Type of mentality I like about girls

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I know this might sound like machismo but here it goes anyway.

I love how girls try to stay fit and not let themselves go. I genuinely like that they get on diets and workout just to stay in shape and looking :: to attract other men. If none of them had that mentality then all girls would just not care about how they look and be all looking ugly. . I brought this topic out because I wanted to see if I was being too hard on girls and to see if any of you had different opinions. I truly believe that a girl should in fact take care of their body in a healthy way.

I don't understand how girls can gain weight and not do anything about it. If you girls can stay looking good then us guys will have to follow your lead.
 
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I know this might sound like machismo but here it goes anyway.

I love how girls try to stay fit and not let themselves go. I genuinely like that they get on diets and workout just to stay in shape and looking :: to attract other men. If none of them had that mentality then all girls would just not care about how they look and be all looking ugly. . I brought this topic out because I wanted to see if I was being too hard on girls and to see if any of you had different opinions. I truly believe that a girl should in fact take care of their body in a healthy way.

I don't understand how girls can gain weight and not do anything about it. If you girls can stay looking good then us guys will have to follow your lead.
I'll correct this so you wont sound so arrogant and obnoxious.
"I like girls who are in good health, a make an effort to keep there bodies at an healthy and the best that they can be."

And all sizes is beautiful. Everyone is beautiful, love yourself or nobody will.
 

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I like fit girls too but I like them kinda thick too... Meaning I don't want a girl who's just bones and really skinny, a girl with curves is O_O She makes a guy look twice, let's leave it at that :sweat:
 

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There isn't anything wrong with that. The mentality I like isn't too extreme. I like average normal girls. Skinny girls just don't do it for me. The word "fat" is usually mistaken with women.

The Term "fat" doesn't mean "big" in the way most think. "fat" is like the OP said "over weight". A woman can be bigger and have all her curves in the correct place compared to "fat" and "Over-weight" is a health condition that can lead to depression and lost of a limb. No1 likes to see that on any ***.

A Woman can have extra body weight and still look amazing! All it takes is light cardio and exercise. it's more about toning than shedding and losing the pounds.
 

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Everyone should strive to be HEALTHY. If someone's optimum weight requires them to be heavier than society approves, I still think they are in the green. You sound like you only care because of how they LOOK which is douchey. They shouldn't be doing it for boys or appearance but for their own sake/health.
 

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I like females that stay fit too...like now im talking to someone who runs track.....i f***in hate females that at least dont even try to lose weight
 

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There isn't anything wrong with that. The mentality I like isn't too extreme. I like average normal girls. Skinny girls just don't do it for me. The word "fat" is usually mistaken with women.

The Term "fat" doesn't mean "big" in the way most think. "fat" is like the OP said "over weight". A woman can be bigger and have all her curves in the correct place compared to "fat" and "Over-weight" is a health condition that can lead to depression and lost of a limb. No1 likes to see that on any ***.

A Woman can have extra body weight and still look amazing! All it takes is light cardio and exercise. it's more about toning than shedding and losing the pounds.
You put it much more elegantly than I did, this is exactly what I meant by thick =D
 

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I'll correct this so you wont sound so arrogant and obnoxious.
"I like girls who are in good health, a make an effort to keep there bodies at an healthy and the best that they can be."

And all sizes is beautiful. Everyone is beautiful, love yourself or nobody will.
I don't agree. Have you heard of morbid obesity ? It's not beautiful. Not in the slightest. Being overly fat is bad for you. Stop saying they are beautiful or they will never do something about it. People do not have to look like a stick to be beautiful though. But being overweight is the limit
 

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Honestly, I agree with you, OP. However, I am a more of a "Meet you halfway" person and I am very understanding. I would like for my man to keep himself healthy so that he can look and feel the best way he can, inside and out. I also want him to stay fit for health reasons. I would love to have him with me as long as I can, without any illness. However, I'm not just going to tell him to do that and refrain from doing it myself. I will work hard to make sure that I am nice and fit to remain and healthy and attractive for him as he first met me. Not only will I do it for him, but for myself to. I like to be fit, inside and out.

But like I said, I am pretty understanding. If he gains weight for medical reasons, or he's depressed, or for something out of his control, I won't mind it. However, I will work with the inner issues (whatever may be ailing him), so that we can both work together to get him back to where he was before. That will also be something I would like for him to do with me, although I am capable of doing it myself, I would like the support.
 
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No one likes to be fat, the world hates fat people, and that is the truth.
Harsh :|
I like females that stay fit too...like now im talking to someone who runs track.....i f***in hate females that at least dont even try to lose weight
lol, calm down bro :| Weight aint nothin but a number.... actually its a body's relative mass or the quantity of matter contained by it, giving rise to a downward force, or the heaviness of a person or thing. but potato potato
You put it much more elegantly than I did, this is exactly what I meant by thick =D
That sig <3 Thats how I like my white women :noesbleed:
 

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What girl would wan't to be ugly?

IMO things like that are probably uncontrollable, or at least very hard to control. Some things are probably more physical than mental, for example higher metabolisms.

Honestly I think it's harder to maintain a a good weight with a higher metabolism than with a lower one, since with a lower metabolism, it's harder to lose weight when your at the proper weight, and weight gain can be easily monitored. Depending on how high your metabolism is, you could have serious problems gaining any weight at all, and it's usually not good to be extremely skinny, I have a few friends that have weight problems in that spectrum and they struggle a lot to gain weight, as it seems to take a lot more will power to force an appetite than to restrict it. (If you don't have much of one.) this is simply from my personal observation.
 
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