What do you think? Open fr advice

[Punk Hazard]

I might do that, I mean if it really comes to that. But I would have to appeal to her dad only because her step mom literally does not give a shit about her.

In all honesty, I think f*ck her step-mom. She doesn't matter in this IMO, it's only her Dad that you truly need to get along with or at least respect, especially since her step-mom doesn't care about her.

The Idea of nothing standing in our way because we are truly inlove would be enough for me, but frankly I feel like she truly believes its my fault, but she agreed to it and she left the bathroom door open where we're doing it so how is it entirely my fault?

You're both adults. You should remind them that you are doing nothing differently than what all adults do, including them.

 

[ChrisWolf]

In all honesty, I think f*ck her step-mom. She doesn't matter in this IMO, it's only her Dad that you truly need to get along with or at least respect, especially since her step-mom doesn't care about her.


You're both adults. You should remind them that you are doing nothing differently than what all adults do, including them.

These are the exact things I'm trying to tell her, but she's just too afraid of her parents disapproving of anything she does.

I'm not a ***** man, I mean I'm not gonna kill myself or cry like a bitch or anything if I really lose her for good but I truly believe we are meant for each other and so does she, but her step mom is never going to agree and tat just seems to be too scary for Courtney, especially since even if her dad understands it not matter, he gives in to her step mom just to stop her bitchin and plus.....he is very old fashioned, of course he's not going to approve of me with the knowledge that we were naked on Skype.

Like I said Im not a ***** I would survive losing her but I can't deal with losing her and thinking it was all my fault when obviously she is just as much to blame as me.

 

[SashaUchiha]

Please explain to me why you're the only one blamed...

The Idea of nothing standing in our way because we are truly inlove would be enough for me, but frankly I feel like she truly believes its my fault, but she agreed to it and she left the bathroom door open where we're doing it so how is it entirely my fault?

ahhh you just wrote that... seriously, how is it your fault? If you forced her into it yes, please take the blame and leave... if not, you get only 50% of the blame.

Leave her alone for sometime and give her time to think. If I am mad, it only gets worse if the guy keeps calling me. Let her call you back and then you can take it forward. Talk to her Dad and all... but till then... please give her some space and time.

 

[Punk Hazard]

These are the exact things I'm trying to tell her, but she's just too afraid of her parents disapproving of anything she does.

I'm not a ***** man, I mean I'm not gonna kill myself or cry like a bitch or anything if I really lose her for good but I truly believe we are meant for each other and so does she, but her step mom is never going to agree and tat just seems to be too scary for Courtney, especially since even if her dad understands it not matter, he gives in to her step mom just to stop her bitchin and plus.....he is very old fashioned, of course he's not going to approve of me with the knowledge that we were naked on Skype.

Like I said Im not a ***** I would survive losing her but I can't deal with losing her and thinking it was all my fault when obviously she is just as much to blame as me.

Well, it's obvious that you do love her. IMO, if two adults want to get together, the parents shouldn't have a say. True love for your child would just be happiness that they found someone good.

Getting mad because you chatted naked is pretty ridiculous. I mean, do they expect you to never have *** or something? Eventually, you two are gonna be nekkid together, it shouldn't be that big a deal.

 

[ChrisWolf]

Please explain to me why you're the only one blamed...



ahhh you just wrote that... seriously, how is it your fault? If you forced her into it yes, please take the blame and leave... if not, you get only 50% of the blame.

Leave her alone for sometime and give her time to think. If I am mad, it only gets worse if the guy keeps calling me. Let her call you back and then you can take it forward. Talk to her Dad and all... but till then... please give her some space and time.

I didn't force her into it, I wouldnt force her into anything she's my baby doll....I accept 50 percent of the blame, and I agree with that idea to give her some space, maybe that's what I'll do. Thank you.

Well, it's obvious that you do love her. IMO, if two adults want to get together, the parents shouldn't have a say. True love for your child would just be happiness that they found someone good.

Getting mad because you chatted naked is pretty ridiculous. I mean, do they expect you to never have *** or something? Eventually, you two are gonna be nekkid together, it shouldn't be that big a deal.

The funny thing is we've bee having *** for 5 months now and I'm pretty sure her parents know that so it really seems ridiculous for them to get mad about this.

 

[SashaUchiha]

I didn't force her into it, I wouldnt force her into anything she's my baby doll....I accept 50 percent of the blame, and I agree with that idea to give her some space, maybe that's what I'll do. Thank you.



The funny thing is we've bee having *** for 5 months now and I'm pretty sure her parents know that so it really seems ridiculous for them to get mad about this.

No problem ^_^ I just hope it works for you...

The parents probably didn't know you've gone that far... They might have been shocked by what they encountered... this is a difficult discussion point but mate, it's not all on you. The moment you feel less guilt your head will clear up Also, don't discuss this with not-so-good-friends. Girls hate that. Try telling as less people as possible.

All the best.

 

[ChrisWolf]

No problem ^_^ I just hope it works for you...

The parents probably didn't know you've gone that far... They might have been shocked by what they encountered... this is a difficult discussion point but mate, it's not all on you. The moment you feel less guilt your head will clear up Also, don't discuss this with not-so-good-friends. Girls hate that. Try telling as less people as possible.

All the best.

And I just told all of NB lol she doesn't know this site anyway, thanks for the advice, I love getting advice from girls about girls because they really know how they feel.

 

[JIRAIYA perv]

19 and 21 is young bro xd, anyway she is just upset of the situation so try to talk to her calmly and don't jump to the (you agreed to do it its not my fault alone and i didn't hold a knife to make you do it) attitude coz your girl is in a hard position there since its her parents U_U, and a problem like that needs time to resolve so whatever you do try to be understanding, give her space to solve this with her parents and with time if she wants you she will be the one who will come to you, just stay calm and be there for her if she needs you dude. thats my advise if you are serious about that girl and i wish you the best

even if i still think you two are young

 

[ChrisWolf]

19 and 21 is young bro xd, anyway she is just upset of the situation so try to talk to her calmly and don't jump to the (you agreed to do it its not my fault alone and i didn't hold a knife to make you do it) attitude coz your girl is in a hard position there since its her parents U_U, and a problem like that needs time to resolve so whatever you do try to be understanding, give her space to solve this with her parents and with time if she wants you she will be the one who will come to you, just stay calm and be there for her if she needs you dude. thats my advise if you are serious about that girl and i wish you the best

even if i still think you two are young

Thank you, that's great advice.

I think I'm just gonna stop talking to her altogether, Im only gonna talk to her if she talks to me.

I'm always there to work to fix things but I think this is a problem I can't fix so I'm just gonna leave it on her and just be here for her if she needs anything because obviously constantly trying to step up and help and fix things is making things harder for her.

 

[JIRAIYA perv]

Thank you, that's great advice.

I think I'm just gonna stop talking to her altogether, Im only gonna talk to her if she talks to me.

I'm always there to work to fix things but I think this is a problem I can't fix so I'm just gonna leave it on her and just be here for her if she needs anything because obviously constantly trying to step up and help and fix things is making things harder for her.

of course, and i promis you if you two are really serious about each other it will turn out for the best, just don't rush to solving everything and am sure its gona be ok little bro . glad i can help

 

[ChrisWolf]

I hope a lot more people give me advice on this thread because I really need it, and also.....

If you do think I am to blame and Its my fault then feel free to tell me! I have dropped my pride completely, If I am just a stupid screw up then so be it, whatever it takes to get my baby doll back idc I will admitt my faults where I see them.

 

[Sasunarufan13]

I hope a lot more people give me advice on this thread because I really need it, and also.....

If you do think I am to blame and Its my fault then feel free to tell me! I have dropped my pride completely, If I am just a stupid screw up then so be it, whatever it takes to get my baby doll back idc I will admitt my faults where I see them.

It isn't completely your fault; she agreed to it, so she carries a part of the blame. Besides who lets the bathroom door open when you take a bath (I think you said that in one of the earlier posts)?
Just let her cool off a bit and when she's ready to talk, you can talk again
If she really loves you then she won't be able to stay mad for long

 

[ChrisWolf]

It isn't completely your fault; she agreed to it, so she carries a part of the blame. Besides who lets the bathroom door open when you take a bath (I think you said that in one of the earlier posts)?
Just let her cool off a bit and when she's ready to talk, you can talk again
If she really loves you then she won't be able to stay mad for long

Thank you, Ill never be happy again if I lose her.

I'll fight through hell to have her.

 

[ZK]

Thank you, Ill never be happy again if I lose her.

I'll fight through hell to have her.

Dude, chill, she's pissed, not erupting.
Patience, though.

Seriously though, don't kid yourself; I'm pretty sure you'll be 'happy' even if you loose the girl.

 

[ChrisWolf]

Dude, chill, she's pissed, not erupting.
Patience, though.

Seriously though, don't kid yourself; I'm pretty sure you'll be 'happy' even if you loose the girl.

Lol ive been with a lot of girls, I think I've mentioned that in this thread already idk, and I was never happy.....I can easily say I'll never be happy again if I lose her

 

[ZK]

Lol ive been with a lot of girls, I think I've mentioned that in this thread already idk, and I was never happy.....I can easily say I'll never be happy again if I lose her

Again with the drama.
Kid, these things happen. A few million men before you have said the same thing and gotten over their loss.

 

[ChrisWolf]

Again with the drama.
Kid, these things happen. A few million men before you have said the same thing and gotten over their loss.

Did they really? 90 percent of the people in this world are unhappy.

I see where you coming from, and I know the type of people you are talking about but i am different. I've been in that situation before but this is much different.

 

[ZK]

Did they really? 90 percent of the people in this world are unhappy.

I see where you coming from, and I know the type of people you are talking about but i am different. I've been in that situation before but this is much different.

Did you know that 55% of all percentage calculations are made up on the fly?
Or did you know that people are 26.5% more inclined to believe in percentage calculations if they contain point numbers?

 

[ChrisWolf]

Did you know that 55% of all percentage calculations are made up on the fly?
Or did you know that people are 26.5% more inclined to believe in percentage calculations if they contain point numbers?

This has nothing to do with the point of this thread so I'm officially ignoring your posts.

So 0 percent of your posts are being read from here on.

 

[JeanstersRMB]

if she really does love you, then she will forgive you, but i just don't know with the parents, for sure no.