Why do some people do like nontraditional is bad ?

[Sakura Michiko]

This is not about hate. She's just being a child in front of a mature community.

You have to take in account that humans are very good at variables which means that they are very good at adopting ideas no matter if they are youngsters or adults. They can see something your brain can't see yet and attach to it. Thus making you a threat to what they saw because you might not be in accordance to them.


No offense but you feel like you just wanna protect her. While no one from this forum is attacking her. She just needs to understand some things about what she does wrong and what the people around do wrong to her so she can evolve and adapt. Talking is evolving.

Explain to me how I'm being a child from stating an opinion. I am specifically talking about certain people and not a full group because I understand that hasty generalizations aren't valid.I did say that I don't mine if others want to be traditional but I don't like for it to be forced on me, and I actually understanding what the word traditional means. How am I doing anything wrong? Expressing an opinion is wrong now or something because I truly don't see what is wrong?I didn't say "Traditional is bad" because it is not. I'm just not traditional. I don't see the purpose of attacking others outside of that social norm. Now if I was telling these people that traditional is bad than I would be immature and childish.

 

[Namar]

I don't think he is understanding my point of view. My point is I'm pretty much not apart of the social norm or some social norm. I get attacked by these extremist about how I am and looked down upon.I clearly put that I wasn't talking about all traditional people and if someone wants to be traditional that is fine but don't try to tell me I have to.But the other poster things I have a mindset problem. I just wanna know why different is looked at as bad by some.It's amazing the other poster called me a kid.But what did I do that is child like?

Listen, your mindset is what holds you together and makes you who you are at this point. The fact that you pose as this different person who some people disrespect (they disrespect your mindset-the way of doing things or seeing things- not your person). Is probably because you force your ideas on them when they try to tell you something. In this case you have a communication issue because you don't know when to stop. You can simply let people to talk and do things your way. It's that simple.

Now, to come back to what I said earlier. Because you obviously decided not to understand is that people treat you this way because you threaten their beliefs and you act to them like this because they threaten your understandings.


One more thing. You look like a self bragger (a rare logical sakura appeared and you are only talking about your opinion while the other's opinion don't matter to you). You are pretty much self centered.


Wow you really don't understand. You are not being a child because you stated an opinion. You are being a child because you react to this problem in a childish manner. That's why I told you to grow some skin.

And really to let everyone know. Write down below exactly and specifically what you talk about by saying traditions. Because traditions can be very well interpreted in various ways in case you didn't know. Write down. Traditions such as: social traditions, tradition such as a way of doing something, traditions such as holydays.

You can be interpreted in many ways.

 

[BSK]

Of course it's not possible. Everyone judges or forms an opinion of someone within seconds of just hearing a name!
She was attacked, though. That's not judgment. That's cruelty.

She is being a baby. Not one thing she mentioned was cruel in any way. She is being judged and needs to suck it up.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

No disrespect, but you seriously need to look up the definition of traditional...
You cannot make a tradition in one lifetime. So if you are,"untraditional," you are simply just that. But if your children or someone else's children follow your precedent, it becomes a tradition.

Listen, your mindset is what holds you together and makes you who you are at this point. The fact that you pose as this different person who some people disrespect (they disrespect your mindset-the way of doing things or seeing things- not your person). Is probably because you force your ideas on them when they try to tell you something. In this case you have a communication issue because you don't know when to stop. You can simply let people to talk and do things your way. It's that simple.

Now, to come back to what I said earlier. Because you obviously decided not to understand is that people treat you this way because you threaten their beliefs and you act to them like this because they threaten your understandings.


One more thing. You look like a self bragger (a rare logical sakura appeared and you are only talking about your opinion while the other's opinion don't matter to you). You are pretty much self centered.

The rare sakura fan thing was a joke because some people here thing we are all silly because we have people that say "Sakura>NV" or something. Like I said I'm not forcing anything on anyone as I stated in a previous post. You really don't understand my post.

 

[BSK]

Clearly that is obvious that someone is going to judge but don't you think it is a bit asinine for someone to be upset at someone who isn't the same as them?

Yup, but its nothing to get worked up over, leave them be and live your life how you want to.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Yup, but its nothing to get worked up over, leave them be and live your life how you want to.

Maybe for you but not everyone is the same.

 

[PlatinumTitan]

She is being a baby. Not one thing she mentioned was cruel in any way. She is being judged and needs to suck it up.

Attacked. Again. If you don't see that as cruelty, you are a very immoral person.

 

[Namar]

Attacked. Again. If you don't see that as cruelty, you are a very immoral person.

Actually that is not an attack that is a statement and it is his opinion of her.
An attack refers to as something physical.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Attacked. Again. If you don't see that as cruelty, you are a very immoral person.

I remember I use to let people walk all over me when I was young because I didn't express myself. I got sick of that.Why should I not be allowed to express my opinion? I think some people on this post is really failing to understand that.

 

[Namar]

The rare sakura fan thing was a joke because some people here thing we are all silly because we have people that say "Sakura>NV" or something. Like I said I'm not forcing anything on anyone as I stated in a previous post. You really don't understand my post.

Again, you only react and respond to something that speaks bad of you. You ignore what was written above.

I think I explained to you the essence of your issues. In the many above replies.

 

[PlatinumTitan]

Actually that is not an attack that is a statement and it is his opinion of her.
An attack refers to as something physical.

I was not referring to what he said. Re read SakuraMichiko's post. As he should. She was physically attacked.

 

[PlatinumTitan]

I remember I use to let people walk all over me when I was young because I didn't express myself. I got sick of that.Why should I not be allowed to express my opinion? I think some people on this post is really failing to understand that.

Yeah. It's truly starting to get annoying.

 

[Namar]

I was not referring to what he said. Re read SakuraMichiko's post. As he should. She was physically attacked.

I thought you spoke of his post.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Yeah. It's truly starting to get annoying.

Yes,very annoying..... :dead:

 

[Namar]

Listen girl. I've reread your post.

The idea is that you threaten their ideology and whatever else they think you do.

They decided to believe in something to which you pose a threat by being different.

You are not the first victim there were countless wars based on religion and the muslims still kill for religion in case you don't know.

People will always react bad to something different. Even your non reaction or deciding not to believe in their religion is an act of agressiveness for them.

This doesn't mean you are the right person out of all this.
Just because you decided to take something as it is and believe in it doesn't make you right you might be very wrong or they might be very wrong.

So, just because you have a brain and the capacity of choosing something through your thinking doesn't mean it is good. This is what most people fail to understand and refuse to rethink their ways.

 

[BSK]

Attacked. Again. If you don't see that as cruelty, you are a very immoral person.

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I was not referring to what he said. Re read SakuraMichiko's post. As he should. She was physically attacked.

I'm actually a very fair, moral, honest person and I can see clearly that this is not cruelty. She never said she was physically attacked.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Listen girl. I've reread your post.

The idea is that you threaten their ideology and whatever else they think you do.

They decided to believe in something to which you pose a threat by being different.

You are not the first victim there were countless wars based on religion and the muslims still kill for religion in case you don't know.

People will always react bad to something different. Even your non reaction or deciding not to believe in their religion is an act of agressiveness for them.

This doesn't mean you are the right person out of all this.
Just because you decided to take something as it is and believe in it doesn't make you right you might be very wrong or they might be very wrong.

So, just because you have a brain and the capacity of choosing something through your thinking doesn't mean it is good. This is what most people fail to understand and refuse to rethink their ways.

Yea it is possible that I can be wrong.I know I'm not perfect..My grammar is a good example of that and my pan agnostic belief can be wrong..if heaven and hell is real I know I'm going to hell.

 

[Namar]

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I'm actually a very fair, moral, honest person and I can see clearly that this is not cruelty. She never said she was physically attacked.

She didn't. She left it out to interpretation. But if she was attacked physically or not has little importance. Because one leads to the other. The problem cannot be discussed here because we don't know all the insights. This is clearly something between a small group of people because they know each other lol. We don't know how how she reacted in the past maybe she was agressive and now she's playing the bunny role and feels like a victim or maybe she was never bad with them and they are just brainless monkeys who act on instinct. Either way She might very well have a communication issue and get very easily angry on words that put her to her place or make her look bad. This topic is ended because of very little information on such issues.

 

[BSK]

Yea it is possible that I can be wrong.I know I'm not perfect..My grammar is a good example of that and my pan agnostic belief can be wrong..if heaven and hell is real I know I'm going to hell.

Lol I dont even know what to say about that.

 

[Namar]

Yea it is possible that I can be wrong.I know I'm not perfect..My grammar is a good example of that and my pan agnostic belief can be wrong..if heaven and hell is real I know I'm going to hell.

And the last part about heaven and hell is just stupid I would have taken my hat off in front of you if you wouldn't have said that. If you want to talk with me about heaven or hell, PM me I'll be willing and glad to share and exchange impressions with you upon this idea.