[Discussion] We should think about females like sisters or mothers.....

[YowYan]

I know exactly what you are trying to say Bro.... It's about being respectful towards women in general from your heart unlike how all of us start having pervy thoughts the moment we see a hot chick around.... =D =D

Finally someone who gets it as simple as it is.

 

[ROSH2]

i laugh at those who say *** before marriage yet they are now either divorced or in a sad/bad marriage

+ rep for u

 

[Krauq]

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[Pervy Wrath]

Right now, I think you're pretty weird.

 

[Hunty]

This thread has potential to be very entertaining.

We're going to exceed the entertainment level. :ilu:

 

[hisou]

87% of the people that believe in the 'No *** before marriage' concept are hideously obese and are jelly.
Please, flame me. fire those pistols of hate.

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so you're fat?

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[Hunty]

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You and this GIF. I swear.

 

[hisou]

You and this GIF. I swear.

hahaha! sorry, it's just funny XD

 

[KiraGirl K]

No *** before marriage? What..

My thoughts.... XD
And lol at that gif above me and at this thread in general XD

 

[Howard]

I said respect girlfriend as a best friend befor marriage

I said I understood that. I understand where you're coming from, but honestly do you think a women wants to be treated like a sister? Or mother, or anything other then what they truly are an individual? Think about it this way, if instead of treating you like a potential SO, a girl only treated you like her brother or like a father (weird I know just go with it) how would you feel about that? I'd think you'd feel a bit disappointed, and possibly objectified to some degree. Wouldn't that be how she feels in the reverse scenario?

As I stated, you can treat anyone with respect without treating them like a sibling or treating them as if they are someone's sister or mother. I'm pretty sure a mother is proud that she is a mother but doesn't want to only be defined as a mother. Also someone's sister, doesn't want to simply be defined as someone's sister, they want to be treated as a person. An individual, then again as I've also said I'm just speaking from opinion. :p Also, as I said, his heart was in the right place in my opinion, just maybe his brain wasn't (not insulting him, I've been there).

Edit: I say also a lot, I need to find better transition words.

 

[RasenUchihaChaos]

if a girl wants to be a flings she is a fling if she tells me she wants more than that then okay

 

[ROSH2]

if a girl wants to be a flings she is a fling if she tells me she wants more than that then okay

you are right bro

 

[Scooby Doo]

I agree bro.

 

[ROSH2]

I agree bro.

Thx bro
+ rep 4 you

 

[Grim]

We should think about females like sisters or mothers if you got a girl friend think like a best friend not like *** toy I prefer
*** for married people
what do you guys/girls think

I think you're an idiot.... if you have problems and you feel guilty for thinking about women '' **** know what way doesn't mean everyone here is like that. Think about your mother next time you see a hot chick... LMAO :bouncy:

 

[ROSH2]

I think you're an idiot.... if you have problems and you feel guilty for thinking about women '' **** know what way doesn't mean everyone here is like that. Think about your mother next time you see a hot chick... LMAO :bouncy:

no I will think that hot chick as a sister(no homo)

 

[Howard]

no I will think about sister(no homo)

I'm guessing you're a guy so it wouldn't be homosexual anyway it'd simply be incestuous but eh, each to their own.

no I'am dark knight

Huh, over looked the point where you proved my whole "Knight in shining armor/White Knight" theory.

 

[ROSH2]

I'm guessing you're a guy so it wouldn't be homosexual anyway it'd simply be incestuous but eh, each to their own.

It's a mistake I correct it

 

[shelke]

Interesting topic but this could end up in polemic if not approached properly. I completely understand your viewpoint and I am surprised people have misinterpreted it. Rosh is talking about platonic relationships, not mother and sisters in literal sense of the word. Try to be more comprehensive in your perspectives, people. This definitely has merits. Not only does this mode integrate restraint but creates a different set of social bonds that you seldom found in today's society that is so overtly sexualized to the point that it's quite gross in its overt display of primal urges.

Everything has merits and demerits, people should be aware of this. *** before marriage creates a large room for comparison between future partners, unwanted pregnancies, and foster homes for children born from teenage parents. Most kids are unable to provide for their children at that age and it creates an additional burden for the society and bring socio-economic factors into play here and it's a volatile and potentially disastrous mixture.

So yes, I definitely agree. These sides should also be promoted to create a dichotomy in societal values for appropriate balance. As balance is always created with oppositions.

 

[edo tensai wilmaso]

i get what you're trying to say ....i was raised by woman and have the upmost respect for all women....but that doesn't mean that your wife or girlfriend should be viewed as a sister...i have a sister and she fills that role well i don't need my girlfriend in that way.... my wife should also be my best friend since we share our lives.

the way you say it ...you feel as if all guys just see women as *** toys... thats not true if you don't like someone as in not going to marry her... but we still have *** ...thats not a crime.... thats human nature ...*** is human nature ...usually animals breed for the sole purpose for the species to continue....humans stopped that thousand of years ago.... there's 7 billion people on this planet we have *** for fun not to reproduce.(thats just a fact)