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Okay well , this is not actually rinnemaki , i am his younger brother
i am 14 and i am having quite a LOT of problems , a teenage crisis (we could say) , and i have googled to find basic solutions to everything... however i have found nothing.

Firstly , why do girls think looks are everything? not their own looks , i found that is based off of insecurity and striving for perfection , but the looks of us guys , a lot of girls at school think looks are everything , all the popular guys are good looking (better looking than me anyways) and the fact they are all pricks goes out of the window completely , and i wanted to get some female responses (or experience elder male members too) on why girls think a good looking prick who would cheat on you whenever they get the chance is better than an ugly prince charming?

Another one is that girls cannot be understood , i conclude that is impossible , but it only makes life difficult , for example this girl asked me out and i rejected her , she now hates me , as in my very presence makes her puke :|

I just wanted to stay as friends and keep the friendship we had before , so can someone tell me how it is possible to do that even when i cannot say a word :|

Finally; why does everyone hate my generation? hear me out please , you may think that we are all retarded without discipline and things like that , but this is all driven by the generation which raised my generation , and they are the ones who hate us the most , and worse still is the fact you left us in deep sh!t and didnt sourt out your own problems , society is now dependant on my generation to fix emition problems , and to sourt out all ethical issues e.g. gay pride etc. when they are: the ones emitting CO2 and SO4 , not us , and also the ones who are trying to get their own way instead of meeting half way... and worse still is they expect us to behave like adults and are treated like children (please make up your mind?)and now the press and media (far more involved in society and day to day life than previously) are only highlighting the bad things in life , and because we are the future adults, we are the most popular target , and there are more published cases of teenage crime compared to the past , my dad agrees with me on this , he went to the same school as me and my brother and he says there where people who drank and stirred up trouble when he was there 30 years ago.

The only real difference is that my generation (mainly , not totally) lacks the ability to keep their mouth shut (bring on the lets beat the sh!t out of our kids for discipline arguements) , you could say that i can't , but this is the internet where i can say what i want within legal regulations , we know that what our parents say goes but the freedom of speech means we can express our views on certain topics e.g. house rules, we can meet half way with our parents for a compromise , however because of the way they where brought up they think that they are dictators within the home because it is their only place where they have power (asides work , but there is always somebody higher up the chain), so basically , we are hated because our elders are scared of change , and we get the wrong end of the stick...
 

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Take it from a girl, my gender sucks.

People hate our generation because 75% of us are retarded. We are a generation of wimps. We get suspended for nibbling pop tarts in the shape of a gun and we get trophies for failing. Some of are freaking cool though.
 

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Take it from a girl, my gender sucks.

People hate our generation because 75% of us are retarded. We are a generation of wimps. We get suspended for nibbling pop tarts in the shape of a gun and we get trophies for failing. Some of are freaking cool though.

that is because our governments are terrible , making education board suck (part of the elder generations) ^^
 

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Most girls your age are just shallow and insecure man......as for the rest of what you mentioned I'll get back to you later Im heading out now
 

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that is because our governments are terrible , making education board suck (part of the elder generations) ^^

There are lots of people to blame, frankly. At some point we just have to take responsibility for ourselves.

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you live in small world my friend(sorry not trying make fun of you ...but what you wrote is ehh).....no one hates your generation, and nice guys don't finish last ...guys that don't put themselves out there finish last....gotta show the ladies that ...that's not the type of guys they should go for but only you can do that...i dont know what type of girls you're attracted to....plus good looking guys have confidence ,,,that's what girls like the most...i bet you can get randoms girls number at the mall if you just handed them your phone and asked to put their number in it....she would be really surprised and some will be intrigued while other may not.

also girls are really emo don't stress it.
 

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I don'y know\\\some girls try to go out with me outside of school but during///"omg did u see eric beating up the mentally challenged kid?//he's so sexy"
 

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Okay well , this is not actually rinnemaki , i am his younger brother
i am 14 and i am having quite a LOT of problems , a teenage crisis (we could say) , and i have googled to find basic solutions to everything... however i have found nothing.

Firstly , why do girls think looks are everything? not their own looks , i found that is based off of insecurity and striving for perfection , but the looks of us guys , a lot of girls at school think looks are everything , all the popular guys are good looking (better looking than me anyways) and the fact they are all pricks goes out of the window completely , and i wanted to get some female responses (or experience elder male members too) on why girls think a good looking prick who would cheat on you whenever they get the chance is better than an ugly prince charming?

Another one is that girls cannot be understood , i conclude that is impossible , but it only makes life difficult , for example this girl asked me out and i rejected her , she now hates me , as in my very presence makes her puke :|

I just wanted to stay as friends and keep the friendship we had before , so can someone tell me how it is possible to do that even when i cannot say a word :|

Finally; why does everyone hate my generation? hear me out please , you may think that we are all retarded without discipline and things like that , but this is all driven by the generation which raised my generation , and they are the ones who hate us the most , and worse still is the fact you left us in deep sh!t and didnt sourt out your own problems , society is now dependant on my generation to fix emition problems , and to sourt out all ethical issues e.g. gay pride etc. when they are: the ones emitting CO2 and SO4 , not us , and also the ones who are trying to get their own way instead of meeting half way... and worse still is they expect us to behave like adults and are treated like children (please make up your mind?)and now the press and media (far more involved in society and day to day life than previously) are only highlighting the bad things in life , and because we are the future adults, we are the most popular target , and there are more published cases of teenage crime compared to the past , my dad agrees with me on this , he went to the same school as me and my brother and he says there where people who drank and stirred up trouble when he was there 30 years ago.

The only real difference is that my generation (mainly , not totally) lacks the ability to keep their mouth shut (bring on the lets beat the sh!t out of our kids for discipline arguements) , you could say that i can't , but this is the internet where i can say what i want within legal regulations , we know that what our parents say goes but the freedom of speech means we can express our views on certain topics e.g. house rules, we can meet half way with our parents for a compromise , however because of the way they where brought up they think that they are dictators within the home because it is their only place where they have power (asides work , but there is always somebody higher up the chain), so basically , we are hated because our elders are scared of change , and we get the wrong end of the stick...
All about the confidence brah
 

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There are lots of people to blame, frankly. At some point we just have to take responsibility for ourselves.

OP: There are people out there who are worth it. Find them, even if it's a struggle.
found em , my brother in particular , he is away at the moment so i thought i would sneak on , he is pretty cool about anything and i can always talk to him (he is 17) he doesn't know anything really , but he shares my view and has a greater understanding of how the world works because he has a job , and is studying A-Levels and he is learning to drive etc. so i can always talk to him , he has helped me a bit but sometimes i must resort to this ^^

I don'y know\\\some girls try to go out with me outside of school but during///"omg did u see eric beating up the mentally challenged kid?//he's so sexy"

yeah i know what you mean , there was an incident where some guy beat the shit out of an autistic guy , and i came over to help him , but girls just laughed at me , nice guys finish last seems pretty true in this instance
 
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With girls you don't have to be the best looking(it helps though) all you need is confidence in yourself and your abilities!!! Girls like and won't leave the popular guys because of the fact that they themselves(girls) have insecurities. How about a little challenge of up to a girl who you think is a 5/10 and ask her for their number. Spit game when yu get better at that you can go for the 10/10 big booty bitches!!!
 

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1. Confidence
2. Because most of us do suck, besides me, Yusuke Urameshi, of course.
 

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These are not real problems dude, wait until you reach 23 24 25 that's when the real problems begin

well i still have massive problems , they are just different , your age group had different issues , they are all based on the people 30 years senior...

1. Confidence
2. Because most of us do suck, besides me, Yusuke Urameshi, of course.
1. already am
2.i agree , but there are a few people who are alright , i know i have my moments to shine
 
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Dude look at it as a PLUS. Because when everyone else around you looks retarded, it only makes you look better ( if your hard working type ). But you can't blame yourself.

I'm 25 and I HATE your generation. I grew up in the lasting decent days there was. BEFORE THE INTERNET, And of course MANY Outside influences. Your Parents. My generation all this stuff, Computers,Internet,smart phones either Didn't exist, or was very young and no1 really used it. We Had to do things Ourselves.TV was boring as hell and most Cartoons were sat morn, and before school. That was it. The Schools were slowly becoming worse AKA as Bush Became President and started that "No child left behind" Nonsense that forced schools to spend more time teaching for test than teaching what we needed to know. My School was an A+ rated school because of my class, After that it dropped and never made it back up.

The Government was run by the generation prior. So it was in a decent place. Than the Newer generation started taking over. Things went to shiit rather quickly. But instead of seeing the problem for what it was the new generation of Parents having kids decide to not do anything. They tell their children they can "be anything", they are "special" and raise a generation of self entitled brats. No1 expects children to be responsible, Thats the Parents jobs. But the Parents are just as childish as the kids. The country is falling apart because of these idiots and force the Idiot parents to work harder THUS poorly raising their children. of course im referring to the generation Outside Geeks and nerds.

So give all these kids a few years of bad parents who don't make their children work for anything, combine it with MTV and other stupid shit and look where we are at. 16 & Knocked up with a college system that has become the new "High school" Diploma.
The word "Epic" used in every TV add and a Church Named Westboro that somehow has not gotten burned into the ground. But In the end no1 can blame your generation. The progress of Technology makes things easier but for Christ sake

my generation we are STUCK in the middle of it. We have idiots who run everything just because they have connections and a MA, PLUS we have a younger generation coming up that is being clearly effected by the idiots ruining everything! My generation was forced growing up to work harder in school, go to college but now college has been rendered almost useless by those running the country. It Sucks.

The idiot generation aka Parents rely on "Drugs" to fix any problem with their children, screwing them up even more. people have become afraid to even smack their kid across the head when they NEED IT. and EVERYTHING is Given to them! Most Popular Gadget for children ages 6 in 2012? An IPAD. Seriously! I was lucky to get an action figure, now babies and kids play with 500 dollar gizmos. But hey im ranting. My generation isn't perfect either and a ton have given up.

I Grew up with No family and learned a Ton of my Morals on my own. Anime,rpgs and so on did a great job at it lol. I work hard for no other reason than myself. So it annoys me when brats think things are so hard when they are not. If America had more "Culture" im sure things would be different.
 
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well, i'm really confused right now
 

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These are not real problems dude, wait until you reach 23 24 25 that's when the real problems begin

true story right here.....teens have parents that pay bills imagine the problems you have now but you also have to take care of yourself(food ,shelter, utilities) plus dealing with work relationships,family relations, and relationships with women ....emotions and feeling very high. when your my age 26 you look back like damn my mentality is so much different then it was at 19 i'm a man now. so if were you i would just kick back and do your thing in school and go to a good college(don't worry about girls to much they come and go) and just get a good career and everything else will follow.
 

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Dude look at it as a PLUS. Because when everyone else around you looks retarded, it only makes you look better ( if your hard working type ). But you can't blame yourself.

I'm 25 and I HATE your generation. I grew up in the lasting decent days there was. BEFORE THE INTERNET, And of course MANY Outside influences. Your Parents. My generation all this stuff, Computers,Internet,smart phones either Didn't exist, or was very young and no1 really used it. We Had to do things Ourselves.TV was boring as hell and most Cartoons were sat morn, and before school. That was it. The Schools were slowly becoming worse AKA as Bush Became President and started that "No child left behind" Nonsense that forced schools to spend more time teaching for test than teaching what we needed to know. My School was an A+ rated school because of my class, After that it dropped and never made it back up.

The Government was run by the generation prior. So it was in a decent place. Than the Newer generation started taking over. Things went to shiit rather quickly. But instead of seeing the problem for what it was the new generation of Parents having kids decide to not do anything. They tell their children they can "be anything", they are "special" and raise a generation of self entitled brats. No1 expects children to be responsible, Thats the Parents jobs. But the Parents are just as childish as the kids. The country is falling apart because of these idiots and force the Idiot parents to work harder THUS poorly raising their children. of course im referring to the generation Outside Geeks and nerds.

So give all these kids a few years of bad parents who don't make their children work for anything, combine it with MTV and other stupid shit and look where we are at. 16 & Knocked up with a college system that has become the new "High school" Diploma.
The word "Epic" used in every TV add and a Church Named Westboro that somehow has not gotten burned into the ground. But In the end no1 can blame your generation. The progress of Technology makes things easier but for Christ sake

my generation we are STUCK in the middle of it. We have idiots who run everything just because they have connections and a MA, PLUS we have a younger generation coming up that is being clearly effected by the idiots ruining everything! My generation was forced growing up to work harder in school, go to college but now college has been rendered almost useless by those running the country. It Sucks.
fair play man

being stuck in the middle is equally bad to getting the wrong end of the stick
 
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