What is your relationship with your parents?

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You're a good son. Your mother should be proud ^_^

O.T; My mom is more like a best friend to me and I love her the most.
And I love and respect my dad a lot too.
So yeah, I'm really good with my parents ^_^
 

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Great with my mum.

Dad and I, don't talk all that much at all.
 

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I actually have a similar story to the person who made this post, I was 1 and a half when they got divorced, dad is an idiot from my point of view, my mum and brother are the 2 people I would give my life for and hopefully I can take care of my mum when I start a job
 

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Not gonna write a paragraph but the relationship with my mom is better.
 

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I am better than them at life and there is nothing they can do about it.

It is sad, with the biblical body structure i posses, it is impossible for them to stop me.
 

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I don't have a good relation with my parents. With my whole family we were always more like strangers who live under the same roof.
Sorry to hear about that and hope that things can better. It's never too late to mend relationships.
cant fully form a bond with neither of them
Same as above; hope everything gets better for you and just try to be the best child you can.
I can't tell.. because I shit on every expectation they have, but at the same time I am respectful and caring. So It's kind of in-between.
Those are good qualities you have and about the expectations, just try your best. That is the most anyone can expect of you.
My mother is like my sister. We can talk about anything and we fight all the time. lol
That reminds me of my the relationship between my mom and my sister.
Good with my mom. Nonexistent with my dad since they are divorced and we don't interact.
Yea, divorce is pretty common so it doesn't suprise me that so many members are from broken families like myself. At least we still have a mom, some kids don't have a single parent.
Me: Great, she nags a lot and we don't talk much, but we love each other and there's no huge dysfunctions between us or anything

Dad: Don't have one
Yea, mom's always nag but that just shows they care and sorry about your relationship with your father. Sidenote: you are one of my favourite posters so keep it up!

I love and hate them at the same time U_U
LOL! Try to love them more and hate them less.
You're a good son. Your mother should be proud ^_^

O.T; My mom is more like a best friend to me and I love her the most.
And I love and respect my dad a lot too.
So yeah, I'm really good with my parents ^_^
Wow, good for you for having a good relationship with both and thanks for the nice words and the rep.
Great with my mum.

Dad and I, don't talk all that much at all.
Sometimes, mothers are all we need but sorry to hear.
I actually have a similar story to the person who made this post, I was 1 and a half when they got divorced, dad is an idiot from my point of view, my mum and brother are the 2 people I would give my life for and hopefully I can take care of my mum when I start a job
Nice dude! You do have a similar outlook on life as myself. Take good care of your family.
Not gonna write a paragraph but the relationship with my mom is better.
Thanks for responding and most people get along with their moms as I have observed.
I am better than them at life and there is nothing they can do about it.

It is sad, with the biblical body structure i posses, it is impossible for them to stop me.
LOL! You are another one of my favourite posters and most parents want their kids to be better than themselves so you fulfilled their wish.
 

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Mother: I tell her absolutely everything, she's both a mother and a sister to me. She doesn't judge me, she gives me the best advice, and I feel that we have the best mother/daughter relationship a person could ask for. Sure, we argue sometimes, occasionally we piss each other off, but I adore her so much <3

Father: We grew very close when I was about 18 due to mutual medical problems, but he died when I was 20. He was a troubled soul, I regret not understanding him sooner. I have so much respect for him, though. What I'd do to have him back x)
 

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Mother: I tell her absolutely everything, she's both a mother and a sister to me. She doesn't judge me, she gives me the best advice, and I feel that we have the best mother/daughter relationship a person could ask for. Sure, we argue sometimes, occasionally we piss each other off, but I adore her so much <3

Father: We grew very close when I was about 18 due to mutual medical problems, but he died when I was 20. He was a troubled soul, I regret not understanding him sooner. I have so much respect for him, though. What I'd do to have him back x)

Aw, sorry to hear that and at least you grew close before his passing even if it was not as long as you would have wanted. Keep close to your mom and your relationship with her sounds awesome.
 

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Aw, sorry to hear that and at least you grew close before his passing even if it was not as long as you would have wanted. Keep close to your mom and your relationship with her sounds awesome.

I'm just grateful for the time I did have with him ^_^ I actually just got a fortune cookie that said "as every thread of gold is valuable, so is every moment of time". How appropriate :p

Anyone that can consider their parent a best friend is extremely lucky. I'm thankful for that :3 my brother and I are also very close. I love my family very much <3
 

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Its good to have parents who care about YOU, not your Grades :|
 

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Its good to have parents who care about YOU, not your Grades :|

True and I understand as some of my friend's parents care so much about how their kids do in school and not enough about the kids themselves. I know in India and other Asian countries, grades are very important to parents and they are very strict. I do feel for you and sometimes, my mom is like this but I just tell her that I am trying my best and that I can't do anymore than that.
 

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My Mom: talk to her over the phone 0-2 times a week (some weeks it's 0 others its 1 or 2) so all in all i would think i have health relationship with my mom.

My Dad: I don't talk to him, and I never plan to do it again, I only tolerated his presents as long as he was married with my mom, which he finally isn't anymore, they got divorced here 2-3 months ago, I've told him out right that I could care less about him, if he lives or dies, is totally irrelevant to my life, and I wan't nothing to do with him what so ever, this was made quite obvious to him when he was rushed to the hospital do to internal bleeding's in his lungs. I was told by the doctors that I should get to the hospital asap so i could say my goodbyes to him, do to the fact that if he even woke up again (which was unlikely, not highly unlikely, but unlikely) he would most likely be mentally "damage" do to the lack of oxygen he had suffered. (he woke up fine, no mental damage at all, and have sins made a full recovery) (which i could care less, about had he died it would not have made any difference to my life, I only see him as by biological father, to me i simply have no father, he is just a person of my past I have no desire to ever see again)
 

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My Mom: talk to her over the phone 0-2 times a week (some weeks it's 0 others its 1 or 2) so all in all i would think i have health relationship with my mom.

My Dad: I don't talk to him, and I never plan to do it again, I only tolerated his presents as long as he was married with my mom, which he finally isn't anymore, they got divorced here 2-3 months ago, I've told him out right that I could care less about him, if he lives or dies, is totally irrelevant to my life, and I wan't nothing to do with him what so ever, this was made quite obvious to him when he was rushed to the hospital do to internal bleeding's in his lungs. I was told by the doctors that I should get to the hospital asap so i could say my goodbyes to him, do to the fact that if he even woke up again (which was unlikely, not highly unlikely, but unlikely) he would most likely be mentally "damage" do to the lack of oxygen he had suffered. (he woke up fine, no mental damage at all, and have sins made a full recovery) (which i could care less, about had he died it would not have made any difference to my life, I only see him as by biological father, to me i simply have no father, he is just a person of my past I have no desire to ever see again)

Sorry to hear about your relationship with your father and it seems like it can't be fixed/ you don't really care anymore. As long as you have your mom it is good I guess. Also, nice avatar of Kira.
 

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Sorry to hear about your relationship with your father and it seems like it can't be fixed

Your correct, it's to late, way to many episodes in my life where he have totally disappointed me, never supported me in anything i enjoyed, just to name on episode: My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer 7 years ago, and it had even spread to the lymph nodes, and all my dad said about it was: when your mom is gone, don't expect anything from me. (when i was younger i hated him, not the hate have simply died, and I am left with no feelings towards him of any kind, so it's not that I wish he was dead or anything, i'm just utterly indifferent towards him)


you don't really care anymore.

correct, though you can easily delete the world "really" from the sentence, this statement: I don't care. Is how i feal about it.

As long as you have your mom it is good I guess. Also, nice avatar of Kira.

Ye as long as I got my mom everything is swell, and thanks, i really like that avatar :)
 

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OP, your story is sort of similar to mine LOL. And my mum is probably not as nice as yours, but we're still very close.

I didn't work in a factory like you did, I worked in a Japanese restaurant when I was in high school. And for me, they divorced much later on so I grew up in a violent household before we left.

Thing is, my dad used to be really nice - someone I used to look up to. People described him as charming, helpful, all that. But he changed when I was 4 or 5, and that started a chain of 'events'.

In short:
Father - don't talk to him unless I'm checking up on le half sister.
Mother - we're close. :p
 

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OP, your story is sort of similar to mine LOL. And my mum is probably not as nice as yours, but we're still very close.

I didn't work in a factory like you did, I worked in a Japanese restaurant when I was in high school. And for me, they divorced much later on so I grew up in a violent household before we left.

Thing is, my dad used to be really nice - someone I used to look up to. People described him as charming, helpful, all that. But he changed when I was 4 or 5, and that started a chain of 'events'.

In short:
Father - don't talk to him unless I'm checking up on le half sister.
Mother - we're close. :p

I guess a lot of people had similar experiences growing up. Sorry to hear about your father and I am kind of lucky that I don't remember the divorce well while you had to endure it at a later age. Hope things are well and thanks for answering.
 

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I guess a lot of people had similar experiences growing up. Sorry to hear about your father and I am kind of lucky that I don't remember the divorce well while you had to endure it at a later age. Hope things are well and thanks for answering.

Hah, no need to be sorry, I actually don't care about the topic anymore tbh. And yup things are going great, thank you and same to you. :)

`Sides these kinds of experiences aren't all bad. Sometimes I'd wake up as a kid and the first thing I'd see is a flying phone headed straight for my face (from their fights) so yaknow, dem reflexes be honed at an early age (at least I'd like to think so). Leel
 
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