What should I do?

Itachi75

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i think confessing is the best thing that you did.!!

i dont know about the others but i feel that way...

when you confess to someone then that person obviously starts to see you from different perspective...!!

Most of the time, its a positive perspective change, i mean come on how can you hate someone who loves you.!!

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you better not be trolling dude.!! XD

BTW, itachi75.??
why 75.??

why not 69.??

XD

Why would i be trolling. I am very confused on this issue, so confused I brought it up on narutobase. that shows something....
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I think you are right, because afterward I have seen her change lol. I just hope that she can like me back, or tell me 100% that she doesn't like me so I can do away with these feelings lol. I hate it when things are up on the air lol.
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I just like 75. lol.
 

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such as ending your context with a dot. and then using the exclamation mark.?!! <-- (like that?)



yeah right... Casanova! all men say that!

lol.!!

something along those lines.!!

its good to see that you understand.!!
 

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such as ending your context with a dot. and then using the exclamation mark.?!! <-- (like that?)



yeah right... Casanova! all men say that!
I hope you know I am being dead serious....
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Women aren't tools for men to sleep with or use as objects of sexual release.
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I have always been mature and understanding of concepts of these, I think that can be due to my religious/scientific/moral lifestyle. lol
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A pure mind leads to a pure heart lol
 

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I hope you know I am being dead serious....
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Women aren't tools for men to sleep with or use as objects of sexual release.
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I have always been mature and understanding of concepts of these, I think that can be due to my religious/scientific/moral lifestyle. lol
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A pure mind leads to a pure heart lol

Are you real
 

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I hope you know I am being dead serious....
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Women aren't tools for men to sleep with or use as objects of sexual release.
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I have always been mature and understanding of concepts of these, I think that can be due to my religious/scientific/moral lifestyle. lol
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A pure mind leads to a pure heart lol

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Well thats part of it, the main problem i have is what she siad, I mean she says she doesn't really see me that way, but then says that she doesn't like saying things like that, becuase her view of me can change.
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I mean if she just said, "I don't think I will ever see you as more then a friend" and left it at that, I would understand, but to add, "but it can change" has left me kind of speechless. I mean, should I keep pursuing her and that she may see me as apotential love interest, or just give up on this issue entirely.
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If i could just hang out with her, I know this whole thing would be resolved, but that isn't possible lol

So make her feelings change :)
 

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hire some "criminels " to grab her and then save her ... become her superhero... this way she will fall for you .....(don't know if this was your problem , but I gave an Idea :hint:)
 

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what would I have to gain for lying?
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I am being serious.
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This is a real situaiton for me, and I am desperate to figure out what to do lol

idk man but if you're being legit, you probably deserve her. If you're willing to respect her and you're not going to use her, then just be patient and let the relationship progress naturally. It sounds like you're in a bit of an uncomfortable position right now, but you're also at a point that could definitely lead to a relationship later. So just wait it out and hope for the best. ^_^
 

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Send her a message right now about what you feels on the moment ( then wait her to reply and don't send another because she didn't replied , wait for her to reply at least for a hour ) come on man , show her , let her feel you are worthy for her love .
 
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Love her.... the thought of have *** with her hasn't even entered my mind....

then i sugguest you tell her how you truly feel.

And if she doesnt feel the same way she isnt for you.

you cant force someone to love you.

And it sounds like she has other "people" in her life as well.


How long have you known each other?
 

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I dont think "the way she look at you" changed from last time in just 4 weeks .

However She might warmed up to you .





why everyone telling him to confess his feelings ?

From his story .He already did that .
 
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then i sugguest you tell her how you truly feel.

And if she doesnt feel the same way she isnt for you.

you cant force someone to love you.

And it sounds like she has other "people" in her life as well.


How long have you known each other?

In my OT I wrote I already confessed to her about 4 weeks ago, her response was a confusing one, her saying, "I don't really see you that way, but I don't really want to say that though becuase they can change"
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since then we have grown closer, like I wrote before when I saw her on sunday her eyes lit up and she greated me with a great smile.
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I know that you can't force someone to love you that is why I am confused on what to do. I wish she just said, "I don't think I will ever see you that way" then I could have this resolved and move on.
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In my OT I wrote I already confessed to her about 4 weeks ago, her response was a confusing one, her saying, "I don't really see you that way, but I don't really want to say that though becuase they can change"
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since then we have grown closer, like I wrote before when I saw her on sunday her eyes lit up and she greated me with a great smile.
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I know that you can't force someone to love you that is why I am confused on what to do. I wish she just said, "I don't think I will ever see you that way" then I could have this resolved and move on.
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from what im reading thats what she wants to say, but doesnt want to hurt your feelings.

still idk the whole situation and i dont kno if she playing hard to get...

but there are some red flags that you shouldnt get to attached to her.

If you have attachment issues like me
 

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So anyway after getting to know her for a while I finnaly confessed my feelings to her and she said these two things, "I don't really see you in that way," and, "I don't want to say anything because it may change later"

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It's a trap.
She wants to keep you in the friendzone . U_U
 
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