Why are girls so complicated?

[darth mik3]

So im with this girl and im in love. we have been together for almost a year now and a lot has happened. recently things got a little complicated and she said she needs a some time alone. she says she doesnt want to lose me at any costs but she needs this time away from me to think.
im a guy and this is tearing me up because i think pretty straightforward. why are women so complicated??

 

[-S-]

I dunno.

 

[lol99]

then start thinking in a complicated way

 

[UchihaBrat]

She gave no reason as to why she needed to think, did she?

 

[Ninpou]

Its best if you dont think about it and just tell her to call you when she needs/ wants you.

 

[darth mik3]

She gave no reason as to why she needed to think, did she?

all she said is to give her space to sort out her mind. she said i need to start thinking more clearly and then i can decide on us. she said i dont want to lose you thats why i need this time

 

[Punk Hazard]

all she said is to give her space to sort out her mind. she said i need to start thinking more clearly and then i can decide on us. she said i dont want to lose you thats why i need this time

its best to chill imo.

 

[UchihaBrat]

all she said is to give her space to sort out her mind. she said i need to start thinking more clearly and then i can decide on us. she said i dont want to lose you thats why i need this time

Which implies that something is making her doubt her feelings for you, I'm guessing. Well, not her wanting to be with you, but rather how she wants to be with you.
Best of luck to the two of you!

 

[Zawar]

take them as inverse of guys
so it hard to understand them

and for problem

do the same as she is doing
ignore her for some days maybe a week or a month and she will call you

 

[rawrrawr]

Shes not seeing something in you that she wants to see

 

[UchihaBrat]

Shes not seeing something in you that she wants to see

I think it is more mutual than so~

 

[Itachi Uchiwa]

Its best if you dont think about it and just tell her to call you when she needs/ wants you.

that's my opinion ! ^ and don't give her the feeling that you're SO worried.

 

[skehan17]

well I'd be pissed if this was happening to me man. I'd tell her atleast to give me a reason an if not I'm out of there

 

[DracoHazel]

'Here's all you need to know about men and women: women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is men are stupid.' -George Carlin

 

[darth mik3]

Shes not seeing something in you that she wants to see

yes but its hard to tell what!! i know that she wants to see something and i atually hit the bullseye the other day. but then she said it wasnt exactly what she was expecting! omg its so specific and she wont tell me what it is i have to figure it out! makes things so damn hard

 

[LMoiskool]

I dunno either and I'm a girl. Why does she need space for? If its something really thing like family wise then yeah ok. girls that want time away from their guy are either thinking of ending the relationship or just testing who is the boss in the relationship coz girls will not want to be apart from their man under no circumstances!!! (unless funeral, work etc etc) ask her str8 out why do u need time apart are your feelings for me changing?

 

[darth mik3]

I dunno either and I'm a girl. Why does she need space for? If its something really thing like family wise then yeah ok. girls that want time away from their guy are either thinking of ending the relationship or just testing who is the boss in the relationship coz girls will not want to be apart from their man under no circumstances!!! (unless funeral, work etc etc) ask her str8 out why do u need time apart are your feelings for me changing?

yea some of it is actually family related.

 

[xlilyx]

Ask her why she needs some time alone. It might be a personal thing or something important is happening in her life. I think you should try to talk about it, it's not right for her to just walk away from you after being together for a long time. She could at least explain why she needs space but as I said above, it might be something personal or important..
Take care and I hope it was a bit helpful..

 

[ShishaMastah420]

If she doesn't want to open up to you about her feelings, then counterattack by subtly making her feel bad...Malicious but effective.

But seriously Ask her to open up to you because it looks like somethings wrong, that is really the best thing you can do...If she doesn't see you as a person she can open up to and tell all things then the relationship isn't going to go far...

 

[LMoiskool]

yea some of it is actually family related.

Well the best thing u can do for her is tell her your give her space and that your there for her if she needs u.