Whats your thoughts on dating between friends

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Do you think it's a good idea or something you should stay away from.
 

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If you have a chance of overcoming the friend-zone then by all means have at it.
 

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Good friends make the best lovers they know you and do t have to impress you and you know how to communicate with each other. So long as the romantic feelings are mutual then I’m all for it.
 

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Not a good idea, date should be only with spouse
 

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Good friends make the best lovers they know you and do t have to impress you and you know how to communicate with each other. So long as the romantic feelings are mutual then I’m all for it.
An interesting take.
 
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How does that make sense?
Are you saying that you should marry a stranger first then date them?

Friends usually don't end up getting married and it usually ends up badly when they break up as well.
 

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Friends usually don't end up getting married and it usually ends up badly when they break up as well.

Actually statistics show couples who start out as friends actually have a longer marriage than those who aren’t.

But that’s an old study done pre hookup culture. I wonder if that still holds true today?
 

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Friends usually don't end up getting married and it usually ends up badly when they break up as well.

I was just letting you know that what accept pain said didn’t make sense. He only said “date should only be with spouse” which sounds like he believes in arranged marriages where sometimes strangers marry, then after marriage they begin the dating phase of getting to know each other.
 
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I was just letting you know that what accept pain said didn’t make sense. He only said “date should only be with spouse” which sounds like he believes in arranged marriages where sometimes strangers marry, then after marriage they begin the dating phase of getting to know each other.

Ok. I misread what he said then, but I don't recommend dating a friend you know for years.
 

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If you're not scared of risking friendship, go for it.
 

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From my group of friends two of them started a relationship that lasted 3 years. I and others knew her before he did and yet we weren't really allowed to talk to her anymore. It eventually broke up the group into two. But I can't blame him. She's half polish-half dutch and a seriously good looking woman.
 

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I have no friends or dates so I wouldn't know.
 

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How does that make sense?
Are you saying that you should marry a stranger first then date them?
yes absolutely because every girl is a gift of God to a man, so a man must admire her as a wife first and then date her
 

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its chill, ideally if you want to be in a long term relationship with someone you should be friends, if youre not friends and just **** and live together, thats not going to last. if you just want to bust in your friend, maybe rethink it

but you can still shoot your shot with your friend and still be friends after if it doesnt work out, just have to communicate. ive done it, ive even dated female employees and have that not work out. maturity plays a big role in it
 
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