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I have had crushes on girls in the past, been on a few dates,so I know what it is like to like a girl and be involved with them.
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However I finnaly found a girl that meets every single one of my attributes I was looking for in a potential partner, and exceeds them infinitely. I am extremely drawn to this guy lol.
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So anyway after getting to know her for a while I finnaly confessed my feelings to her and she said these two things, "I don't really see you in that way," and, "I don't want to say anything because it may change later"
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so now I am confused. this was about 4 weeks ago and we have been getting closer, and when I saw her on sunday, her eyes lit up when she saw me and she gave me the biggest smile I have ever recieved from her.
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So... I know this is narutobase and everything, but I have no idea what to do next lol.
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I know she is warming up to me, we started talking around the last week of november of 2013 and we have hung out a couple time, but nothing major, she is really busy so she can't hang out wth me or anyone for that matter, so we can't really hang out now.
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I am basically just playing this by ear, and trying to figure out what to do. lol
 

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Itachi75 said:
I have had crushes on girls in the past, been on a few dates,so I know what it is like to like a girl and be involved with them.
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However I finnaly found a girl that meets every single one of my attributes I was looking for in a potential partner, and exceeds them infinitely. I am extremely drawn to this guy lol.
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So anyway after getting to know her for a while I finnaly confessed my feelings to her and she said these two things, "I don't really see you in that way," and, "I don't want to say anything because it may change later"
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so now I am confused. this was about 4 weeks ago and we have been getting closer, and when I saw her on sunday, her eyes lit up when she saw me and she gave me the biggest smile I have ever recieved from her.
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So... I know this is narutobase and everything, but I have no idea what to do next lol.
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I know she is warming up to me, we started talking around the last week of november of 2013 and we have hung out a couple time, but nothing major, she is really busy so she can't hang out wth me or anyone for that matter, so we can't really hang out now.
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I am basically just playing this by ear, and trying to figure out what to do. lol
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It's a shemale? :|

Anyway grab a pic, fap to it and it'll be over.
 

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where the fu.ck is the problem.?? :what:

im confused, what are you confused about.??

is your problem, that you dont get to see her.??
 
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Itachi75 said:
However I finnaly found a girl that meets every single one of my attributes I was looking for in a potential partner, and exceeds them infinitely. I am extremely drawn to this guy lol.
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Shemale? o_O
 
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reizon said:
where the fu.ck is the problem.?? :what:

im confused, what are you confused about.??

is your problem, that you dont get to see her.??
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Well thats part of it, the main problem i have is what she siad, I mean she says she doesn't really see me that way, but then says that she doesn't like saying things like that, becuase her view of me can change.
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I mean if she just said, "I don't think I will ever see you as more then a friend" and left it at that, I would understand, but to add, "but it can change" has left me kind of speechless. I mean, should I keep pursuing her and that she may see me as apotential love interest, or just give up on this issue entirely.
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If i could just hang out with her, I know this whole thing would be resolved, but that isn't possible lol
 
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Kidnap her and keep her in your basement.
 
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I don't think you should be asking VIRGINbase this question. Most of these people don't know what girls are. Anyway, I think you should wait a little bit more to confess your feelings again, so you can see what happens (I.E if you guys get closer). Maybe, wait a week or so, or until you guys hang out again to confess your feelings. If she doesn't feel the same way, then move on. It sounds like she really likes you, though. I hope she isn't leading you on, that would be really f*cked up. Girls are weird haha. I hope this helps =).
 
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1 question

do you love her? or do you just want to get inside her?
 
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Tentenfanboy said:
I don't think you should be asking VIRGINbase this question. Most of these people don't know what girls are. Anyway, I think you should wait a little bit more to confess your feelings again, so you can see what happens (I.E if you guys get closer). Maybe, wait a week or so, or until you guys hang out again to confess your feelings. If she doesn't feel the same way, then move on. It sounds like she really likes you, though. I hope she isn't leading you on, that would be really f*cked up. Girls are weird haha. I hope this helps =).
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that is what I really want to do. However it doens't appear that she will have the time. I wish she could get some freetime soon lol
 

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Itachi75 said:
Well thats part of it, the main problem i have is what she siad, I mean she says she doesn't really see me that way, but then says that she doesn't like saying things like that, becuase her view of me can change.
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I mean if she just said, "I don't think I will ever see you as more then a friend" and left it at that, I would understand, but to add, "but it can change" has left me kind of speechless. I mean, should I keep pursuing her and that she may see me as apotential love interest, or just give up on this issue entirely.
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If i could just hang out with her, I know this whole thing would be resolved, but that isn't possible lol
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i think confessing is the best thing that you did.!!

i dont know about the others but i feel that way...

when you confess to someone then that person obviously starts to see you from different perspective...!!

Most of the time, its a positive perspective change, i mean come on how can you hate someone who loves you.!!

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you better not be trolling dude.!! XD

BTW, itachi75.??
why 75.??

why not 69.??

XD
 
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Chloroform, I might add.

She can be all yours.
 
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