Serious Advice. :/

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Asking for relationship advice from anime nerds... good one :D

If he really loves you, he'll come back begging :) If not, you shouldn't waste your time worrying about him.
Either way, move on :)
If he loves you, he'll come after you ^^
 

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Asking for relationship advice from anime nerds... good one :D

If he really loves you, he'll come back begging :) If not, you shouldn't waste your time worrying about him.
Either way, move on :)
If he loves you, he'll come after you ^^
Shush Mugi >.> and thanks. :hug:
 

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Better fOr me nOt to say my opinion straightly 'cause it start with slapping him & ...

wat ..."climb the ladder" ...pO_of

dOn't let him playing with your <3 ,lOve isn't a Joke that can Be told to everybody:) .(hOpe u get what i meant:hug: ...
 

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Better fOr me nOt to say my opinion straightly 'cause it start with slapping him & ...

wat ..."climb the ladder" ...pO_of

dOn't let him playing with your <3 ,lOve isn't a Joke that can Be told to everybody:) .(hOpe u get what i meant:hug: ...
:hug: yea I get it... :)
 

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He's obviously just trying to get you jealous
Just dump him trust me girl
You would be better off with another guy
If he truly loved you he would choose you over that gf of his
 

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i dont mean to go "been there done that though mine was hellish than yours" on you. I do understand what you mean coz for once we do had the same outlook and by just thinking of the word letting go brings ultimate pain and it really hurts like hell. Well that's one thing that you should accept when you decide to love someone like there's no tomorrow but the pain that you'll get if you gave him up is lesser than what you'll get if you stick with him... It's like stabbing your heart with a knife and grinding it in.... instead of just stabbing and leaving it. Which way you turn pain is always there so whats left for you to do is make a choice that will give you the lesser pain and taking that. Well I'm sure that you wouldn't want a love story of a Nobel Piece price caliber that will be horrendous like mine was. Think about it its about seeing the big picture outside the painting than dwelling with the fine lines... You'll feel better afterwards....
 

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i dont mean to go "been there done that though mine was hellish than yours" on you. I do understand what you mean coz for once we do had the same outlook and by just thinking of the word letting go brings ultimate pain and it really hurts like hell. Well that's one thing that you should accept when you decide to love someone like there's no tomorrow but the pain that you'll get if you gave him up is lesser than what you'll get if you stick with him... It's like stabbing your heart with a knife and grinding it in.... instead of just stabbing and leaving it. Which way you turn pain is always there so whats left for you to do is make a choice that will give you the lesser pain and taking that. Well I'm sure that you wouldn't want a love story of a Nobel Piece price caliber that will be horrendous like mine was. Think about it its about seeing the big picture outside the painting than dwelling with the fine lines... You'll feel better afterwards....
This is one of the best advice given to me on a relationship. thanks :eek:
 

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anytime Kappy... you'll get through it.... as i had. its just up to you to take that first step. It wont be a beautiful first step though but it'll only show that you're ready to face it all and make decisions than get stranded between crossroads.
 

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Okay... um I've never done this before and it's really embarrassing, but **** it everyone has problems they need help on right?

Me and my ex boyfriend have a 2 year relationship off and on and we finally broke up. We love each other- well I know I still love him and he claims to love me, but he's with another girl and says he loves her and he's called her his everything and now and forever and all this other crap he used to call me. He told me in order for him to fully love me again I have to so-called 'climb the ladder' to earn it. So should I risk my time to try and make him fully love me again? And if so how can I when I have to deal with him and his other gf being all lovey-dovey in front of my face??

Look, when I fall in love, I accept the girl how ever she is. If one day she ends up being a vegetable, I'd love her none the less.

In other words, there are no excuse to stop loving someone, unless of course they don't want to marry you.

If he puts limits then the hell with him, I assure you that there are guys that will give their life for a girl.
 

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Pesh if you say ANYTHING on this thread that's negative I swear to god I will do everything in the power I have to ruin your NB life. I'm honestly not in a good mood and I don't want any shit started.
 
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