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You just said you don't limit yourself but earlier said you heavily prefer girls. So you seemed to have decided making the rest of this pointless. And all he's saying is just choose what you truthfully are attracted to instead of building up false hope for certain parties or even better don't take people off the market if you don't plan on keeping them for more than a day.
It actually does make sense.
Let's say you like strawberry cake the most. It's just your favorite cake. But you still eat other cake, because they are good too, strawberry cake is not the one and only cake in the world. You just have to find other cake that you really like.
That's basically it.
If there is a guy that I really like, one that makes me think "Yes, I do love him and want to share my life with him", then I try to go for it. Only because I favor a certain group of people, it doesn't mean that I dump all others. I didn't decide anything.
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1. False hope. It's not my fault if someone else (for example a friend of mine) falls for me but I can't reciprocate his/her feelings. Also this can happen to anyone, regardless of one's sexual orientation and preference. I assume that you are hetero. You could also create false hope in another girl, that you just don't like the same way back. Should I start to blame you because of that possibility now?
2. "Taking people off the market". Lol.
What do you think I am? A slut? I don't see what this assumption has to do with my post. Do you think people that are not hetero can't have a normal, healthy lifestyle and lovelife?
I don't think you understand my point. My point is if a friend of this person likes the bi person and try their hardest to show their confection towards said person. But in reality the bi is as Konan put it,"heavily liking women" and doesn't even notice so this goes on for however. This person may have turned down a relationship or two before being successful because of "mood swing". I call bullsh*t make up your mind and don't waste the example's time.
So, did something similar happen to yourself? If yes, then I would understand why you act so mad.
Well, like I said earlier, it's not my fault if I can't reciprocate said feelings. It's not your fault if you are in said situation. It's nobodies fault. Either a relationship works out or it does not. It's simple as that.
Also, no one has to waste his/her time. You know that there is always the possibility to talk with other people, so if someone has feelings for another person, just get the guts together and tell her/him. Only waving signs and waiting for a positive outcome won't solve things.
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It had to do with the example I gave for a situation which had to do with your post. And just to say I'm not assuming you're a sl*t by saying taking someone off the market. I can only guess that you assume I mean s*x but that isn't the case. The phrase "Taking someone off the market" means to date someone more or less exclusively i.e. if someone was to take you off the market that means you are no longer available to any party other than the person who "brought" you for lack of a better word.