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Okay well , this is not actually rinnemaki , i am his younger brother
i am 14 and i am having quite a LOT of problems , a teenage crisis (we could say) , and i have googled to find basic solutions to everything... however i have found nothing.
Firstly , why do girls think looks are everything? not their own looks , i found that is based off of insecurity and striving for perfection , but the looks of us guys , a lot of girls at school think looks are everything , all the popular guys are good looking (better looking than me anyways) and the fact they are all pricks goes out of the window completely , and i wanted to get some female responses (or experience elder male members too) on why girls think a good looking prick who would cheat on you whenever they get the chance is better than an ugly prince charming?
Another one is that girls cannot be understood , i conclude that is impossible , but it only makes life difficult , for example this girl asked me out and i rejected her , she now hates me , as in my very presence makes her puke :|
I just wanted to stay as friends and keep the friendship we had before , so can someone tell me how it is possible to do that even when i cannot say a word :|
Finally; why does everyone hate my generation? hear me out please , you may think that we are all retarded without discipline and things like that , but this is all driven by the generation which raised my generation , and they are the ones who hate us the most , and worse still is the fact you left us in deep sh!t and didnt sourt out your own problems , society is now dependant on my generation to fix emition problems , and to sourt out all ethical issues e.g. gay pride etc. when they are: the ones emitting CO2 and SO4 , not us , and also the ones who are trying to get their own way instead of meeting half way... and worse still is they expect us to behave like adults and are treated like children (please make up your mind?)and now the press and media (far more involved in society and day to day life than previously) are only highlighting the bad things in life , and because we are the future adults, we are the most popular target , and there are more published cases of teenage crime compared to the past , my dad agrees with me on this , he went to the same school as me and my brother and he says there where people who drank and stirred up trouble when he was there 30 years ago.
The only real difference is that my generation (mainly , not totally) lacks the ability to keep their mouth shut (bring on the lets beat the sh!t out of our kids for discipline arguements) , you could say that i can't , but this is the internet where i can say what i want within legal regulations , we know that what our parents say goes but the freedom of speech means we can express our views on certain topics e.g. house rules, we can meet half way with our parents for a compromise , however because of the way they where brought up they think that they are dictators within the home because it is their only place where they have power (asides work , but there is always somebody higher up the chain), so basically , we are hated because our elders are scared of change , and we get the wrong end of the stick...
i am 14 and i am having quite a LOT of problems , a teenage crisis (we could say) , and i have googled to find basic solutions to everything... however i have found nothing.
Firstly , why do girls think looks are everything? not their own looks , i found that is based off of insecurity and striving for perfection , but the looks of us guys , a lot of girls at school think looks are everything , all the popular guys are good looking (better looking than me anyways) and the fact they are all pricks goes out of the window completely , and i wanted to get some female responses (or experience elder male members too) on why girls think a good looking prick who would cheat on you whenever they get the chance is better than an ugly prince charming?
Another one is that girls cannot be understood , i conclude that is impossible , but it only makes life difficult , for example this girl asked me out and i rejected her , she now hates me , as in my very presence makes her puke :|
I just wanted to stay as friends and keep the friendship we had before , so can someone tell me how it is possible to do that even when i cannot say a word :|
Finally; why does everyone hate my generation? hear me out please , you may think that we are all retarded without discipline and things like that , but this is all driven by the generation which raised my generation , and they are the ones who hate us the most , and worse still is the fact you left us in deep sh!t and didnt sourt out your own problems , society is now dependant on my generation to fix emition problems , and to sourt out all ethical issues e.g. gay pride etc. when they are: the ones emitting CO2 and SO4 , not us , and also the ones who are trying to get their own way instead of meeting half way... and worse still is they expect us to behave like adults and are treated like children (please make up your mind?)and now the press and media (far more involved in society and day to day life than previously) are only highlighting the bad things in life , and because we are the future adults, we are the most popular target , and there are more published cases of teenage crime compared to the past , my dad agrees with me on this , he went to the same school as me and my brother and he says there where people who drank and stirred up trouble when he was there 30 years ago.
The only real difference is that my generation (mainly , not totally) lacks the ability to keep their mouth shut (bring on the lets beat the sh!t out of our kids for discipline arguements) , you could say that i can't , but this is the internet where i can say what i want within legal regulations , we know that what our parents say goes but the freedom of speech means we can express our views on certain topics e.g. house rules, we can meet half way with our parents for a compromise , however because of the way they where brought up they think that they are dictators within the home because it is their only place where they have power (asides work , but there is always somebody higher up the chain), so basically , we are hated because our elders are scared of change , and we get the wrong end of the stick...