I don't believe you. Look at what you're doing.I'm older than that :/
Jesus. I bet you've got a smartphone or something; use it. There are dating-apps and dating-sites in the thousands, but NB isn't one of them (unless you're Staff).
I don't believe you. Look at what you're doing.I'm older than that :/
I'd rather not use dating sites or anything like that, I am posting from my smartphone because I don't have wifi... The thing is I'm looking for a place to meet a guy... wasn't necessarily looking here, just posting how I felt which is half the reason I stated I wasn't even sure if I should post this at all when I created the thread... I didn't create this thread assuming I'd find a man on here... it was just to state my feelings not to suddenly find a guyI don't believe you. Look at what you're doing.
Jesus. I bet you've got a smartphone or something; use it. There are dating-apps and dating-sites in the thousands, but NB isn't one of them (unless you're Staff).
Claiming to be a girl on the internet and that you are looking for a good man... on a forum like this one... take anything that is said with a very large serving of salt.Not sure if I should post this here or if I should even post this...
I would say that the priority is getting out of the hell hole - or making the hole you're in less hellish - depending upon your situation.I'm am so tired of being single, I want a good man in my life and to get out of the hell hole I'm in... :dead:
I'd start with working to improve yourself, first. Learn some skills/trades that can be applied to some line of work. You don't necessarily need a degree (or a new one) to start moving in a more productive direction.I'm lonely and have zero luck at love or finding a good man... it's been so long.... I am starting to doubt anything good could come my way, let alone a good man....
Fair and square.I'd rather not use dating sites or anything like that, I am posting from my smartphone because I don't have wifi... The thing is I'm looking for a place to meet a guy... wasn't necessarily looking here, just posting how I felt which is half the reason I stated I wasn't even sure if I should post this at all when I created the thread... I didn't create this thread assuming I'd find a man on here... it was just to state my feelings not to suddenly find a guy
Forgive me, I didn't read what you said before, if you saw my last quote, um thank you for the advice I will keep searching, I just guess it all caught up with me.... the thing is, I just need to wait and maybe something else will come my way first... anything is possible, maybe now is just not the best time for me to have a man in my life. I agree with you 100% on the dependant thing, I would hate to be dependent on a guy or the other way around because no real relationship could come from that and you'd have my parents in nutshell lmao I'll keep being the same old me, and until a real good guy comes my way, I'll keep dreaming of my anime/manga guy, and wondering if Kishimoto will ever tell us more about the back story of himClaiming to be a girl on the internet and that you are looking for a good man... on a forum like this one... take anything that is said with a very large serving of salt.
I would say that the priority is getting out of the hell hole - or making the hole you're in less hellish - depending upon your situation.
Life isn't necessarily fair. Even in the classic "Cinderella story" where the poor peasant girl is found by a wonderful prince charming and all that jazz - the 'Cinderella' has much of what -is- within her control in life straightened out. She is working hard and thinking through many of the decisions she makes.
In more modern terms - girls who constantly try to solve their problems with a boyfriend or one-night-stands tend to either get used and abused or to use and abuse any good guy they manage to attract.
I'd start with working to improve yourself, first. Learn some skills/trades that can be applied to some line of work. You don't necessarily need a degree (or a new one) to start moving in a more productive direction.
If you don't feel like anything good is going to come along in life - then you're probably not in the best of places at the moment... which means the guys who are the closest around you are likely not in the best of ways, either.
It may be because you are young. I'm not sure how old you are - but people in western societies younger than about 22 years old are, generally, just not very mature. They don't know what they want out of life, much less how to go about getting there. When it comes to relationships, they want all the adult activities and habits without the adult perspective.
It's one thing to want to have a 'girl' or a 'man' in your life. It's another to have an idea of sharing your life with another human being.
It's also another thing to have enough understanding of yourself to be able to maintain control.
Some men are good - but have no real experience. Relationships are, from an instinctive standpoint, possessive in nature. A man who gets you a piece of jewelry is trying to 'mark' you - or, more accurately - wearing a piece of jewelry that a guy 'who is like a brother' gave to you is going to get a reaction out of your boyfriend. If he's not ever had to deal with emotions like that - he may be a good guy - but will lapse into nearly psychotic episodes when those emotions are provoked.
Of course - a girl who is young and doesn't understand some of her own emotions, either... put the two together and you get most teenage relationships.
My recommendation is to not "look for" a guy. I can almost guarantee you that plenty are already looking your way - and that plenty will be looking your way in the future. Start working on improving yourself and knowing that you can stand on your own two feet, first.
What you don't want is to be dependent on a boyfriend. Dependency on a husband (or, from a man's perspective - a wife) is natural to develop over time; but dependency upon a boyfriend is a bad thing. You do not want boyfriends controlling you through a lack of confidence on your ability to make it in the world by yourself. Even if they aren't trying to, you don't want that in the back of your mind and influencing your decisions, either.
Try a library, book store, museum, coffee house, you tend to find nicer guys in places where the intention is not to fornicate. On here you are most likely just to get a lot of pervy messages from a lot of horny teenagers...no offence guys XDThe thing is, I don't know where else I could meet a guy besides a nightclub or a bar... and I know I won't find a good man at those places, partly why I don't really go to any, anymore...
See what I mean? Like Pitbulls in a stake house XDXDYou must be registered for see images
I was kidding :NO:See what I mean? Like Pitbulls in a stake house XDXD
Want to and being are two different things.Don't want to be dependent on someone, you dumbass,
I wasn't saying you did look for love on the Internet. Since we're on the subject, though - love on the internet is mostly dependent upon your attitude. You can meet wonderful people on the internet - or you can meet creeps. Or you can meet wonderfully creepy people.my posts you are looking into too deeply the meaning behind them... I just was stating I am upset because I am still single, I don't go looking for love on the Internet, it's worse than the bar and other places like it...
There is no such place as a wrong place to express your feelings (well... within reason...). The question is what you expect to get in return.Wasn't sure if I should post this here or at all.... meaning I'm not sure I should express my feelings here or even in this forum or if there was a better place
The fact that you are linking these two together in your mind is dangerous to yourself.I'm so tired of being single and want out of this hellhole...... I feel unhappy being single, my hellhole, is soon to file bankruptcy and I can't afford a lawyer... needing to look into it
I quote examples from my own life, yes.Your last quote on me, again I am stating my feelings, you are making very dumb assumptions on me and reading to deeply into my posts, I would guess it is just a reflection of yourself
The most important thing is that you are finding someone you want to share your life with and that you are in a position where you know and feel like you have a life to share - that you are bringing something to this man's life.Forgive me, I didn't read what you said before, if you saw my last quote, um thank you for the advice I will keep searching, I just guess it all caught up with me.... the thing is, I just need to wait and maybe something else will come my way first... anything is possible, maybe now is just not the best time for me to have a man in my life.
The only recommendation I'd make to that is to assess whether or not the same old you is getting you closer to the person you wish to be.I agree with you 100% on the dependant thing, I would hate to be dependent on a guy or the other way around because no real relationship could come from that and you'd have my parents in nutshell lmao I'll keep being the same old me, and until a real good guy comes my way, I'll keep dreaming of my anime/manga guy, and wondering if Kishimoto will ever tell us more about the back story of him![]()