[Debate] What would you do?

ateista

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Hi,

Excuse my gram, its been a while that i used this language.
There is one think that si bothering me for a while.
I nad my ex girlfriend are apart for a while now, its been a few years now.
But we are still together because we have a son.
There was time when i can go and see him anytime, and i could stay there for night and so.
But i knew that the time will come whnes she will meet someone.
And that time has come last year, i told her that i wish for her that she will be happy and i would do anything to make her happy.
But then i find out that she was dating a friend of mine.
I said to me that i must accepted it, but that frined has already a girlfriend and he cheated her with me ex-girlfriend.
The thing is that i hate when someone is cheting someone and is hurting that persone.
I said to my ex-girlfriend that i say nothing to the girl and i made a promise.
Because of that promised that i made, i have bad feelings and i start to write with that girl that was cheated becasuse we were friends.
I tried to act like a support piler for her for the time whnes she didnt have any real clue that her boyfriend is chetating on her.
One day shre write mi a message and ask my why did i write her, i write her back that i havent see her for w hile and i like to know have she is doing.
But she say to me that she has a feeling that her boyfriend is cheating her.
She has a meesege that was incorrect send to her and not to me ex-girlfriend.
She knew what was happening a she did make a nessesary steps to end that relationship.
Because of this her boyfriend made a step back and tried to get back his girlfriend but it was to late, his let me ex-girlfriend alone and she was very very sad because for what was happen to her.
She was happy but only for a little while.
That friend of my is none more my friend and i hate him for what he did.
After a time a meet with his ex-girlfriend and we start to hang out for a while, we find out that we start to have feelings for each other.
It didnt ended with happy ending because i was to afraid to make a mistake that i did with my las relationship.
I know i made a great mistake and because of that mistake i was again alone but on the other side that girl have luck and she meet samoone and she is very happy know.
She said that she is very grateful for what i did for her.
But know my ex-girlfriend ask me question about this case, if i said something to that girl or not.
I didnt say anything but still i have bad feeling and i dont know what should i do.
Should i say to her what happend or should i keep this a secret for all times?
I know this was very long but i tried to make as short as possible.
I would like to her what would you do on me place?

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Raxido

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Sorry to hear about this, on topic though, I persoanlly wouldnt say anything to her and just keep it a secret so that i could go on with my life... but thats just my opinion im sure others will have a better opinion.

*Love no Thotties*
 

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<div class="bbWrapper">Oh wow. Well it's not her business but I don't see any harm in telling her. You seem to be struggling by keeping the secret. Just get it off your chest. It might help you feel better.</div>
 

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I choose to say it. She accepted it veery well and said to me thats she is sorry that it didnt end with a happy ending with that girl.
I feel better now because i dont need to keep that secret in my soul anymore
 
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