Why are girls so complicated?

[mdavedinero]

Guy its their nature to be complicated

 

[darth mik3]

Ask her why she needs some time alone. It might be a personal thing or something important is happening in her life. I think you should try to talk about it, it's not right for her to just walk away from you after being together for a long time. She could at least explain why she needs space but as I said above, it might be something personal or important..
Take care and I hope it was a bit helpful..

she tells me she already tried explaining why and i didnt get it. man im so stupid.

 

[darth mik3]

If she doesn't want to open up to you about her feelings, then counterattack by subtly making her feel bad...Malicious but effective.

But seriously Ask her to open up to you because it looks like somethings wrong, that is really the best thing you can do...If she doesn't see you as a person she can open up to and tell all things then the relationship isn't going to go far...

that first thing, i actually tried and it worked a couple months back but i decided its best not to use that its f'ed up. and she does tell me personal things that bug her and stuff and its not stuff thats easy to clear up.

Well the best thing u can do for her is tell her your give her space and that your there for her if she needs u.

thats pretty much what i might do.

Guy its their nature to be complicated

thanks tell me something i dont know lol

 

[DevilRat]

there's no understanding, most likely shes seeing what her options are and keeping you around for back up incase things aren't as green on the other side. speaking from experience, it hurts but you can't change it her mind is made up. Sorry i know how you feel

 

[lubricati0n]

Ditch her.

 

[kellzfresh]

Girls do that sometimes when
1. there has been quarelling between two of you
2. or meets a new guy she likes but still loves you and is not sure.
Just tell her u will be dere for her when she needs u, and hold her hand and look into her eyes and say it like you mean it.
It will mostly pull her closer to you xd

 

[Sasunarufan13]

Try asking her why she wants time apart and ask for a straight forward answer if she was really that vague about it.
Besides that, just give her that time and let her know you're there for her if she needs you. Maybe this time apart will even be a good thing, who knows? *shrugs*

 

[Aura]

Sometimes people need time alone..
Ya know? Like me, Oh wait. I'm always alone....

 

[Kazamori]

Doesn't sound like complicated to me.

 

[Nocturne]

Sometimes people need time alone..
Ya know? Like me, Oh wait. I'm always alone....

jee thats sad...its the same with me too...U_U

but about the topic....umm they r not really complicated...they just want attention...so due to that they just...keep on denying on everything we do and doesn't like what we do and think like...they r just nothing imo...

but not all the girls are like that...those who hide everything are the ones complicating...maybe thats because theyr afraid they might lose their ego with that...

but some girls are straight forward...i like them...they are open and can share everything with boys....i mean not EVERYTHING but seriously almost everything....like in nb...i find some girls straight forward to me and i feel comfortable with them aswell...because they dont annoy me with their girly talk......nuf said...U_U

 

[JojocIaw]

We are complicated because you guys make us. If you would listen you wouldn't be fumbling this question around. xd

 

[Prince of Persia TTT]

Sometimes people need time alone..
Ya know? Like me, Oh wait. I'm always alone....

Me too :noc:

but that bothers me the least
and about this issue umm..
its better to stop talking to her and just give her the time to think
most probably she likes some other guy and sorry bro but I dont think this relation is going to last any further bcoz this is what girls mean when they need time to think about their relationship

moreover if it was issue about her family life or anything other than that she would have shared the problem with you but its the other way around you see

 

[Rasenloki]

IT'S USUALLY ANOTHER GUY! that's the main reason women all of a sudden need space. you guys seem young, females at that age do that all the time bruh.

 

[JojocIaw]

From what I read the OP say I know exactly what she is trying to say with "I need space" thing.

She doesn't want to be with you. The easy way to brake up with you is to ask for space and totally ignore you. Relationships are tricky. Give them no space and you are labeled as clingy. Give them too much space and they go off and eff someone else.

 

[Out Of Ctrl]

If I were you mate I'd keep other options open as well just in case lol. So if this road did led to you being dumped you can come out and say well I had a back up too.

 

[Eano]

let her alone for a short time (and using it to analyze your behaviour) that's what she needs now, and what she is expecting from you... if she loves you everything will be okay be patient don't go crazy... if not, you can't do anything to change her mind, it's kinda complicated indeed...

 

[shukuzu]

So im with this girl and im in love. we have been together for almost a year now and a lot has happened. recently things got a little complicated and she said she needs a some time alone. she says she doesnt want to lose me at any costs but she needs this time away from me to think.
im a guy and this is tearing me up because i think pretty straightforward. why are women so complicated??

are you guys together everyday? do yall give eachother a chance to breath? hang out with your friends, she hang out with her friends? maybe she just needs a few to collect herself. but dont at any cost contact her first. She wants some time alone then give it to her. Dont call her text ehr email her facebook her tweet her nothing! make her miss you. even if it is driving you crazy. Make her wonder...hmm damn this boy hasn even reached out to me yet, wonder what he is doing, wonder if he misses me. as long as you are on her minf you are doing your job. go do something. focus on school, family, friends, get some hobbies, make some money. Do anything but give her attention right now. Because if you try she may get annoyed with you then...well thats usually when the relationship turns sour. And remember that every relationship has its ups and downs. No relationship is perfect. and seing how you have only been together for a year(which is not a long time honestly) you ahve a long way to go. Is it up to you two to get past the low that your relationship is having and remember why you two fell in love in the first place. best of luck to you

 

[Wannabebetter]

Girls are so complicated because boys are so simple; we need to balance the powers on earth, that's all. U_U

 

[Mindless]

that first thing, i actually tried and it worked a couple months back but i decided its best not to use that its f'ed up. and she does tell me personal things that bug her and stuff and its not stuff thats easy to clear up.

Dude sometimes you needn't bother with clearing things up for her, since all she needs may be someone willing to listen to her. For girls just loving them is not good enough and it's good that you are now thinking about her....just let her know that by 'giving her space' as she says. Then again trust your instinct and don't stay out of touch for too long. Anyways good luck buddy

 

[Amv93]

Of course, Girls are always complicated