Straight, bi, lesbian/gay?

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You just said you don't limit yourself but earlier said you heavily prefer girls. So you seemed to have decided making the rest of this pointless. And all he's saying is just choose what you truthfully are attracted to instead of building up false hope for certain parties or even better don't take people off the market if you don't plan on keeping them for more than a day.
It actually does make sense.
Let's say you like strawberry cake the most. It's just your favorite cake. But you still eat other cake, because they are good too, strawberry cake is not the one and only cake in the world. You just have to find other cake that you really like.

That's basically it.
If there is a guy that I really like, one that makes me think "Yes, I do love him and want to share my life with him", then I try to go for it. Only because I favor a certain group of people, it doesn't mean that I dump all others. I didn't decide anything.

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1. False hope. It's not my fault if someone else (for example a friend of mine) falls for me but I can't reciprocate his/her feelings. Also this can happen to anyone, regardless of one's sexual orientation and preference. I assume that you are hetero. You could also create false hope in another girl, that you just don't like the same way back. Should I start to blame you because of that possibility now?

2. "Taking people off the market". Lol.
What do you think I am? A slut? I don't see what this assumption has to do with my post. Do you think people that are not hetero can't have a normal, healthy lifestyle and lovelife?

I don't think you understand my point. My point is if a friend of this person likes the bi person and try their hardest to show their confection towards said person. But in reality the bi is as Konan put it,"heavily liking women" and doesn't even notice so this goes on for however. This person may have turned down a relationship or two before being successful because of "mood swing". I call bullsh*t make up your mind and don't waste the example's time.
So, did something similar happen to yourself? If yes, then I would understand why you act so mad.
Well, like I said earlier, it's not my fault if I can't reciprocate said feelings. It's not your fault if you are in said situation. It's nobodies fault. Either a relationship works out or it does not. It's simple as that.

Also, no one has to waste his/her time. You know that there is always the possibility to talk with other people, so if someone has feelings for another person, just get the guts together and tell her/him. Only waving signs and waiting for a positive outcome won't solve things.
 
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It actually does make sense.
Let's say you like strawberry cake the most. It's just your favorite cake. But you still eat other cake, because they are good too, strawberry cake is not the one and only cake in the world. You just have to find other cake that you really like.
This explanation of sexual preference is amazing XD
 
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It actually does make sense.
Let's say you like strawberry cake the most. It's just your favorite cake. But you still eat other cake, because they are good too, strawberry cake is not the one and only cake in the world. You just have to find other cake that you really like.

That's basically it.
If there is a guy that I really like, one that makes me think "Yes, I do love him and want to share my life with him", then I try to go for it. Only because I favor a certain group of people, it doesn't mean that I dump all others. I didn't decide anything.

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1. False hope. It's not my fault if someone else (for example a friend of mine) falls for me but I can't reciprocate his/her feelings. Also this can happen to anyone, regardless of one's sexual orientation and preference. I assume that you are hetero. You could also create false hope in another girl, that you just don't like the same way back. Should I start to blame you because of that possibility now?
First off towards the end why did you play the victim card? And naturally this is always a possibility for any sexual orientation and I was simply giving an example.

2. "Taking people off the market". Lol.
What do you think I am? A slut? I don't see what this assumption has to do with my post. Do you think people that are not hetero can't have a normal, healthy lifestyle and lovelife?

Lol:lmao: It had to do with the example I gave for a situation which had to do with your post. And just to say I'm not assuming you're a sl*t by saying taking someone off the market. I can only guess that you assume I mean s*x but that isn't the case. The phrase "Taking someone off the market" means to date someone more or less exclusively i.e. if someone was to take you off the market that means you are no longer available to any party other than the person who "brought" you for lack of a better word.


So, did something similar happen to yourself? If yes, then I would understand why you act so mad.
Well, like I said earlier, it's not my fault if I can't reciprocate said feelings. It's not your fault if you are in said situation. It's nobodies fault. Either a relationship works out or it does not. It's simple as that.

Also, no one has to waste his/her time. You know that there is always the possibility to talk with other people, so if someone has feelings for another person, just get the guts together and tell her/him. Only waving signs and waiting for a positive outcome won't solve things.
And did you not read the rest or could you not control yourself enough to wait either way it said I'm good at making up stories. Meaning this is all an example which is stated all throughout this post. I'm not mad by the way a result of no emotions but thanks for entertaining me while I wait for Black Desert to download.
But I do agree either it works out or it doesn't. Also did you not read that I said the person is trying to get their attention in a different manner so it's not just saying hey and calling it a day if they aren't noticing one's attraction but I digress.
 
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It actually does make sense.
Let's say you like strawberry cake the most. It's just your favorite cake. But you still eat other cake, because they are good too, strawberry cake is not the one and only cake in the world. You just have to find other cake that you really like.

That's basically it.
If there is a guy that I really like, one that makes me think "Yes, I do love him and want to share my life with him", then I try to go for it. Only because I favor a certain group of people, it doesn't mean that I dump all others. I didn't decide anything.

@bold
1. False hope. It's not my fault if someone else (for example a friend of mine) falls for me but I can't reciprocate his/her feelings. Also this can happen to anyone, regardless of one's sexual orientation and preference. I assume that you are hetero. You could also create false hope in another girl, that you just don't like the same way back. Should I start to blame you because of that possibility now?

2. "Taking people off the market". Lol.
What do you think I am? A slut? I don't see what this assumption has to do with my post. Do you think people that are not hetero can't have a normal, healthy lifestyle and lovelife?



So, did something similar happen to yourself? If yes, then I would understand why you act so mad.
Well, like I said earlier, it's not my fault if I can't reciprocate said feelings. It's not your fault if you are in said situation. It's nobodies fault. Either a relationship works out or it does not. It's simple as that.

Also, no one has to waste his/her time. You know that there is always the possibility to talk with other people, so if someone has feelings for another person, just get the guts together and tell her/him. Only waving signs and waiting for a positive outcome won't solve things.
Well I would like to reply in a logical manner again but I'm essentially a sloth demon right now. Plus even if I did it would only need approval by the narutobase mods again for some stupid reason or another. This is the second long winded post that has been deleted or requires approval and never gets posted yay! I really need to learn to stop skipping on eating so much.
 

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This is a nice topic.. the famous boxer "Pacquiao" said ... It's all common sense, male is for female and female is for male. Even animals knows this"....

I really LOLed..
 

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How old are you...being gay or bisexual has become a fad anymore. I'll assume you're probably in the teenage years, seeing has you made this thread to begin with. What is your sexual preference? Isn't that where the whole classification actually comes into place?
Most people go through these phases, can't really say until you've tried both.
 
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