What do women Like/Prefer?

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I like intelligent and courageous guys. They must be quite funny too, the sufficient to make an interesting relationship ^^

And Wumbo...no kitchen for me :cool:
 

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I dunno, I tend to like guys that have character and hobbies, like cycling or playing a musical instruments(not guitar,everyone plays guitar). .-.
Now about blunt,upfront, yeah sure just don't be rude I guess. It's also nice to give out the feeling that you can protect her if needed, at least it's important to me.
But it's very rare for me to like anyone so I might not be the best person to talk and give an opinion on this xD

Oh and about goodlooking, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you might look ugly to someone but beautiful to someone else, it's all about preferances ^.^
I agree. I learned that awhile back. A girl likes to feel as if her man will protect her at all times if need be. Thanks for sharing a females point of view. some of these guys needed to hear this

I'm not sure about how much looks have to do with it. I see some really incredible women dating these total douchebag losers that think they're gangsta or something. Not only do they look ugly, but they dress really bad and usually smell to some degree. Only reason they have a girl is because she didn't realize she could walk around and pick any guy she wanted. I mean seriously, almost any girl can pick out a guy she wants and have him, and so can any guy...but only the douchebags are dumb enough to think they're worthy so they ask and that works. Not asking gets you nowhere.
A Close mouth dont get fed. The difference between *******s and Good Guys. *******s are confident. Good guys (most are shy) so that way a ******* will get the woman.. and the good guy finish last
 

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I like guys that are extroverted, honest, decisive, respectful of others, and loyal. I prefer a guy that is more aggressive and upfront because I'm very laidback and shy/quiet. Opposites attract! :)

But in all honesty, every girl prefers/likes different personality traits. But most girls want an honest, nice guy that can be understanding and sensitive to her feelings in certain situations.
 
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Thank you, I will combine your answers into one.
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OT: Women like a guy with confidence and someone who can keep them guessing. They like spontaneous guys and guys that will treat them with respect. It spirals into this whole complication thing as (some) women do not know what they want. Go to askmen.com they have a whole bunch of segments both women and men to help you in your situation
 

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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/goto/post?id=9915792" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-9915792">Okami the butcher said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent"> money helps </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink"><a>Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>My theory on that is that if you have money it is counted as protection power. ^.^<br /> Like if you have a job there are less possibilities she will need to lend you money and buy stuff for you, and lets be honest, you probably dont like lending and buying things for others either(or that can just be me and my selfishness xD). Also there is that 'men should pay for everything' idea that has been imprinted in many peoples brains over the ages.<br /> <br /> <blockquote class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/goto/post?id=9915794" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-9915794">Hawker said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent"> <b>Be yourself and at the same time stand out from all the f*gs of this generation.</b><br /> <br /> Also buy her an alive unicorn. It helps. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink"><a>Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Standing out from the others, in a good way ofc obviously helps ^.^<br /> <br /> <blockquote class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/goto/post?id=9915801" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-9915801">Ace of the fire fist said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent"> Humour's always worked, confidence and hold good conversations. Also, don't generalise topics on things you like all the time, try and relate. Oh, and don't be shy man, the majority of girls always want to guy to make the first move. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink"><a>Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Humour is good, some girls love that but you might get friendzoned if you act like a friend too much. You can try adding a bit flirt to that but again try not to scare her away, if you see she doesn't like you then it might get awkward xD<br /> <br /> <blockquote class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/goto/post?id=9915883" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-9915883">Shinobi Train said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent"> I'm not sure about how much looks have to do with it. I see some really incredible women dating these total douchebag losers that think they're gangsta or something. Not only do they look ugly, but they dress really bad and usually smell to some degree. <b>Only reason they have a girl is because she didn't realize she could walk around and pick any guy she wanted.</b> I mean seriously, almost any girl can pick out a guy she wants and have him, and so can any guy...but only the douchebags are dumb enough to think they're worthy so they ask and that works. Not asking gets you nowhere. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink"><a>Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>One of my best friends (male) has a theory about attention that he claims works for him. He claims that if you don't give too much attention to a girl and show you don't care that much about her, make her feel like she wants to prove herself to you, she will be more easy to get with :3 <br /> His theory is based on the fact that women want attention and by not giving it to them their confidence drops so they want you to aknowledge them, pay attention to them, to gain their confidence back. (and hence they are easier to have *** with)<br /> Now my opinion on this matter is that it's very sly buuuuuut if it works, it works. .-. <br /> <span style="font-size: 9px">Though I really don't know...I'm getting pissed just thinking about that.</span><br /> Maybe that's why these douchebags had the pretty girlfriends, cause they were douchy enough to make them believe they were just average and they would be lucky to have them.<br /> <br /> Then again asking someone out never hurt anyone so be a man and do it if you feel like it. You will most probably regret not doing it in the future anyway. So don't be afraid to make the first move ^.^</div>
 

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A Close mouth dont get fed. The difference between *******s and Good Guys. *******s are confident. Good guys (most are shy) so that way a ******* will get the woman.. and the good guy finish last
So there's the question of whether being a douche is worth it or is being the nice guy more important. Nice guys finish last maybe, but they do finish and it might turn out for the best. So who among us is man enough to do the right thing? o_O

One of my best friends (male) has a theory about attention that he claims works for him. He claims that if you don't give too much attention to a girl and show you don't care that much about her, make her feel like she wants to prove herself to you, she will be more easy to get with :3
His theory is based on the fact that women want attention and by not giving it to them their confidence drops so they want you to aknowledge them, pay attention to them, to gain their confidence back. (and hence they are easier to have *** with)
Now my opinion on this matter is that it's very sly buuuuuut if it works, it works. .-.
Though I really don't know...I'm getting pissed just thinking about that.
Maybe that's why these douchebags had the pretty girlfriends, cause they were douchy enough to make them believe they were just average and they would be lucky to have them.

Then again asking someone out never hurt anyone so be a man and do it if you feel like it. You will most probably regret not doing it in the future anyway. So don't be afraid to make the first move ^.^
Yes, this is a strategy that men try, it doesn't always work and can really backfire badly (mostly because it's not entirely true). :rolleyes: It really only works with codependent type people and is true of both genders actually.

What you're talking about is psychology, and in that realm there are manipulators and their victims. My brother is a manipulator, one of the best ever, and he's usually able to get whatever he wants (he basically throws a temper tantrum if he doesn't, and that's funny to see a 30 year old man doing xd). I'm a victim and a manipulator myself, it gives me a unique perspective on it all, plus it helps keep my manipulations in check since I know what the other side is like too.

I try to be a nice guy, but lately I've been moving to the dark side...>.> Must maintain control. U_U
 

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So there's the question of whether being a douche is worth it or is being the nice guy more important. Nice guys finish last maybe, but they do finish and it might turn out for the best. So who among us is man enough to do the right thing? o_O



Yes, this is a strategy that men try, it doesn't always work and can really backfire badly (mostly because it's not entirely true). :rolleyes: It really only works with codependent type people and is true of both genders actually.

What you're talking about is psychology, and in that realm there are manipulators and their victims. My brother is a manipulator, one of the best ever, and he's usually able to get whatever he wants (he basically throws a temper tantrum if he doesn't, and that's funny to see a 30 year old man doing xd). I'm a victim and a manipulator myself, it gives me a unique perspective on it all, plus it helps keep my manipulations in check since I know what the other side is like too.

I try to be a nice guy, but lately I've been moving to the dark side...>.> Must maintain control. U_U
I think you have a point. Mine would be - be yourself and you find a women that suits you the best... be a player ... live a fake and complicated life ...
 

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The difference between *******s and Good Guys. *******s are confident. Good guys (most are shy) so that way a ******* will get the woman.. and the good guy finish last
what expletive is this? I'm genuinely interested to know.

I like guys that are extroverted, honest, decisive, respectful of others, and loyal. I prefer a guy that is more aggressive and upfront because I'm very laidback and shy/quiet. Opposites attract! :)

But in all honesty, every girl prefers/likes different personality traits. But most girls want an honest, nice guy that can be understanding and sensitive to her feelings in certain situations.
WOW! Sasuke certainly grew into his looks, didn't he?

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alsmost? Why not almost? No screw that, why not all the time?

Please merge these posts into one, according to the rules it is not okay to doublepost and you tripleposted :/
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Ok. I was just wondering. from different guys/girls point of view.

If you arent all that goodlooking. Or even if you are.. What do you think a women look for in a guy.
Looks Excluded. Like.. How do most of you guys approach a woman. Or how did you approach your gf/wife
and FB is a answer. >_> though sketchy.. Its legit in my book. =DD

So share share share, I feel a women want a Blunt, Upfront, guy that has courage.

Girls AND Guys are welcomed.
Well, perhaps not blunt, but definitely upfront is a nice quality. Or so I believe. Also a guy that has courage, that comes off as confidence is a wonderful quality. Another thing girls look for is if the guy has the ability to make them laugh or at least make them feel comfortable. Above all, we just want a guy that will treat us right. :) Not just ignore us for your friends, and take us out every so often to do something fun. It doesn't even have to be something that requires a lot of money. Picnics are always nice. I do not look at a guy for looks, sure he has to be attractive to me (but I have some weird tastes and the vary greatly depending on the guy), but it is mostly about personality. After all, you can truly be with someone that you get along with emotionally.
 
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