The title say it all but who do u thing is a real man base on responsibilities and courage
I say both.
Itachi thought like a Hokage and cared about the village as a while and was never bound to his clan but he did care for his parents as shown when he cried before killing them
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. He was the captain of the anbu and did all missions given to him. Shisui also tried protecting the village as well and it was Shisui who over all convinced Itachi to do what he did
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What he did wrong was that he forced his younger brother to become evil:
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, this put not only Konoha in danger but the whole shinobi world since Sasuke wanted to destroy Konoha and became so twisted that he described killing Danzo as a high he never felt before
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. Even though he joined Akatsuki to keep an eye on it from the inside and to protect Konoha from being attacked, he was still aiding them by not opposing them and helping with the sealing of the Bijuus which led to Juubito.
Minato, before he was Hokage effected the 3rd Shinobi war in such a big way that he was wiping out whole platoons of consisting of Chunins and jounins (only ones that fight in wars) He was a sensei to Kakashi, Rin and Obito and left the battle front to save them
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, Flee on sight orders were given to Oonoki's shinobis during the war
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. Minato was the only person to find Kushina when cloud ninjas kidnaped her for her special chakra (which was Kurama as A said so when meeting Minato)
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. He carried out a lot of missions for the village, one that made him face A and Bee for the first time and their comrade wanted to flee upon figuring out who Minato was while A should how he was impressive that Minato single handedly stop their mission on taking the 9 tails
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Minato and A also faced off when their were kages, each protecting their own villages
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. He put not only Konoha's well being over his and his family, he put other village's well-being first when he chose to seal Kurama into Naruto. He could have chose to live by letting Kushina seal the fox before dying but he didn't want the fox to revive later on without a host since he'll be too dangerous, nothing would stop him from returning to Konoha for revenge or being captured by another village for more power. He chose to seal half the fox into Naruto so Naruto can use its power to stop Tobi and believed in his son to be able to do it, this is risking his son's happiness for the village (keep the power among the nation balanced) and the whole ninja world (Tobi).
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Minato admitted that he failed to be a good father because he left Naruto all alone, that if he didn't die then he might have been able to handle the Uchiha's coup differently, failed to realized Obito was Tobi and try to help him and not saving Rin.
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Both served and died for the better of the village and felt guilty for the things they caused or failed to do. Over all Minato's plan did work out but that's beside the point since that's not OT.