[Discussion] what is true love ?

[gstk1991]

Yea seriously how to know whether is a love is true love or not I have cheated by girls many time.Some times they drawed me in to serious situations . I have bullied many time by their real boy friends.. How to know a girl is cheating on you or not

A pain in the ass :-/

 

[Asu Be]

true love is when she keeps sucking after you just came ❤❤

 

[DaVe14]

true love is when she keeps sucking after you just came ❤❤

I'm weak XD lmfao but true though!! Or she just a nasty hoe!!!

 

[Katkot]

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no more......

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speaking as a married man, you just know

I have had girlfrens, but haven't truely fallen in love so I can't really tell.!!

I'm sure a playboy like you would eventually figure it out.!!

True love is when you only whant to have *** with him/her all your life.
That is true love!

"What is true love?" I have a simple two word answer to this question

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A MYTH​

read some books on how to find out if a person is lying

To find a girl that actually loves you for you

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A pain in the ass :-/

true love is when she keeps sucking after you just came ❤❤

So many un-mature answers , you kids need to grow up ..

 

[Mari Makinami]

So many un-mature answers , you kids need to grow up ..

And asking 'what love is', when you're 22 years old, on some anime-baised forum is indeed very mature. Such question can be asked if you're either yoo young to find your answer yourself, or if you're old enough and deepened into philosophy, trying to figure out some fundamental questions of our world, which of course have no correct answer, merely points of view. If this is the second case, then it most sertainly is not the right place to discuss such thing, it's pure logic: the majority of people most likely won't take it seriously.

 

[razz143]

when someone buys you Ben & Jerry's Cookie Dough... that's true love!

no seriously though... don't get hasty... don't rush into relationships!
learn to know the girl first... and go on from there... make sure she's "fighting" for you... don't let her get you in a week or so...

know about d girl...dat wud b d dumbest thing...

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[Uchiha Samater]

So many un-mature answers , you kids need to grow up ..

I think u skipped my post entirely too quick

 

[YowYan]

Appreciation without the need to posses.

 

[Hebi Sasuke]

You're not gonna find that answer here mate...If your jealous you're in love.

 

[stu21]

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Shrek is love! Shrek is life!

 

[usag]

And asking 'what love is', when you're 22 years old, on some anime-baised forum is indeed very mature. Such question can be asked if you're either yoo young to find your answer yourself, or if you're old enough and deepened into philosophy, trying to figure out some fundamental questions of our world, which of course have no correct answer, merely points of view. If this is the second case, then it most sertainly is not the right place to discuss such thing, it's pure logic: the majority of people most likely won't take it seriously.

There are a lot of people here @ naruto base,wise people if I may add, and sometimes to see things frm others point of view or angle is also wise, to me true love comes once, if ur luck, Twice. Tru love is wen u feel something abnormally toward this person, something u dnt normally feel toward others,when only she is ur wickness and ur strenght.

 

[YokoKurama]

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speaking as a married man, you just know

Speaking as a married woman, yeah you just know. It's a feeling that can't be mistaken for anything else

 

[REX Lex]

it doesn't exist as far as i'm concerned

 

[Jeff Aka 47]

There's no book that tells ya what love is man, one day you just wake up and realize that you are fcktup for that one girl It's like you have the EMS and then Your cells + Her cells = Rinnegan..!!!
And about the cheating, well you have the EMS, "THE EYES THAT LOOK INTO THE DARK", if the Beache is cheating on you Kill her with the Amaterasu.! Burn the Beache.! :devil: :itachi:

 

[Reraru]

Love is what makes you fall ..
Love is when you feel jealous and are ready to kill anyone for a certain someone ..
Love is care .. Love is 'My everything is yours except you.' Dattebayo!

 

[Aim64C]

Yea seriously how to know whether is a love is true love or not I have cheated by girls many time.Some times they drawed me in to serious situations . I have bullied many time by their real boy friends.. How to know a girl is cheating on you or not

Love and relationships are different things.

Love is, basically, a core instinct you feel toward someone to protect and care for them even if it comes at extreme risk or harm to your own being.

A relationship is an agreement - a pact - a coalition. When you form a relationship, it is a sort of contract regarding how you will treat each other and what you expect out of each other.

Combining love and relationships is difficult, particularly in the younger years of life. Girls rarely have the life experience to appreciate the security a young man often tries to offer them. When you are trying to work your way through college, meet your rent payments, and save for any kind of a future - just having someone to split the bills with is a God-send.

In many cases, the guy doesn't have the resources to provide to the degree he wishes to. The girl doesn't have the appreciation for the stability he offers - and the whole works goes up in smoke.

Determining whether or not another person loves you ... that is something that can never truly be known. At least in this existence - we can never know exactly what is on another person's heart. That is why relationships including love are so difficult. You're willing to give huge portions of yourself to another person, and that person can use you to turn around and abuse you.

Even when it's a case where two people love each other - misunderstandings happen. She goes through the effort of doing something for you, expecting you to sweep her up in your arms in thanks and appreciation... and it flops because you didn't quite interpret things the same way. Then she's upset or depressed and you have no idea why.

The fact that your efforts can be misunderstood by someone you care about so deeply is both frightening when it can happen and painful when it does.

The best thing to keep in mind is that no one can ever prove their feelings to you. Generally, though - someone who is there for you, or at least makes the attempt to be there for you, is someone who loves you. If you set out trying to 'figure out' whether or not someone really loves you... you're likely never to find a person who can be proven to love you.

It's a lot of faith. A -lot- of faith to put into another person. Particularly when the issues of marriage and children come into play.

My advice is that any girl younger than about 20 is heartbreak waiting to happen. There are exceptions to that - but they are rare. Girls who have actually had to put up with stressors in their life tend to be more mature and have a better idea of what they are looking for out of life.

Though I have a somewhat cynical outlook on most of the females in my generation and those neighboring it. I've placed myself deep enough into the friend zone with enough of my generation's females to hear stories that reveal their priorities to be so far out of whack that I'd sooner mail order a bride or purchase a prostitute's freedom to secure an individual more trustworthy.

 

[Aim64C]

Appreciation without the need to posses.

I disagree.

The raw instinct of love is possessive in nature. If someone you love cries out in pain - you're on the source of it like flies on shit, because that person is 'yours' to protect. Part of the reason why some relationships fail is that one party or the other fails to 'claim' the other.

The reality and challenge of love is that people are independent individuals. For anything productive or functional to happen, you can't allow possessive instincts to dictate your relationship.

I love my cat. She is mine. God have mercy upon whatever or whoever causes problems for my cat, for I will not. That said, however, it's counter-productive for me to rule over every aspect of my cat's life. I could... but I may as well send her to the taxidermist if I was going to do that.

Expanding that concept to human relationships - it is generally frowned upon to send your girlfriend/wife to be stuffed and mounted just because you want to claim her as yours.

Tattoos and gifting of jewelry tends to satisfy those instincts, though is notably less effective at keeping claim over what is 'yours.'

 

[YowYan]

I disagree.

The raw instinct of love is possessive in nature. If someone you love cries out in pain - you're on the source of it like flies on shit, because that person is 'yours' to protect. Part of the reason why some relationships fail is that one party or the other fails to 'claim' the other.

The reality and challenge of love is that people are independent individuals. For anything productive or functional to happen, you can't allow possessive instincts to dictate your relationship.

I love my cat. She is mine. God have mercy upon whatever or whoever causes problems for my cat, for I will not. That said, however, it's counter-productive for me to rule over every aspect of my cat's life. I could... but I may as well send her to the taxidermist if I was going to do that.

Expanding that concept to human relationships - it is generally frowned upon to send your girlfriend/wife to be stuffed and mounted just because you want to claim her as yours.

Tattoos and gifting of jewelry tends to satisfy those instincts, though is notably less effective at keeping claim over what is 'yours.'

I gave it a second thought and disagreed with you because I was thinking along the line of a vague philosophy. On third thought, I agree.

 

[Berimbolo No Jutsu]

True love is really rare. It's based on honesty, mutual interests, and mutual attraction.

Infatuation feels like true love, but it's a lie. Infatuation is what most people are talking about when they say they're in love. Or madly in love. Not love it's infatuation.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

It's selfish unselfishness, which sounds weird but that's the simplest way I can describe it without typing a wall of text.