The 1st time your gf didnt say "I love you" back

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I thought i love that girl, i did lots of things for her, but in the end i saw that i never loved her, it was only passion and you know that when the feeling goes up or down...

When it's all about the passion who are always horny, want to make out all the time, those kind of stuff.
If you love, you'll just want to be with her, in silence (silence is a magical moment and very revealing)... don't get me wrong, you'll still want to be in her panties :p...

In the end, if we keep our head in it's place it comes down something like this: first comes passion, that fire burning. When it starts to change, you need to evaluate how you feel. Is it loving emerging? Or just the passion fading and nothing is left?





Yeah, we have to be more than geniuses to understand girls.Their instruction manual is like the bible!!!



That was tough... but let me tell you that a 3 month crush is nothing compared to a 2 year big time crush and hearing: "oh, i like you very much... like a brother!!!!

Tell me, why do you need to be up late phoning each other?!
My brother does the same... that is damn annoying! I don't really like talking on the phone... but that's me ;)
it's fun when we make a game out of it :)
 

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Lmao
bro
heres how it goes for me

1.Bestfriend. She used to ALWAYS be on mere. never let me go in skool. Until i moved. she cried her ass off the whole week. but i didnt realized i liked her till i moved. =/ so iono

2.Bestfriend. We dated at first but she Played me. Played me hard. so then she came back to me. then we started becoming real close. she was suprised when i told her i still liked her. so then.... yea. we dont even talk no more. her head is to swole now

3.Bestfriend. OMG!. im not gonna liie. its pure lust. i would Screw the hell outta her xd she always said i can touch them. OMG! Boobs were PERFECT .. and her smile. and i actually did like her till she became a hoe. now i just want that ass

4.The one who dumped me right afterwards. U_U

5. The one i have now. She lead me on for abotu 1yr str8. just to tell me no smh. She told me she likes me. but she not going to give in. i pray. OMG. i do that one day she will say yes. Cause shes the reason i been single for a while. or dont "Like" girls like i want to.
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all my bestfriends have a story behind them. but i guess thats what makes them so special

Yep, you take the cake on this one... unfortunately not for the best!
But i understand you... my story is similar i guess...
For me it makes sense to be with someone you know well: their tastes, their expressions when happy or sad... so... a friend! right?!
Haven't found someone that thinks like me...

lol, I broke away with my bf
cuz he said "Baby, I love you". I felt bad cuz I hadn't the same feeling towards him. So, when he said "I love you" I got back with a kiss and "Oh, that's so sweet". But then I just thought it was not fair and the day after I called him and broke.​
C'mon... you could at least tell him in person!

But i guess it's kind of hard to hear and not be able to answer back...
 
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Yep, you take the cake on this one... unfortunately not for the best!
But i understand you... my story is similar i guess...
For me it makes sense to be with someone you know well: their tastes, their expressions when happy or sad... so... a friend! right?!
Haven't found someone that thinks like me...
bro the bold, defines how i feel.. i need a chick that shares the same interests! someone who watches anime, someone that can play xbox xd someone that works hard, and someone with a spiritual side to them and many other things that make me go wow.. i need that women U_U but i could never be in a desperate search, just gotta go with the flow >.> and never main a hoe.
 

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You dont want somebody who thinks like you
because believe it or not

most people wouldnt deal with themselves like they can deal with others

i like some1 who i can turn their flaws into perfections

true but i don't want someone exactly like me, just those things that are similar.. she also has to have things about her that throw me off in a good way..but i guess you can say i have updated my standards lol
 

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he wasn't my bf but...
it was 4 years ago :( I thought I made a new friend so after 4 weeks I stayed at her house for a sleep over

like all girls know at sleep overs we always ask the question "so who do you have a rush on"

well this girl who I thought was my friend asked me and I told her U_U very stupid of me but then both her and her friends started agreeing with me and each one of them said "imma ask him out"

so the next day I tried to beat them to it but mrs.Backstaber got to him before me :( Though I still told him how I felt that I had the biggest crush on him for 3 months and I loved him *crying* he told me he was sorry because she already asked him out and walked away

now with my bf we were on the phone all night till 4am :) we were both getting sleepy so we were waiting on who will drop first

we both were just talking about random things and for the first time I told him I loved him... he fell asleep on me and his grandma had picked up the phone to hang it up at the same time I said it :( she told me if I break her grandchilds heart she would break my head
aww- girls can be mean that is for sure but it sounds like you and your bf have a nice relationship you'll have to say it again if he fell asleep I wouldnt think its a bad thing- he just got tired...

I have had people tell me they love me but I dont feel the same I always felt bad when I would tell them that I care about them as a friend but that I dont love them in the sense that they love me... No matter how you put it if you are rejecting someone it never goes over well... U_U
 

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bro the bold, defines how i feel.. i need a chick that shares the same interests! someone who watches anime, someone that can play xbox xd someone that works hard, and someone with a spiritual side to them and many other things that make me go wow.. i need that women U_U but i could never be in a desperate search, just gotta go with the flow >.> and never main a hoe.
exactly. Where are those ladies?!

You dont want somebody who thinks like you
because believe it or not

most people wouldnt deal with themselves like they can deal with others

i like some1 who i can turn their flaws into perfections
trust me, you don't. I tried that and realized it was non sense. Why would you be with someone who's flaws you can't accept?

You want a doll with no will or a woman?!

Yeah, I know, but as a matter of fact i wasn't able to tell him in person cuz I was ashamed​
:shy:
not easy i see. O kinda want to understand by actually can't.

But i can judge you as i never went thru something like that
 

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Theres a Dif between Liking a girl from scratch

Or building up a relationship to like a girll

Talk to a girl as a friend and work your way up

Vs trying to spit game and make her your boo thang

I prefer some1 who i know their dirt and flaws
and i can accept them because i accept her
 

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lmao i wonder that myself my friend , i am rolling solo until she arrives. i may just have to for some non-american women , i do love me some foreign women but idk xd
You are right about a foreign girl most girls in other countries are more humble then the ones over here check this documentary out you'll see.(Not the prostitute part lmao)


 

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ok and it happend to me again just now :( he asked me if I would have a threesome with him and another girl...I told him no then he asked why wouldn't I and I said it should only be between 2 people who really love eachother and he said well I would just watch tem then and I asked him would he really touch another girl or let another girl touch him after he said he loved me and took my first time...he didn't answer so I said I loved him and he hung up on me :( he can be such a jerk sometimes
 

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ok and it happend to me again just now :( he asked me if I would have a threesome with him and another girl...I told him no then he asked why wouldn't I and I said it should only be between 2 people who really love eachother and he said well I would just watch tem then and I asked him would he really touch another girl or let another girl touch him after he said he loved me and took my first time...he didn't answer so I said I loved him and he hung up on me :( he can be such a jerk sometimes
Lmao
 
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Then only time I don't get a "I love you too" is when I mumble it first. xD I always text it to her first but when talking irl she normally says it first. But seriously love isn't expressed by just words alone but actions, I'm not talking about stuff like kissing, hugging and etc but showing that you need them to live your life. That's how I am right now. ^.^
 

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lmao i wonder that myself my friend , i am rolling solo until she arrives. i may just have to for some non-american women , i do love me some foreign women but idk xd
I can't say that here in Portugal i have one to introduce you because i haven't found on for myself... they all seem more interested in stuff that's not of our interest... actually i only know one... but she's "married" and with two newborn kids... then again i'm called "Mr. Strange" for some reason...

Theres a Dif between Liking a girl from scratch

Or building up a relationship to like a girll

Talk to a girl as a friend and work your way up

Vs trying to spit game and make her your boo thang

I prefer some1 who i know their dirt and flaws
and i can accept them because i accept her
You are quite correct my friend!
We have to build the relationship...

I like the way you think about the flaws and dirts... when we accept them, we are much closer of truly loving that person.

You are right about a foreign girl most girls in other countries are more humble then the ones over here check this documentary out you'll see.(Not the prostitute part lmao)


It's actually not that linear... i know some arrogant girls too... with their nose pointing to the sky!!!


ok and it happend to me again just now :( he asked me if I would have a threesome with him and another girl...I told him no then he asked why wouldn't I and I said it should only be between 2 people who really love eachother and he said well I would just watch tem then and I asked him would he really touch another girl or let another girl touch him after he said he loved me and took my first time...he didn't answer so I said I loved him and he hung up on me :( he can be such a jerk sometimes
Kick him in the balls!!!! And don't go after him after that!!! Not easy i know, but you must resist.

I'm a guy and i don't like those kinkiness!! I prefer to give all my attention to a single girls and make her feel special, then boost my ego by telling my friends: oh... i did two girls at once!!!

Lmao
AHAHAHA... damn Seth McFarlan... that guys know how to make me laugh!!!



This thread is actually interesting... i'll +rep the guy who started it!!
 
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