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I dont know how to name this but, there is something i would like to share and hear your opinions on this and give me some advices or w.e

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So, anyways, yestreday i was working and blabla, and these people who were sitting in my store (my yard) told everything to my parents what were i was doing.... drinking bear / having fun / trying to be friendly since its my store.... and these fucking losers brate, told everything to my parents.... Funny thing is, they even overacted everything while telling them.

So, this kind of shit is happening to me for like i dont know how much time and how many times... lets say like every time?

Like i go to the restoraunt or some shit or everywhere where i go, and all the people there are there, are all focused on me, one this one is telling me , dont do that... why did you this? Why did you do that? - Everybody is fucking coming to me and telling me why am i fucking doing things....?????

It happened so many times.... i could keep telling you stories about this.... and when my father told me about this, this' morning.... i was like so fucking mad that im not even sure what should i do anymore.... or w.e.... but after a few mins i pretended like it didnt even happened.

Please, give your opinion on this.
 

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That you should listen. It sounds like you're clearly doing something wrong. Even if the location permits you to do whatever it is, the job probably does not. It does not look like you're going to win your parents over the customers in this case either, so your best option is accept it happened and follow through.

I don't get your second paragraph though since it doesn't seem all that related.
 
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That you should listen. It sounds like you're clearly doing something wrong. Even if the location permits you to do whatever it is, the job probably does not. It does not look like you're going to win your parents over the customers in this case either, so your best option is accept it happened and follow through.

I don't get your second paragraph though since it doesn't seem all that related.
WHO THE **** CARES WTF AM I DOING BRATE...???? IM GONNA W.E THE **** I WANT TO DO ..... WHO THE **** ARE THEY TELLING ME SHIT AND TELLING TO MY PARENTS OR TELLING FUCKING EVERYONE.... THIS SHIT IS JUST HAPPENING TO ME.... IM GOING FUCKING INSANE FROM EVERYONE FUCKING LOSERS
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OMG.... fucking shit brate....


Second paragraph? EVERYBODY FUCKING TELLING ME FUCKING THINGS BRATE..... WHY DID YOU DRINK SO MUCH, WHY DO YOU WALK LIKE THIS? WHY IS YOUR HAIR LIKE THAT? WHY DID YOU SAY THAT? WHY THE **** THE **** FUCKING **** BRATE.....
[video=youtube;wmin5WkOuPw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmin5WkOuPw[/video]
 

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WHO THE **** CARES WTF AM I DOING BRATE...???? IM GONNA W.E THE **** I WANT TO DO ..... WHO THE **** ARE THEY TELLING ME SHIT AND TELLING TO MY PARENTS OR TELLING FUCKING EVERYONE.... THIS SHIT IS JUST HAPPENING TO ME.... IM GOING FUCKING INSANE FROM EVERYONE FUCKING LOSERS
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OMG.... fucking shit brate....


Second paragraph? EVERYBODY FUCKING TELLING ME FUCKING THINGS BRATE..... WHY DID YOU DRINK SO MUCH, WHY DO YOU WALK LIKE THIS? WHY IS YOUR HAIR LIKE THAT? WHY DID YOU SAY THAT? WHY THE **** THE **** FUCKING **** BRATE.....
[video=youtube;wmin5WkOuPw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmin5WkOuPw[/video]
Well if youre gonna act like a bitch about it either take their advice or just ignore them. Dont let it get to you so much.
 

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Well if youre gonna act like a bitch about it either take their advice or just ignore them. Dont let it get to you so much.
Who is acting like a bitch you fucking bitch brate.... you dont even understand bre....but i agree with the last part, but thats not the point.
 

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Perhaps it would make more sense why you are upset if you would relate what it is you are doing versus what it is people are saying you are doing, and what it is you are expected to be doing/not doing.

If I may be so bold as to engage in assumptions... if you are hanging around your parents' store, then you are probably considered an employee there. Employees are expected to tend to the business, particularly if it is your family business, as well as its customers. Now, sure, you aren't required to be an employee at your parents' store just because they have one, but it seems this store is also your home, where you live.

Adding these factors together nets the result of someone in his late teens to early 20s who is hanging out around the house, lacking much motivation to either inherit the business or pursue his own career decisions. When people voice their concerns, it strikes a nerve because you recognize they have a point, but feel as though the challenges you face in doing this are not being understood by them.

I could be wrong, and could just be an asshole making assumptions. But the vague explanation combined with the behavioral pattern fits.

In the case I am right, however, then you already know what it is you need to do. You just need to not exaggerate the problems and challenges you face. To be sure, they are there, but pick a small goal each day and achieve it. You don't have to leap tall buildings in a single bound. We all put our pants on one leg at a time, so to speak.
 

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Perhaps it would make more sense why you are upset if you would relate what it is you are doing versus what it is people are saying you are doing, and what it is you are expected to be doing/not doing.

If I may be so bold as to engage in assumptions... if you are hanging around your parents' store, then you are probably considered an employee there. Employees are expected to tend to the business, particularly if it is your family business, as well as its customers. Now, sure, you aren't required to be an employee at your parents' store just because they have one, but it seems this store is also your home, where you live.

Adding these factors together nets the result of someone in his late teens to early 20s who is hanging out around the house, lacking much motivation to either inherit the business or pursue his own career decisions. When people voice their concerns, it strikes a nerve because you recognize they have a point, but feel as though the challenges you face in doing this are not being understood by them.

I could be wrong, and could just be an asshole making assumptions. But the vague explanation combined with the behavioral pattern fits.

In the case I am right, however, then you already know what it is you need to do. You just need to not exaggerate the problems and challenges you face. To be sure, they are there, but pick a small goal each day and achieve it. You don't have to leap tall buildings in a single bound. We all put our pants on one leg at a time, so to speak.
I agree with the point you said back there. And i know me writing sometimes, can be a mess.... but its just the way i am. I dont fucking care business.... i dont care about anything. I tried to friendly and i was and this have nothing to do with anything. Its just the every single thing i do, everyone is talking about like i dont know. Few times i just want to say it to the face but im always holding back.... and that holding back is fucking killing me....

This has nothing to do with business or w.e .... but you do have some sort of point, but still i dont fucking care what they think or w.e .... you will see thousand of people sitting.... and i will be the only one standing.

So, you gonna accuse me of standing up? Or having fun? Or dancing...? Or laughing? or anything... and then thousand of that people will come and telling me their shit.... just gtfo be.... i dont fucking care bre brate be gtfo be....


you gonna and tell me " Hey brate... you laugh like a maniak? AND WTF AM I SUPPOSE TO FUCKING DO BRATE ABOUT IT.... TELL ME?????????? TELL ME !


OR HEY.... WHY ....I DONT KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN THIS...IF YOU CAN TELL ME SOMETHING THEN DO... PLEASE...CAUSE I DONT EVEN WTF AM I SAYING....
 
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Its honestly hard to believe this is even remotely true, i doubt heavily you even own any business. Look at your grammar...
What...? This has nothing to do with business.... and i do own...and i will tell you that when im working more people are coming....so dont tell me shit cause you know shit alright?


you obivously missed the point ... and you're talking about what exactly ? Do you even undestand what you're talking about here? What im talking about? ....

Doesnt matter, i know i wont even get an answer , but i just wanted to see the answers
 
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I agree with the point you said back there. And i know me writing sometimes, can be a mess.... but its just the way i am. I dont fucking care business.... i dont care about anything. I tried to friendly and i was and this have nothing to do with anything. Its just the every single thing i do, everyone is talking about like i dont know. Few times i just want to say it to the face but im always holding back.... and that holding back is fucking killing me....

This has nothing to do with business or w.e .... but you do have some sort of point, but still i dont fucking care what they think or w.e .... you will see thousand of people sitting.... and i will be the only one standing.

So, you gonna accuse me of standing up? Or having fun? Or dancing...? Or laughing? or anything... and then thousand of that people will come and telling me their shit.... just gtfo be.... i dont fucking care bre brate be gtfo be....
Well, it seems that you aren't happy in any case. I'm not sure I understand what the problem is, exactly, and it seems like you have your reasons for being vague.

However, you must ultimately live for yourself and what you want out of life. Sometimes, that means defying cultural standards or expectations placed on us. Sometimes, we simply don't like those expectations/standards and are acting out against them, and making things more difficult to achieve what we want while doing so. I am not sure which is the case for you.

I recently struck out at a system of doing things that I didn't like. It may have been a mistake, as I had to go through that system in order to find what I wanted. Or... if that is still on the table, I have made it more difficult for myself and everyone else, too.

Just as you are free to do as you choose (within certain realistic limitations), so are many other people. They may love you. They may hate you. Most will hardly ever notice you. If you're the subject of talk, then that means you're outstanding, already. You may not be able to control what they say about you, but the fact of the matter is that they are choosing to spend parts of their day to talk about you. Try not to squander that status on anger and hatred. If it is doubt in your ability, let it fuel your competitive drive to show them their error. If it is praise, then let it inspire you to show your appreciation through what it is you do. In either case, you are someone/something they can only talk about or ignore, and they've chosen to talk.
 
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Well, it seems that you aren't happy in any case. I'm not sure I understand what the problem is, exactly, and it seems like you have your reasons for being vague.

However, you must ultimately live for yourself and what you want out of life. Sometimes, that means defying cultural standards or expectations placed on us. Sometimes, we simply don't like those expectations/standards and are acting out against them, and making things more difficult to achieve what we want while doing so. I am not sure which is the case for you.

I recently struck out at a system of doing things that I didn't like. It may have been a mistake, as I had to go through that system in order to find what I wanted. Or... if that is still on the table, I have made it more difficult for myself and everyone else, too.

Just as you are free to do as you choose (within certain realistic limitations), so are many other people. They may love you. They may hate you. Most will hardly ever notice you. If you're the subject of talk, then that means you're outstanding, already. You may not be able to control what they say about you, but the fact of the matter is that they are choosing to spend parts of their day to talk about you. Try not to squander that status on anger and hatred. If it is doubt in your ability, let it fuel your competitive drive to show them their error. If it is praise, then let it inspire you to show your appreciation through what it is you do. In either case, you are someone/something they can only talk about or ignore, and they've chosen to talk.
Thank you...

Can i know, what was your problem with the system or what you said things you didnt like? And the things you were looking for? Was someonee telling you stuff or?
 
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Thank you...

Can i know, what was your problem with the system or what you said things you didnt like? And the things you were looking for? Was someonee telling you stuff or?
Well, I am afraid that I must be very general there, too.

However, let's say that Boruto were to go on a journey and Sarada were to go off and train with Orochimaru... but closer to the old Orochimaru. It was Sarada's decision, Boruto couldn't really help it, yet, it seemed to him like it was something she really didn't want to do. So, time passes and Boruto returns... but notices Sarada isn't really to be found. Yet, here are all of these strange ninja who seem to have some sort of genjutsu cast over them, and some of them seem to talk very similarly to how she does. They are, also, talking rather strange. Even though they seem to be talking about daily things in the town, there's always something more behind what they are saying. If you didn't know that Sarada was back in town, or a couple things about Sarada, then it would have just seemed like some villagers getting worked up over nothing.

Boruto is, understandably, rather frustrated that he can't talk to his old friend, directly. Moreover is the question of why. Is she in danger if she shows herself? Is it some kind of mission? Did he piss her off at some point and it is some kind of elaborate prank? Orochimaru attacked the village, before - has she been wrangled into something to harm the village?

This all reaches a boiling point when a group of Sarada's friends are arguing about whether or not she will become an Uzumaki. While Boruto never really thought Sarada would feel that way about him, that part didn't really trouble him... it was the idea that he was supposed to overhear that conversation. It would likely mean that all of this was some kind of setup or trap, and he knows that it would be one that Sarada would ultimately feel horrible for pulling.

So, he threatens to summon all the toads to start investigating the village if straight answers don't start coming his direction. He just wants his friend back and to be safe. He doesn't really care much for Orochimaru and is pretty sure that a rasengan large enough to properly express his disgust would destroy the planet. Things aren't right, everyone is being cryptic, and someone is possibly trying to toy with he and Sarada's feelings/relationship with each other to make horrible things happen. This is especially the case if Boruto is really far more head over heels for Sarada than is openly shown. True, it could be some other Uzumaki, somewhere, some how... but for all of that chatter to pick up just when he got back?

Perhaps it was the case that everyone thought Boruto couldn't understand some of what was being said, and so never considered how he might interpret what he heard. Or, perhaps Sarada was trolling some of her friends, who didn't like Boruto, a little too hard that day. He knows from his time out training and studying away from the village about subjects like Kaguya and the Akatsuki, and has seen a number of their symbols around the village, now. It's a scenario that would be entirely enthralling, were it not for the fact that one of his most precious people is possibly in danger or otherwise still fighting against something.
 

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Take it like a man. Don't bitch about it.
I would like to see the whole world on your shoulders.... every single thing.... and i would like to ask you then how would you feel. This has nothing to do with bitching or not....

Im taking this shit for a long time, either be in my shoes and feel how its like - when you have to change your face/ your style/ your walk.... your everything - then talk to me
 

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Its honestly hard to believe this is even remotely true, i doubt heavily you even own any business. Look at your grammar...
Nope. Believe it! This is definitely the sort of life that the Uchiha of the Internet hidden village is living. In fact, you've been trolled. Everyone been trolled. Even guests.
 
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