what a girl likes in a guy and what a guy likes in a girl

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ok, i neeed some help..

Me an this girl have been together 2 years. Last year she graduated. and shes now in college. she comes back to town almost every weekend.

Now. sometimes when i call shes either always busy or says shell call back.. so ya know i call her and ask her whats her deal cuz she never calls back. and all the sudden its a whole diffrent thing like im not actin like a man and this and that..

her college is like an hour away. We dont talk much during the week.. well enough thatll make a relationship last..under these circumstances. so im trying to prevent that from happening and all the sudden im not being a man and all that...

what should i do?
 

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ok, i neeed some help..

Me an this girl have been together 2 years. Last year she graduated. and shes now in college. she comes back to town almost every weekend.

Now. sometimes when i call shes either always busy or says shell call back.. so ya know i call her and ask her whats her deal cuz she never calls back. and all the sudden its a whole diffrent thing like im not actin like a man and this and that..

her college is like an hour away. We dont talk much during the week.. well enough thatll make a relationship last..under these circumstances. so im trying to prevent that from happening and all the sudden im not being a man and all that...

what should i do?
1:dont call that much... let her mis u...
2:dont act sweet all the time.. its really not attractive for a women(She wants a man). try to be more arrogant,''mean'',assertive
3:sometimes just talk with her like she is one of ur buddy's and not ur gf
4:Just keep in mind that she is in your world and not the other way around
 
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1:dont call that much... let her mis u...
2:dont act sweet all the time.. its really not attractive for a women(She wants a man). try to be more arrogant,''mean'',aggresief
3:sometimes just talk with her like she is one of ur buddy's and not ur gf
4:Just keep in mind that she is in your world and not the other way around
Agreed. Pay special attention to #4...:cool:
 

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1:dont call that much... let her mis u...
2:dont act sweet all the time.. its really not attractive for a women(She wants a man). try to be more arrogant,''mean'',aggresief
3:sometimes just talk with her like she is one of ur buddy's and not ur gf
4:Just keep in mind that she is in your world and not the other way around
oh my effing god...do NOT do that...if u guys hv been dating for a while think of all the stuff she likes and do a few of them...dont come on too strong but still let her no that u want to be with her...dnt be too possesive but be ready to stic up for her when SHE wants u too
two man points
1) dont crowed her too much
2) let her no u still want her
 

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oh my effing god...do NOT do that...if u guys hv been dating for a while think of all the stuff she likes and do a few of them...dont come on too strong but still let her no that u want to be with her...dnt be too possesive but be ready to stic up for her when SHE wants u too
two man points
1) dont crowed her too much
2) let her no u still want her
But this is a long distance relationship... It's a game-changer when you can't be with your guy/girl on a regular basis. So maybe it's better to start letting her go. Kno wat I mean?
 

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1:dont call that much... let her mis u...
2:dont act sweet all the time.. its really not attractive for a women(She wants a man). try to be more arrogant,''mean'',aggresief
3:sometimes just talk with her like she is one of ur buddy's and not ur gf
4:Just keep in mind that she is in your world and not the other way around
i agree with Damsc0.try making her miss you
 

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1:dont call that much... let her mis u...
2:dont act sweet all the time.. its really not attractive for a women(She wants a man). try to be more arrogant,''mean'',aggresief
3:sometimes just talk with her like she is one of ur buddy's and not ur gf
4:Just keep in mind that she is in your world and not the other way around
lol i mean assertive not aggresive xd... sorry, my english is poor
 
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1:dont call that much... let her mis u...
2:dont act sweet all the time.. its really not attractive for a women(She wants a man). try to be more arrogant,''mean'',assertive
3:sometimes just talk with her like she is one of ur buddy's and not ur gf
4:Just keep in mind that she is in your world and not the other way around
That's a very manchauvinistic point of view tbfh... no offense but you sound really pretentious the way you put it. There are certain extents to where you behave like that... as there is with behaving to sweetly and stuff.

Whats to keep in mind is you don't throw yourself at the girls feet, but you don't throw her at your own either. You ought to be a man, not a dickhead.
 

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That's a very manchauvinistic point of view tbfh... no offense but you sound really pretentious the way you put it. There are certain extents to where you behave like that... as there is with behaving to sweetly and stuff.

Whats to keep in mind is you don't throw yourself at the girls feet, but you don't throw her at your own either. You ought to be a man, not a dickhead.
i agree with u to a certain extant
but if u feel that it isnt going to work out and u dnt like her in th same way maybe u SHOULD let her go
 

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1. i like weird girls u know one that will always keep u guessing
2. one that will keep u in check
3. one that speaks her mind and isn't scared to say stuff
4. one that has a sense of humor
5. one that will crack lame pick-up lines back at u
6. one that gives u sense that all is right and there is peace in the world when ur with her
 

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idk

1. i like weird girls u know one that will always keep u guessing
2. one that will keep u in check
3. one that speaks her mind and isn't scared to say stuff
4. one that has a sense of humor
5. one that will crack lame pick-up lines back at u
6. one that gives u sense that all is right and there is peace in the world when ur with her
awwww...those r really good things to look for
 
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