from most of those posts i can say most of you are afraid of commitment or just trolling on my thread but there is few who gave me answers even if it make no sense but who am i to judge your culture .
becoming different doesn't mean you are wrong
so plz give ur answer or leave no trolls wanted here
You know i've had an egyptian guy ask me the same question. He lives in Dubai right now thats where i met him.
And he too whas completly puzzled with the same question. I'll give you a proper explanation and you'll see that you live in a whole other world that has nothing to do with commitment. And honestly the guy i knew had the same mentality and i wanted to smack he's face for it too. Like your culture is not the same as mine is it cause you people are scared and chicken?
Dude i now too want to flame you so bad. Do you understand why i and others hate you now?
Good, lets move on.
First of all why would we have to be afraid? We have this thing called divorce, wich means we can end the marriage so i find it pretty much a stupid (and narrow view) assumption of you to say cause you fear commitment. Cause you can easily get out of it. (i'd love flame so bad on this part but i wont). And because you can easily get out of it just doesn't have the same value as it does for you people in your culture. Look at people in hollywood they marry all the time and divorce all the time. Thing is not everyone has the money to go around paying for marridges every 2 years or so. Ofcourse normal stay with the same woman for approx 10 to 20 years. Some there entire lives it depends on what both the couple wants.
Second because the woman here are 100% the equal of men. No bride treasure or whatever (i don't egyopt has this but lots of islamcountriues have it so). Also if you say wife shut she must shut up (or be slapped around or stonyfied or whatever they do in muslim countries i don't even want to know). I know Egypt is not pakistan but still. Here the wife doesn't have to listen any more then you do. So because of this there is a much bigger chance of divorce.
All of this marriage and divorce bussiness is really really expensive. Also when divorcing your assets become devided. In most cases the men have more money because they work more hours woman. So suppose the woman has saved 1000$ and the man has saved 2000$. They each would get (1000$+2000$)/2=1500$ per person. The woman has gained 500$ the man has lost 500$. It can be the other way around as well if the woman has 2000$ and the man has 1000$. Do you understand that?
All of this makes our marriage a completly diffrent setting than what you understand.
I on the other hand will not marry even though i have a g/f for 8 years now. I'm an atheist will not marry because it is a religious thing. Just like you will mary because you feel you have to i feel that i shouldn't.
Now there you have it. answered the question and tried to keep my cool. But just so as you know it's the' same thing like talking bad of islam you people get pissed too. Don't talk bad about my culture it makes want to rip your ****ing head off! So i really hate you and hope you ****ing die.