When did you choose your sexuality?

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This is in my opinion one reason. Look. You said you were raised as Christians and that's a kind of a development. In your development are different norms and values as in other familys.
It's not a proven fact, so yes it's clear that your post was an opinion. And you're nitpicking. You say environment shapes a person's sexuality, which, it could influence it, but ultimately does not make the decision. Just like you don't choose whether you're white, black, Asian, and so on. You can only pretend to be something for so long until you're forced to face the truth.

Exactly, but I don't go around acting like I do like the fools on page one do
Your post was on par with the people you're talking about though. You said it with just as much confidence, as if you could prove it.
 
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Eh, IMO when a toddler experiences penis envy (for girls) and then castration anxiety (for boys).

Then they overcome/stagnate/ something different happened in their Oedipal and Electra complexes stage, so they pursue the opposite/same ***.

In my case when I had a crush on the opposite ***, who was my classmate/playmate.
 
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It's not a proven fact, so yes it's clear that your post was an opinion. And you're nitpicking. You say environment shapes a person's sexuality, which, it could influence it, but ultimately does not make the decision. Just like you don't choose whether you're white, black, Asian, and so on. You can only pretend to be something for so long until you're forced to face the truth.
Yeha of course it was an opinion. How should I clearly know why someone goes gay or lesbian? I'm not a scientist or something like that hahah XD

... but that's no argument. I mean you can't choose you skin or your culture, sure, but you can't say that youre forced to face the truth to be someone you might think you are. Just three little examples. Same place but other background.

Ex.1) You're born as (boy) on a island with only mens.
Ex.2) You're born as (girl) on island with only ladys.
Ex.3) You're twins. (Boy and Girl) on a island with men and ladys.

I would bet that the first one would be gay, the second one a lesbian and the last one isn't sure. Like i said development but also you're not born and your destiny whatever it is, is decided. I mean if you really think so, then sit and wait.
 

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Okay, first of all, why would you think movies with gays in it are annoying, are you homophobic? Second of all, there are plenty of movies without gay people in them. Thirdly, I think someone here who is gay might be offended by that statement, so what you said might not have been the smartest thing to say. And even if nobody here is gay, I don't know why you would say such a thing. Your little television serves as little to no justification for that statement.
I have no problem with gays as long as they keep a good distance......i just think that what they do is wrong I have my own opinion it dont mean im homophobic i just dont agree with it and find gay relationships disgusting.
 

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I have no problem with gays as long as they keep a good distance......i just think that what they do is wrong I have my own opinion it dont mean im homophobic i just dont agree with it and find gay relationships disgusting.
Isn't that the definition of homophobia :sweat:
OT: To answer the Thread it was when i saw my first porno, so when i was 5(i am straight)
 
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I have no problem with gays as long as they keep a good distance......i just think that what they do is wrong I have my own opinion it dont mean im homophobic i just dont agree with it and find gay relationships disgusting.
You say you have no problem with them, yet you say what they do is disgusting and you AREN'T homophobic. Thats like me saying I don't have a problem with Asian people, then going on to say what THEY do is disgusting and that I'm not racist.
 
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Isn't that the definition of homophobia :sweat:
OT: it was when i saw my first porno so when i was 5
Lol i grew up in a really Homophobic environment(Jamaica) they dont like homosexuals too much all i grew up hearing was bun battyboy fire pon a battyboy.....but still im not homophobic if a gay man got hit by a car i would call a ambulance to save him if i was homophobic i would just ignore him and let him die :|.
 

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You say you have no problem with them, yet you say what they do is disgusting and you AREN'T homophobic. Thats like me saying I don't have a problem with Asian people, then going on to say what THEY do is disgusting and that I'm not racist.
See thats your defense you keep relating homophobia to racism its not the same give up.
 

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Life hasn't given me much chance to explore my sexuality yet. I've only ever dated girls but i'm undeniably bicurious and would want to give it a chance one day.

Luckily I live in a pretty accepting society if I ever did which is more than I can say for other places.
 

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See thats your defense you keep relating homophobia to racism its not the same give up.
You are an idiot, the only difference between the two is that they are based on sexuality or race. Other than that, it is all discrimination. Almost NO difference between any form of discrimination, so the fact that you think they're worlds apart in difference shows how one-sided your thinking is.
 
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