bone in his body. He had a car laying on him. He recovers a bit after 2 months, he still has weak bones, partially broken still and not strong. It hurts him to walk. My sister is prescribed medicine that she abuses simply because she likes being high. Her bf manages her medicine because she will take too much if he doesn't. So she started beating him in his weakened condition because she wanted the drugs. Was she in the right for having a hard life? No, there is a point of sanity, a barrier, a line in the sand where you must be able to register that "This is wrong.". When you do not have that barrier, you are not sane, you are no longer with an ideal set of morals, you are only thinking for yourself and the priorities go Things you want>People you care about. Before that accident, she lashed out on my mom, she lashed out on my brother, she lashed out on her bf. I had witnessed this several times, it was almost an every day thing. I was taught to never hit a woman, I was taught to walk away. However, there isn't anything to walk away from when a person like that is someone you live with. She woke up one night, my sister had always been my best friend despite everything she did, she was the one person that I could relate to before she became unstable. I wanted nothing for that bond to be back again so I was nice to her as always and treated her no different than ever. She woke up, complained that there wasn't any food in the house. I told her I had two chicken strips in a bag in the freezer, it was my dinner but she could have it and I would cook it for her. Suddenly, she turned on me, right there as I was sitting in my chair drawing for an art project, talking to her. She came at me like she did to my other family members. She attacked me and suddenly, in that moment you think "If you let her do this, she will think she can do it to you any time she wants like she does to your mom, your brother and her bf who is also a good friend." So, I fought back, after she busted my nose, with my nose bleeding, I threw on the ground, slammed her hard, hit her, went to her computer that she was addicted to (I built the computer for her) I took it apart piece by piece and threw it all across the room and put her hard drive in the sink. She went from a girl that would beat my family members up, with them with blood showing all over, to someone that was actually too scared to do that again. It's not something that is a good thing, none of this story is and no one in it is better than the other person. However, it shows that people that lash out in violence, need to be shown that you will not take it. The people that cause violence can just cause violence out of pure ignorance. Effects that life has on a person does not make them a bad person as my sister is. When you cause violence to people that have shown you love your entire life, it defines who you really are. Also as a side note, I don't have the morals to be nice enough to let someone attack me. They hit me, by law I have the right to beat the shit out of them in self defense. However, if it was a wife, I'm gone. I'd just walk away.
 
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So, what you're saying is it was alright that she hit me because "I didn't love her enough", if this situation was flipped and I was the one that hit her would you make excuses for me? Would it have been alright because "she didn't pay enough attention to me" or "I didn't get enough love from her"?

This is to me why things are flawed. It's only 'wrong' or 'sexist' or 'bad' if a male does it, but if a female does it it's still the male's fault because he did something wrong. Like ignored her or didn't pay enough attention to her or "didn't love her enough". I didn't love my cousin enough so it was alright for her to randomly punch me in the face then run off laughing.

What if a male has anger issues is it okay for him to hit his gf or his cousin (female) for that matter because she made him mad or ignored him or didn't love him enough? Hell no, but you basically said it's okay for a women to.

Wow, let me tell you this.
I don't know a thing what happened between you two, so I'm not going to tell you she was wrong. Like a said before there must be a story behind this all. My brother still ignores me sometimes 'cause I annoy him. And I'm fine with it, I just don't care anymore. U_U
But just few years ago I hated it and fought him if he was ignoring me. Lol. But I never hit him in the face and ran away laughIng like your cousin did. >_>
I asume you are older than her, right?
If you want to fix "the problem" between the you two than try to talk to her. (Not saying you should give her love immediately)

Succes.
 

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Wow, let me tell you this.
I don't know a thing what happened between you two, so I'm not going to tell you she was wrong. Like a said before there must be a story behind this all. My brother still ignores me sometimes 'cause I annoy him. And I'm fine with it, I just don't care anymore. U_U
But just few years ago I hated it and fought him if he was ignoring me. Lol. But I never hit him in the face and ran away laughIng like your cousin did. >_>
I asume you are older than her, right?
If you want to fix "the problem" between the you two than try to talk to her. (Not saying you should give her love immediately)

Succes.
Honestly I don't care to fix the relationship. She hit me, I don't care to deal with people like that. I don't hit others and I will not deal with people especially a girl who knows I won't hit her back, hitting me.

You however did make multiple excuses for her without knowing the situation, going as far as blaming me "for not giving her enough love". Reinforcing the "it's okay for women to hit men but not for men to hit women" thing. It's a two way street, neither gender should be able to abuse the other in any way shape or form. That's my humble opinion.

You say she was wrong now that I called you on the fact that you blamed me. :shrug:
 
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Honestly I don't care to fix the relationship. She hit me, I don't care to deal with people like that. I don't hit others and I will not deal with people especially a girl who knows I won't hit her back, hitting me.

You however did make multiple excuses for her without knowing the situation, going as far as blaming me "for not giving her enough love". Reinforcing the "it's okay for women to hit men but not for men to hit women" thing.

You say she was wrong now that I called you on the fact that you blamed me. :shrug:

"It's okay for women to hit men but not for men to hit women" Is seriously a terrible thing for people to think. It annoys me to no end at how ignorant people can be. Here most women are striving for equality to men around the world (feminist groups who are pretty much scum, well, most at least.) It urks me at how a lot of feminists will say they want equality and yet say women should be able to hit men but men can't hit women. It's the uneducated that say that. No one is better than another, Females and males are equal in this world and should be treated as such. Just like with Races. Being a different gender should not give you an advantage, if someone hits you, they go to jail for assault like anyone else. If a woman hits a man, she is just as bad as a man hitting a woman.
 
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This type of shit is getting out of hand. Especially that female over in india who was raped and beaten. She died yesterday.
 

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"It's okay for women to hit men but not for men to hit women" Is seriously a terrible thing for people to think. It annoys me to no end at how ignorant people can be. Here most women are striving for equality to men around the world (feminist groups who are pretty much scum, well, most at least.) It urks me at how a lot of feminists will say they want equality and yet say women should be able to hit men but men can't hit women. It's the uneducated that say that. No one is better than another, Females and males are equal in this world and should be treated as such. Just like with Races. Being a different gender should not give you an advantage, if someone hits you, they go to jail for assault like anyone else. If a woman hits a man, she is just as bad as a man hitting a woman.
-I kindly agree with this, but..

What stated in the main topic isn't the same as Howard's nor mine problems. This man wounded his wife badly
Now, she will live her entire life with scars on her face.. Just awful.
The problem between Howard and his niece is way differently than this. This man hurt his "love"..
A man shouldn't lose his controll and hit his woman nor should she.. >_>

This type of shit is getting out of hand. Especially that female over in india who was raped and beaten. She died yesterday.
That's just awful. :(
 
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-I kindly agree with this, but..

What stated in the main topic isn't the same as Howard's nor mine problems. This man wounded his wife badly
Now, she will live her entire life with scars on her face.. Just awful.
The problem between Howard and his niece is way differently than this. This man hurt his "love"..
A man shouldn't lose his controll and hit his woman nor should she.. >_>


That's just awful. :(
Cousin, not niece.
 
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