Well it sounds like you are talking to the wrong kind of girls first of all. I mean, i have never based any of my relationships on what the dude looked like. It was all about how he treated me and so on and so on. I don't understand why this girl hates you just because you didn't want to date her either. I get the fact that you enjoyed just being friends, it shows me that that friendship was very important to you and you didn't want to ruin things. This is a good quality to have. I can't say that your generation is hated though. I mean, there are a lot of disrespectful kids nowadays but that's because of bad parenting apparently. Yes children have a bad habit of shooting off at the mouth but so do adults. There is nothing wrong with voicing your opinion as long as you are using facts and not just spouting a bunch of none sense, ya know? And the media serves our rotten excuse for a President so of course they only talk about the bad things to justify all his bad decision making. I'm not even getting started on that topic, lol! But hang in there, you seem like one of the good kids that will hopefully do some good in this world. Just wait til you're in your 20s like me, the harder problems are waiting and one day you will look back at this current problem and laugh....hopefully!