Enh. It's ok.
We just obviously have different opinions on this subject.
I just believe its wrong to have *** before marriage, as well as looking at porn.
I believe that everyone has a soul-mate that they are supposed to love and marry. And by looking at porn or having *** before marriage you are commiting adultry in your mind. Which can be considered just as bad as doing it physically.
I know not everyone will agree with me on this, and I'm not asking you to. I'm just saying that this is how I feel about it.
WRONG!!!
its so wrong what u?re saying
i?ll explain with some other occasion though, id have to post a long rant and time is not allowing me to do that now lol
WRONG!!!
its so wrong what u?re saying
i?ll explain with some other occasion though, id have to post a long rant and time is not allowing me to do that now lol
Well like I said. That's just how I feel about it. I don't mean to offend anyone, and I'm not gonna judge anyone on what they do because thats their feelings.
I'm not saying that what is said is how it is, or definite or anything. Thats just how I feel, and I highly doubt my feelings will be changed.
You and anyone else can do w/e you want according to how you feel about it. But this is how it is for me.
Enh. It's ok.
We just obviously have different opinions on this subject.
I just believe its wrong to have *** before marriage, as well as looking at porn.
I believe that everyone has a soul-mate that they are supposed to love and marry. And by looking at porn or having *** before marriage you are commiting adultry in your mind. Which can be considered just as bad as doing it physically.
I know not everyone will agree with me on this, and I'm not asking you to. I'm just saying that this is how I feel about it.
and feel that there is a soul mate for everyone...
However speaking from experience. We are all mortal, and soul mates get taken from us without a moments notice... I'll be damned if the powers that be will take the love of my life away, and then to deny myself pleasure because she is no longer around... it's madness.
Thats too much for me...
On a lighter note, i feel that you owe it to that special someone the best *** of their life, especially if your going to be with that one person for the rest of your life. So what not develop your skills first. Learn some variations to keep it spicy. The number one reason why divorce happens now a days is due to a boring and lack of an adequate *** life.
and feel that there is a soul mate for everyone...
However speaking from experience. We are all mortal, and soul mates get taken from us without a moments notice... I'll be damned if the powers that be will take the love of my life away, and then to deny myself pleasure because she is no longer around... it's madness.
Thats too much for me...
On a lighter note, i feel that you owe it to that special someone the best *** of their life, especially if your going to be with that one person for the rest of your life. So what not develop your skills first. Learn some variations to keep it spicy. The number one reason why divorce happens now a days is due to a boring and lack of an adequate *** life.
I see what you're saying, and I also respect your opinion. I just don't feel that way. I'd like to think that my marriage won't rely on ***, and it'll survive because we truly care about each other in every way.
But I hope however you and anyone else goes about it, it works for you.
And I think I'm gonna stop posting here now. I've given my opinion and feel we've gotten a little off Izuna's topic, and I don't want to argue.
WRONG!!!
its so wrong what u?re saying
i?ll explain with some other occasion though, id have to post a long rant and time is not allowing me to do that now lol
The mans entitled to his opinion, and IMO I think hes right... I'm a christiian, and I think *** should be saved for the person you truly love... not someone you meet one night, and will probably never see again... Or someone you just turn to for comfort ***... However with the porn thing, I don't think looking at porn is necessarily as bad as doing it physically(Although it is bad)... Thats like saying having a wet dream is a crime.
and feel that there is a soul mate for everyone...
However speaking from experience. We are all mortal, and soul mates get taken from us without a moments notice... I'll be damned if the powers that be will take the love of my life away, and then to deny myself pleasure because she is no longer around... it's madness.
Thats too much for me...
On a lighter note, i feel that you owe it to that special someone the best *** of their life, especially if your going to be with that one person for the rest of your life. So what not develop your skills first. Learn some variations to keep it spicy. The number one reason why divorce happens now a days is due to a boring and lack of an adequate *** life.
I disagree G, I mean, wouldn't you want it so that the ONLY person your married with knows how it feels to have *** with you? That to me shows them how much u love them.
Me being young, at school I see stuff that shouldn't even be happening at my age. (Saw ppl getting it on in the bathroom). I mean... look at Vanessa Hudgens, and Miley Cyrus... It's no wonder girls are throwing their clothes off left and right at such young ages... I'm just really wrried about what the next generation will be like. U_U
Btw, I'm always late to these kinda threads. I hate that.
O_O how is it possible that I didn't notice this thread untill a sec. ago
Well you have started a discussion about a very sensitive and incredibly complex subject. Well first things first:
Have I watched porn? Yes. Have I watched hentai? yes. Have I paid for it?
HELL NO!!!!!like I'm not going to waste my money for that
Our generation is indeed a pervy one, because we have easy access to porn.
However that doesn't mean that we're worse than 50 years ago, they just had more problems to get porn. 2000 years ago there was already porn, the Romans had public brothels and they were treated as a normal part of society, just like a church, a super market, a book store...With other wors it was far normal back then than it is now.
You also need to make a difference between having *** and watching porn. Pulling your joystick (through porn) is normal. A man produces around 20 000 sperm cels(or more) a day and they really need to get out once in a while, otherwise your crown juwells would blow up after some weeks. That's why our body automatically force them out of the body(for example by urinating).
Doing it with porn is just literally 'lending nature a helping hand'. Of course in some cases that can lead to addiction.
About *** itself, I'm not the type of 'no *** before marriage', but I'm not the type that goes with every chance it has to get laid either. To me *** is the action that's the personification of the love between to people. However it's possible that after some years the love is gone and that you search for a new one (I don't believe in soul mates).
Things like roleplay and toys have no function in this, that's more for people who just like *** itself and not the meaning of it.
O_O how is it possible that I didn't notice this thread untill a sec. ago
Well you have started a discussion about a very sensitive and incredibly complex subject. Well first things first:
Have I watched porn? Yes. Have I watched hentai? yes. Have I paid for it?
HELL NO!!!!!like I'm not going to waste my money for that
Our generation is indeed a pervy one, because we have easy access to porn.
However that doesn't mean that we're worse than 50 years ago, they just had more problems to get porn. 2000 years ago there was already porn, the Romans had public brothels and they were treated as a normal part of society, just like a church, a super market, a book store...With other wors it was far normal back then than it is now.
You also need to make a difference between having *** and watching porn. Pulling your joystick (through porn) is normal. A man produces around 20 000 sperm cels(or more) a day and they really need to get out once in a while, otherwise your crown juwells would blow up after some weeks. That's why our body automatically force them out of the body(for example by urinating).
Doing it with porn is just literally 'lending nature a helping hand'. Of course in some cases that can lead to addiction.
About *** itself, I'm not the type of 'no *** before marriage', but I'm not the type that goes with every chance it has to get laid either. To me *** is the action that's the personification of the love between to people. However it's possible that after some years the love is gone and that you search for a new one (I don't believe in soul mates).
Things like roleplay and toys have no function in this, that's more for people who just like *** itself and not the meaning of it.
xD Yeah, porn is waaay too easy to access now... but I disagree... we are worse than yrs b4... nude teenage celebrities are a regular in the news now. I'm just hoping my sister doesn't become a statistic in all this. ^_^
xD Yeah, porn is waaay too easy to access now... but I disagree... we are worse than yrs b4... nude teenage celebrities are a regular in the news now. I'm just hoping my sister doesn't become a statistic in all this. ^_^
I can say this because I've had an addiction to pornography when I was in middle school.
I'm 19 now, and honestly I still struggle with it sometimes. I've never bought anything, but the whole internet part of it. I've decided a long time ago that I no longer wish to have anything to do with pornography, but I still get the urges for it on occasion and sometimes its not that easy to resist and I succumb.
I'm not proud of it, but once you're addicted, you're addicted for life. Just like an alcoholic. Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. If you feed the addiction or not, it'll still always tempt you.
Be watchful for your sister and protect her from what you can. And help her when she needs help. For our generation is indeed in trouble.
well thats in da USA but in other countries racism and drugs r increasing rapidly due to many changes and wars
example : before the 11 of September , Muslims and Christian had much better relationship than now a days
now let me ask u a question . what is ur rxn when u see a Muslim guy sitting beside u in class or in ur work?? will u act normal?? or will u just keep away from him and just treat him as garbage??? i am a Christian gut who lives in a Muslim country and i just hear a lot of stories that happened 2 friends of mine who had 2 go to europe or usa and faced many critics and racist guys that treated them as animals or worse
and feel that there is a soul mate for everyone...
However speaking from experience. We are all mortal, and soul mates get taken from us without a moments notice... I'll be damned if the powers that be will take the love of my life away, and then to deny myself pleasure because she is no longer around... it's madness.
Thats too much for me...
On a lighter note, i feel that you owe it to that special someone the best *** of their life, especially if your going to be with that one person for the rest of your life. So what not develop your skills first. Learn some variations to keep it spicy. The number one reason why divorce happens now a days is due to a boring and lack of an adequate *** life.
The mans entitled to his opinion, and IMO I think hes right... I'm a christiian, and I think *** should be saved for the person you truly love... not someone you meet one night, and will probably never see again... Or someone you just turn to for comfort ***... However with the porn thing, I don't think looking at porn is necessarily as bad as doing it physically(Although it is bad)... Thats like saying having a wet dream is a crime.
I disagree G, I mean, wouldn't you want it so that the ONLY person your married with knows how it feels to have *** with you? That to me shows them how much u love them.
Me being young, at school I see stuff that shouldn't even be happening at my age. (Saw ppl getting it on in the bathroom). I mean... look at Vanessa Hudgens, and Miley Cyrus... It's no wonder girls are throwing their clothes off left and right at such young ages... I'm just really wrried about what the next generation will be like. U_U
Btw, I'm always late to these kinda threads. I hate that.
Did u know that it is recommended for a man to ejaculate at least 20 times a month?
So no it is not bad for the body, unless if u exaggerate (like everything).
That's precisely why I made this tread, for all those things everyone hear but can never confirm (like u said with the two young lovers in the bathroom). I want to confirm if those are myth of reality. If they are true, like I suspect, then be sure I will have a talk with my sister
O_O how is it possible that I didn't notice this thread untill a sec. ago
Well you have started a discussion about a very sensitive and incredibly complex subject. Well first things first:
Have I watched porn? Yes. Have I watched hentai? yes. Have I paid for it?
HELL NO!!!!!like I'm not going to waste my money for that
Our generation is indeed a pervy one, because we have easy access to porn.
However that doesn't mean that we're worse than 50 years ago, they just had more problems to get porn. 2000 years ago there was already porn, the Romans had public brothels and they were treated as a normal part of society, just like a church, a super market, a book store...With other wors it was far normal back then than it is now.
You also need to make a difference between having *** and watching porn. Pulling your joystick (through porn) is normal. A man produces around 20 000 sperm cels(or more) a day and they really need to get out once in a while, otherwise your crown juwells would blow up after some weeks. That's why our body automatically force them out of the body(for example by urinating).
Doing it with porn is just literally 'lending nature a helping hand'. Of course in some cases that can lead to addiction.
About *** itself, I'm not the type of 'no *** before marriage', but I'm not the type that goes with every chance it has to get laid either. To me *** is the action that's the personification of the love between to people. However it's possible that after some years the love is gone and that you search for a new one (I don't believe in soul mates).
Things like roleplay and toys have no function in this, that's more for people who just like *** itself and not the meaning of it.
Even tough porn did existed before, we are one of the first generation to literally make a culture out of porn.
For example, pornstar being seen in videoclip (Jenna Jameson in one of Eminem's clip).
Porn as turn into a way of life and that's what I'm disgust about. *** is no more something special, it was banalize to a point of no return where some men will have difficulty having an erection at their first sexual relation because they are use to hardcore and situation that are outrageously false!
That's precisely why I made this tread, for all those things everyone hear but can never confirm (like u said with the two young lovers in the bathroom). I want to confirm if those are myth of reality. If they are true, like I suspect, then be sure I will have a talk with my sister
While I'm done expressing my views on the topic, I would like to give some advice on your last sentence.
I believe you said your sister is 13? If so then I don't believe it'd be too late, as, if anything, she only be beginning to be introduced to such things. So if you do decide to talk with her, don't be accusive if you're not positive there's been any involvement yet. Just be honest about your feelings on the subject and try to make her understand your point of view. Hopefully she respects you enough to value your opinion and take what you say to heart.
In my opinion you seem like a very caring brother and I hope your sister realizes that you have her best intrests in mind^^
well idk about our generation as a whole. but i know that I was raised / still being raised in a good christian home. i've made a promise to myself to wait and Really enjoy my honeymoon
While I'm done expressing my views on the topic, I would like to give some advice on your last sentence.
I believe you said your sister is 13? If so then I don't believe it'd be too late, as, if anything, she only be beginning to be introduced to such things. So if you do decide to talk with her, don't be accusive if you're not positive there's been any involvement yet. Just be honest about your feelings on the subject and try to make her understand your point of view. Hopefully she respects you enough to value your opinion and take what you say to heart.
In my opinion you seem like a very caring brother and I hope your sister realizes that you have her best intrests in mind^^
Thk for the honesty. I know what u mean by addiction, a deep urge to just watch porn right? Not really addiction (like G pointed out).
For my sister, I just hope it's not too later =/
There's already damage made by some music group like the *****cat Dolls and some other shit like that.
Right, I forgot about the other race =/
The new black people are the Muslim, unfortunately.
I share ur opinion on the first part bro =D
As well as the second one
Did u know that it is recommended for a man to ejaculate at least 20 times a month?
So no it is not bad for the body, unless if u exaggerate (like everything).
That's precisely why I made this tread, for all those things everyone hear but can never confirm (like u said with the two young lovers in the bathroom). I want to confirm if those are myth of reality. If they are true, like I suspect, then be sure I will have a talk with my sister
While I'm done expressing my views on the topic, I would like to give some advice on your last sentence.
I believe you said your sister is 13? If so then I don't believe it'd be too late, as, if anything, she only be beginning to be introduced to such things. So if you do decide to talk with her, don't be accusive if you're not positive there's been any involvement yet. Just be honest about your feelings on the subject and try to make her understand your point of view. Hopefully she respects you enough to value your opinion and take what you say to heart.
In my opinion you seem like a very caring brother and I hope your sister realizes that you have her best intrests in mind^^
U would be surprise if I showed u a pic of her when she about to go see her friends and that I told u she was 13 . Therefore, I am positive when saying that she knows pretty much everything that need to be known about ***.
Do not underestimate the power of TV and Internet.
U would be surprise if I showed u a pic of her when she about to go see her friends and that I told u she was 13 . Therefore, I am positive when saying that she knows pretty much everything that need to be known about ***.
Do not underestimate the power of TV and Internet.
Ah, well, since I don't know your sister I was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.
But your welcome as to the advice.
Even if you know she is involved in such things, try to be understanding above all else. It's always better to let someone know that you're really trying to help them, rather than yelling or being accusive. Just approach the situation as delicately as you can. And as I've said before, I hope your sister respects your opinion enough to listen to you.
The mans entitled to his opinion, and IMO I think hes right... I'm a christiian, and I think *** should be saved for the person you truly love... not someone you meet one night, and will probably never see again... Or someone you just turn to for comfort ***... However with the porn thing, I don't think looking at porn is necessarily as bad as doing it physically(Although it is bad)... Thats like saying having a wet dream is a crime.
I disagree G, I mean, wouldn't you want it so that the ONLY person your married with knows how it feels to have *** with you? That to me shows them how much u love them.
Me being young, at school I see stuff that shouldn't even be happening at my age. (Saw ppl getting it on in the bathroom). I mean... look at Vanessa Hudgens, and Miley Cyrus... It's no wonder girls are throwing their clothes off left and right at such young ages... I'm just really wrried about what the next generation will be like. U_U
Btw, I'm always late to these kinda threads. I hate that.
Some Christians and Most Catholics believe that having a wet dream is a crime against God. I think thats nuts, but we can have the religion debate another date...
Also i wish that you would drop said thinking of love equates to ***, i'll address why soon. There are many ways that you can love someone, but never ***.
As for the rest of your post...
I mostly disagree, personally i prefer if my partner has some experience with ***. Not only does it take the pressure of me having to teach them to find what they like, it allows me to learn something new from them.
Overall, and what im about to say may offend some of you, based on your own admission you haven't had the experience of ***, And i'm not talking about masturbation but the actual act of intercourse. With that said your opinions are meaningless.
Without that experience you have no idea what your talking about. That is like me saying i hate mangoes, but never actually had one, to make a proper opinion on the matter. *** can be literally a life changing event, and for that reason i strongly suggest that people wait until they feel that they are ready for such a developmental change to occur in their life(16+). But to wait to marriage, and to miss out on such a fantastic(when preformed comfortably, consensually, and protected) experience, only to be greatly disappointed on what is suppose to be a great night between man and women. **** that..lol
Anywho..
Being such a developmental tool, people get the notion to associate *** with love. Guys in particularly use this excuse to take advantage of females. How many times have we heard,"I love you, and if you love me you'll sleep with me." It's because of the association of love with *** many people are taken advantage of. This is should not be the case.
Sadly it is....
Now about little kids(8-14) dressing like grown sexy women, we are on the same page. I wouldn't want me daughter to dress like, until i knew that she ready to deal with the criticism and pressure that comes with wearing a revealing dress or shirt.