[Discussion] what should i do?

[Prince of Persia TTT]

im not offeneded your right but i just wished it would not go like this

Dude we cannot just quit becoz we are going through a hard time to tell you the truth i enjoy my life others can take a sh*t
i dont care :scorps::scorps:

 

[mcchikeneater]

not to be funny, but you have the makings of a rapper

Not a rapper, this sounds more like a country song.

 

[Darthlawsuit]

First off.... Him being stupid and wasting his money on a trashy girlfriend is not your fault, it is his. Maby he fears being alone (I have seen some men like this) and will do anything to try not to be alone. Perhaps she is manipulating him (dunno). This is his choice and not yours. You can try to sway him over time but avoid direct confrontation as then they will resist what you say. Slow subtitle manipulation is the best way

You probably never learned this because of your mom issue.... but guilt trips are one of the best things you can do on men. If you can make a guy feel guilty and put them in a position where they cannot say anything to dodge the issue then you can get them to give in to your complaints.... My mom used this on me all the F***** time :shrug:

You really do a lot of stuff. Have you ever thought of doing less? Just sit back and play some video games? For some reason people think they HAVE to do lots and lots of random things to (unable to comprehend).

If your dad keeps skipping the time you are suppose to spend together then assume he will skip it and just go see your grandma if it is a choice between time. You don't HAVE to spend time with your dad you want to. He doesn't seem to want to so just don't spend any time with him for a long time. Perhaps he will notice that "wait... when was the last time I spent time with my son" or he will be dumb and think "Oh he doesn't need me anymore" <_<;; That kind of depends on your dad's personality. If you want to be evil keep a log of all the times he skipped out on you XD

Last.... If you want to kill yourself just hold your breath until you stop breathing. If you cannot do that then you don't really want to kill yourself, you are just being a drama king. Slap yourself and suck it up. I'd try to slap you but I would just break my screen D:

Also don't let people walk all over you, that will ruin your life in the long run. Many push over's date skanks that use and abuse them and just take it until they finally crack.

 

[mcchikeneater]

First off.... Him being stupid and wasting his money on a trashy girlfriend is not your fault, it is his. Maby he fears being alone (I have seen some men like this) and will do anything to try not to be alone. Perhaps she is manipulating him (dunno). This is his choice and not yours. You can try to sway him over time but avoid direct confrontation as then they will resist what you say. Slow subtitle manipulation is the best way

You probably never learned this because of your mom issue.... but guilt trips are one of the best things you can do on men. If you can make a guy feel guilty and put them in a position where they cannot say anything to dodge the issue then you can get them to give in to your complaints.... My mom used this on me all the F***** time :shrug:

You really do a lot of stuff. Have you ever thought of doing less? Just sit back and play some video games? For some reason people think they HAVE to do lots and lots of random things to (unable to comprehend).

If your dad keeps skipping the time you are suppose to spend together then assume he will skip it and just go see your grandma if it is a choice between time. You don't HAVE to spend time with your dad you want to. He doesn't seem to want to so just don't spend any time with him for a long time. Perhaps he will notice that "wait... when was the last time I spent time with my son" or he will be dumb and think "Oh he doesn't need me anymore" <_<;; That kind of depends on your dad's personality. If you want to be evil keep a log of all the times he skipped out on you XD

Last.... If you want to kill yourself just hold your breath until you stop breathing. If you cannot do that then you don't really want to kill yourself, you are just being a drama king. Slap yourself and suck it up. I'd try to slap you but I would just break my screen D:

Also don't let people walk all over you, that will ruin your life in the long run. Many push over's date skanks that use and abuse them and just take it until they finally crack.

very nice, I would +rep you if you liked to be rep'd. It sounds like this guy is making way bigger of a deal than really needs to be. Instead of being jealous that your dad is giving someone else attention, try to be the bigger person and be happy for him that he found someone he wants to be with. Grow up you don't need to spend your entire life up your dads ass. Do something for yourself for a change. I'm 22 years old and I have almost never had a conversation with my dad in my life, and I grew up living with him and was raised by him, but he is a cold heartless ass and hated kids. Your being very childish about your dad having someone else in his life, and your acting like a spoiled little brat being jealous for attention, get over it. I really hope your no older than 11 or 12 because if not then your wayyyyy too old to be acting like that.

 

[izinagi54]

very nice, I would +rep you if you liked to be rep'd. It sounds like this guy is making way bigger of a deal than really needs to be. Instead of being jealous that your dad is giving someone else attention, try to be the bigger person and be happy for him that he found someone he wants to be with. Grow up you don't need to spend your entire life up your dads ass. Do something for yourself for a change. I'm 22 years old and I have almost never had a conversation with my dad in my life, and I grew up living with him and was raised by him, but he is a cold heartless ass and hated kids. Your being very childish about your dad having someone else in his life, and your acting like a spoiled little brat being jealous for attention, get over it. I really hope your no older than 11 or 12 because if not then your wayyyyy too old to be acting like that.

for the record
yeah im not a spoiled brat
secondly i have lost many people in my life my uncle, my cousin, my friend and my grandfather all in a 3 1/2 year period so yeah forgive for trying to reach out for help but thank you or should i say no thank you because i already knew the world was a cold heartless bitch like my mother is. i am blessed because i would be dead right now. i have been smashed into a wall as a baby. overdosed, almost drowned, had a gun pointed at my face by my own mother. so don't sit there like you know me becuase you don't and probably never will. you want know somthing im not being childish when he constantly puts me on a back burner he was late to my graduation from middle school he was late for everything in my life because of some stupid *****. maybe the reason why im up my dads ass becasue besides him i have only my grandmother to turn to. so don't ever say im immature about this because the only one that has raised me was my grandmother and grandfather. i just want my dad there for me but the reason why i want kill myself becuase im scared. im scared of being alone and watching peolple around me die so **** you and the rest of the people who says i need to grow up. because i have and im just pissed can i be like every other human bein on the planet. or would you just rather let me suffer in silence because i have talked to him and he still does it besides the ***** cheats on him for money so there you go

 

[Izzy..]

Sometimes the cards we are dealt aren't always the pleasant ones. We need to be strong and live for ourselves because no one else will. You have many difficult choices ahead and I can bet some of them will be worse than the ones you make today. Just hold your head up high and remember that wherever you are now, it was because of you, no one else.

As far as family problems go, they will always be there. No matter where you go they will always be on your mind. What I suggest you do first is ask yourself some questions. (how old are you btw?):

- Why do I need to spend time with my father at all?
- Is it because I want to be loved?
- Am I looking for approval and of what?
- Why is he so important other than that fact he is my father?
- Is he a crutch/hindrance to my life?


You need to begin living for yourself not for him. He has his life and you have yours. Enjoy your youth while you have it because when you get old you won't be at the same capacity. Stop listening to everyone around you and start listening to the one person who has been with you all along, your heart.

 

[Wakizashi]

you choose your grandma. i have learned that people aren't going to change. they just say that they will so they can keep you around and use you. so go to where you feel that life can be better. you can do that or you can strike some fear in his heart. people react upon fear.

 

[mcchikeneater]

for the record
yeah im not a spoiled brat
secondly i have lost many people in my life my uncle, my cousin, my friend and my grandfather all in a 3 1/2 year period so yeah forgive for trying to reach out for help but thank you or should i say no thank you because i already knew the world was a cold heartless bitch like my mother is. i am blessed because i would be dead right now. i have been smashed into a wall as a baby. overdosed, almost drowned, had a gun pointed at my face by my own mother. so don't sit there like you know me becuase you don't and probably never will. you want know somthing im not being childish when he constantly puts me on a back burner he was late to my graduation from middle school he was late for everything in my life because of some stupid *****. maybe the reason why im up my dads ass becasue besides him i have only my grandmother to turn to. so don't ever say im immature about this because the only one that has raised me was my grandmother and grandfather. i just want my dad there for me but the reason why i want kill myself becuase im scared. im scared of being alone and watching peolple around me die so **** you and the rest of the people who says i need to grow up. because i have and im just pissed can i be like every other human bein on the planet. or would you just rather let me suffer in silence because i have talked to him and he still does it besides the ***** cheats on him for money so there you go

Make some friends?

I have never got along with my father, and my mother went through a phase after my parents split up where she was dating this total douche that I hated, and she chose him over me and actually left me living in my car in Florida, where she convinced me to move, because he didn't want me around. Instead of bugging her and trying to pressure her to change, I just ignored her for a year, and eventually she realized what she had done and came to her senses. sometimes you need to let people make their own mistakes, and in the mean time go outside and meet some people, get a girl friend, or just some regular friends. Distract yourself from the issues instead of sitting alone dwelling on them.

 

[Wakizashi]

Make some friends?

I have never got along with my father, and my mother went through a phase after my parents split up where she was dating this total douche that I hated, and she chose him over me and actually left me living in my car in Florida, where she convinced me to move, because he didn't want me around. Instead of bugging her and trying to pressure her to change, I just ignored her for a year, and eventually she realized what she had done and came to her senses. sometimes you need to let people make their own mistakes, and in the mean time go outside and meet some people, get a girl friend, or just some regular friends. Distract yourself from the issues instead of sitting alone dwelling on them.

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the best way for people to learn is by experience better known as the hard way. while she does that spend time with your friends or partner. they are there to try and make your life better but if you don't reach out then they won't be able to help. friendship involves people looking out for each others smiles on their faces.