Why do women say they want a good guy but always want the bad ones

[Balaze21]

I wasn't talking about you specifically, I was talking in general.

I hope so if not sorry didn't mean to come off a lil edgy then

 

[Dannie]

I came across an independent study that was interesting.Women stayed with controlling and domineering partners despite lies,cheating, and abusive treatment recieved from the males. (Alpha Male) While the women the women left or cheated on men who were sensitive,caring,and thoughtful.(Beta Male) They shared the house chores,pulled in equal income,and did things couple should do.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

 

[Seventh Sama]

What about good looks and money?

Good looks, money, confidence, charm and humor would attract many, many women.

 

[Intuitive Mode Naruto]

Hmmmmmmmmmm

What's the hmmm for exactly? What are you thinking? o.o

 

[Dannie]

What's the hmmm for exactly? What are you thinking? o.o

That's an interesting study because it is actually true, mostly.

 

[Indora]

Good looks, money, confidence, charm and humor would attract many, many women.

now the list is complete

 

[123fire]

Bad girls take bad boys , good girls take good boys

 

[Ldude]

*Fedora'ing intensifies*

Lol.

Some women like looks, some like personality, and some women like men with bad personalities. I don't know how to explain everyone's preferences though.

 

[NineSNS]

Same reason that people know that vegetables are good for you, but choose to eat junk food instead.

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

If you actually wanna know the real answer to your question, it's this:

Confidence. "Bad" boys are confident, they take charge when they need to, they're strong. Women aren't attracted to them being bad, they're attracted to these traits. If you're a nice guy with these traits, then you'll attract them too. Stop complaining about women loving bad boys, and go grab life's balls and be confident, take charge every now and again, be strong.

This said most of it but if i add something, if you are a nice guy, girls start to think that you're a potential mate ( there's many things to lose, if they act way they're ) that makes them behave like a proper woman around you and that pressures them but with bad boys, they're much more free ( they feel there's nothing to worry about or lose by acting way they're ) and if this bad guy became a nice guy then there's no need to go to that nice guy again but you shouldn't blame women it's just way it is .

 

[A Dolla Make Ya Holla]

beta levels rising

RISING

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Acquire major currency and none of that will matter.

 

[Intuitive Mode Naruto]

This said most of it but if i add something, if you are a nice guy, girls start to think that you're a potential mate ( there's many things to lose, if they act way they're ) that makes them behave like a proper woman around you and that pressures them but with bad boys, they're much more free ( they feel there's nothing to worry about or lose by acting way they're ) and if this bad guy became a nice guy then there's no need to go to that nice guy again but you shouldn't blame women it's just way it is .

I wouldn't believe that for a second. That sounds pretty silly.

 

[Demonic.]

Dude I've even seen fatasses with hot girls

 

[GhostProject]

Because people only value kindness when they expect indifference or meanness. Bad/abusive people are never expected to be nice, so when they are nice, it has a higher value to a girl AND she will think "hey there's something special about me," due to this rare occurrence.

When nice guys are nice all the time to a girl, there's two common lines of thought from a chick:

1. This guy is hiding something, can't be trusted. He probably just wants something. Probably a creep.

2. The woman will not value your kindness because once they get to know you, the kindness is expected. It becomes taken for granted, and a douchebag being nice has more value than you being nice.

Being nice only matters to a girl when it has value, and it cannot have value when you are nice all the time. Therefore, bad guys > good guys are generally the choice women will make.

 

[Intuitive Mode Naruto]

Dude I've even seen fatasses with hot girls

Lmfao. There are different reasons for that.

 

[Funky Tiger]

You are 200% correct, good sir. I tip my fedora to you.

 

[EmotionalRockfish]

Why do men say women are after bad guys but then go and complain about pretty shallow women who are after looks? Is that because that's what peak their attentions most?

'Nice Guy' syndrome. These dudes usually think they're the 'good guys' and that other dudes are 'bad boys'. Of course they're usually only trying to be nice to 'score', so women can usually tell and avoid their fedora asses. Then they complain about 'them *****es'.

Not in every case, but whenever I hear this shit I presume the worse.

Completely serious: at the core it's about men feeling entitled to women. And it's disgusting.

EDIT: Actually I hope idiot men start trying to be *******s. Women will know who to avoid.

And don't mention Sakura. She is a character written by a man.

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

I wouldn't believe that for a second. That sounds pretty silly.

It's fine, just believe what you feel like want to believe in and there's exceptions .

 

[Forest]

Like if you ever noticed some not all women say they want a good man but always like a guy with the looks over personality then when they end up with them sometimes they are happy. I just don't get it is it cause they shallow or hypocritical of themselves. A perfect example is like Sakura liking sasuke and naruto being good guy when sasuke left naruto was their to comfort her just like what happens in most cases whats ur take on it?

It's shallow of you to assume all girls are this way. Also are you comparing fictional characters to real life? damn homie. The world is too big, if you are young just develop your self and have patience. You moping about stuff like this is just weakness.

Dude I've even seen fatasses with hot girls

It's not about what's on the outside. There's no excuse for these dudes stuck on girls playing them. Stop simping 2k14