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no need to get irked fam, im not arguing to be clear, its just a discussion. thats how minds broaden, through dialogue

now i understand what youre trying to say but youre summing it up in your perspective. youre talking about how *** workers would feel when youve never done it i can tell, its that simple really. ive known a lot a lot women that have done various forms of *** work and who fight against the stigma thats placed on them by society from misinformation. im telling you what many have told me who actually do this work. im sharing my knowledge in this area from discussions ive had offline, youre speaking from it YOU were a *** worker. like saying theyre not happy and all this other stuff but you clearly understand every job has ups and down. but as a general statement, its not wise to assume that, theyre not happy or have to do it, its just not true. maybe thats how you'd feel but everyones not you fam. like have you known any escorts, prostitutes, strippers, porn stars, cam girls? have you talked to them about the work and how its affected their life? thats the main difference here, you dont have to accept it but im telling you the truth, what youre claiming is the majority is not, thats the stigma society placed on it

the whole reason i brought up christianity was so you could understand -how- exactly we came to the point in western civilization where its seen as bad, as compared to pre christianity when the holiest where *** workers. and it is in fact the biggest religion in western society -because- of conquering and forcing, this is undeniable truth, its also the undeniable truth that Julius Cesar had it created merging the two prominent religious beliefs in Rome at the time, for control. even though there are other religions, the majority of the societies today were built on it in the west and those values are ingrained in society. how certain jobs are perceived is depend on the collective perspective society has indoctrinated it into its civilians. this goes into other societies as well like some eastern civilizations and Islam for example. but i do think its unfair that they are seen a certain way by a lot of people because of a stigma which is outdated in most of the world for the most part. but that is changing more and more through dialogue and people getting correct inisght

i am extremely spiritual, ive studied every major religion and occultism because its always been something ive been interested in since i was kid. i have about every holy book in my house and have read through most of them and i still came to the same conclusion. but if you want you can explain your spiritual perspective on the matter
Haha, not at you, but the general flow of the conversation itself. And also at myself, for not being able to properly arrest and steer it.

Okay then, allow me to go into details.

On one side you speak of social perspective (being forced, but still there nonetheless) but on the other you treat *** workers like they're literal aliens to society, not being born within it and therefore sharing the same 'social consciousness'. Doesn't work out.

Again, why did the Romans choose it? Because it resonates. As I've already noted, plenty of peoples stick to their own stuff despite a history of western oppression, so it can't just be about what was forced on people. Hence my belief (which is subject to change, given evidence) that those who stick with it do so because it resonates. An example would be Africans who were oppressed, justified by a misinterpration of Genesis chapter 10, yet they still stick to Christianity.

Again, its part of their job to talk nicely to you. You know what its like to have a pimp who watches your every move? I respect the inside you have with them, but if it were that simple then you wouldn't have special police forces in almost every society that specifically monitor the *** industry. At best, I can say that the ones who say they enjoy it may be exceptions.and that's just among the ones on social media etc. Most *** workers aren't the fancy porn stars avalilable online. They're the girls who freeze on cold winter streets only to be hired by a stinking drunkard . . . Like, there are things I can't even say on THIS website because I know some people are watching me. Can you imagine if those people were actual pumps and gang hangers? And if my livelihood depended on their good mood?

You're right that it's not wise to assume, completely correct. You're also assuming that the ones you talk to are the majority . . . (also, next post)

I'm also against any stigma placed on people . . . Next post

Your point on the ancient *** workers is not only covered by my Washington point, but it contradicts the idea you next present of Christian morals being outdated (not that morality is validated by time, anyway).


My understanding of spirituality basically comes down to that we all have a body, a conscience and those two are strongly connected. It teaches that people would rather not even play with someone they don't know, never mind allow said person a direct invasion into their body. So to think that *** workers genuinely enjoy their work in general and that it doesn't doesn't affect their mentality goes against that. We also look for social approval (to the dismay of Exodus 23v2) so the fact that society stigmatises *** work automatically makes it mentally harmful (you've got a point that this stigma can be immoral in its own right, but the fact remains it exists).

Basically, apply the same critical thinking that you put on the anti-*** work side to the pro-*** work side. Actually, go even deeper, with both sides.

That's just looking at it directly. There are also links to drugs, physical abuse, gangs and child prostitution that normal prostitution is almost tied at the hip to.
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Look, I understand that there are many '12yr olds' on the internet who troll and argue sides simply for the sake of arguing (not quite, but simply to support their sides).

So I understand why most people are on the defensive and so do not open up in convos, but simply come in to unload their side of things and don't really consider what the other side is saying. Or even when they are objectively correct, they don't look at where the other side is coming from so as to find common ground.

This is very natural, but it prevents understanding and so is an energy draining trap hole that extremetizes everyone against each other, creating a very deep 'us vs them' scenario,similar to what you have in current USA with the democrats and those other guys.

So it troubles me greatly when charlatons come in,as though to help, but only further the divide. They do this by creating false explanations and labels for categorizing people (and therefore, how one should react to them) instead of understanding them.

So I'm quite aware that from where you're standing, my arguements look very typical of an anti-*** work, anti-liberty, religious extemist kind of guy and that such a guy is only worthy of a pre-set type of reaction, a set play and not a genuine reply.

On account of that, I ask that you not consider me as such.

I do not argue, especially with relative strangers on the internet, simply for the sake of it. Especially when it comes to topics that shape lives and livelihoods, I would not do such a thing. If you want proof of this, the best I can provide is to say look at my avatar and then go into the latest Kakuzu thread. You'll see that I said he might loses to someone of equal standing, because that's my genuine understanding.

For clarity, I'm not arguing against *** workers, but against the trade itself. My point is that the job itself is what is unfair on them and that because it carries many troubles, people should be discouraged from it. Not forbidden, because exceptions exist, but discouraged, because an exceptional situation for one person is a painful mistake and trap for 100 others.

The problem I can't work around (yet) is that the world is too much of a corrupt place for *** work to be genuinely safe and 'normal'. Even putting aside the conscience point, if such work can genuinely be normal work that doesn't harm its workers more than it serves them, the society we currently live in does not allow it to be. If, one day, it does get good enough, then i myself would celebrate anyone doing a job they enjoy. But currently, I have too many reasons to think that only a small portion are satisfied by it and that the majority are crippled by it. I mean, we sometimes here of wives being raped by their own husbands, so can you genuinely say you don't think many,if not all, direct *** workers do not face rape or rape-like scenarios from all those bastards who feel that they own people because they pay for a service? That's my point. The work itself is inhumane. If there are measures and ways to insure the safety of *** workers, then I suport those and if they are sufficient, I'd stop speaking against *** work itself. But currently, such measures do not exist, as evidenced by all the police units dedicated to the industry.
 
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Haha, not at you, but the general flow of the conversation itself. And also at myself, for not being able to properly arrest and steer it.

Okay then, allow me to go into details.

On one side you speak of social perspective (being forced, but still there nonetheless) but on the other you treat *** workers like they're literal aliens to society, not being born within it and therefore sharing the same 'social consciousness'. Doesn't work out.

Again, why did the Romans choose it? Because it resonates. As I've already noted, plenty of peoples stick to their own stuff despite a history of western oppression, so it can't just be about what was forced on people. Hence my belief (which is subject to change, given evidence) that those who stick with it do so because it resonates. An example would be Africans who were oppressed, justified by a misinterpration of Genesis chapter 10, yet they still stick to Christianity.

Again, its part of their job to talk nicely to you. You know what its like to have a pimp who watches your every move? I respect the inside you have with them, but if it were that simple then you wouldn't have special police forces in almost every society that specifically monitor the *** industry. At best, I can say that the ones who say they enjoy it may be exceptions.and that's just among the ones on social media etc. Most *** workers aren't the fancy porn stars avalilable online. They're the girls who freeze on cold winter streets only to be hired by a stinking drunkard . . . Like, there are things I can't even say on THIS website because I know some people are watching me. Can you imagine if those people were actual pumps and gang hangers? And if my livelihood depended on their good mood?

You're right that it's not wise to assume, completely correct. You're also assuming that the ones you talk to are the majority . . . (also, next post)

I'm also against any stigma placed on people . . . Next post

Your point on the ancient *** workers is not only covered by my Washington point, but it contradicts the idea you next present of Christian morals being outdated (not that morality is validated by time, anyway).


My understanding of spirituality basically comes down to that we all have a body, a conscience and those two are strongly connected. It teaches that people would rather not even play with someone they don't know, never mind allow said person a direct invasion into their body. So to think that *** workers genuinely enjoy their work in general and that it doesn't doesn't affect their mentality goes against that. We also look for social approval (to the dismay of Exodus 23v2) so the fact that society stigmatises *** work automatically makes it mentally harmful (you've got a point that this stigma can be immoral in its own right, but the fact remains it exists).

Basically, apply the same critical thinking that you put on the anti-*** work side to the pro-*** work side. Actually, go even deeper, with both sides.

That's just looking at it directly. There are also links to drugs, physical abuse, gangs and child prostitution that normal prostitution is almost tied at the hip to.
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Look, I understand that there are many '12yr olds' on the internet who troll and argue sides simply for the sake of arguing (not quite, but simply to support their sides).

So I understand why most people are on the defensive and so do not open up in convos, but simply come in to unload their side of things and don't really consider what the other side is saying. Or even when they are objectively correct, they don't look at where the other side is coming from so as to find common ground.

This is very natural, but it prevents understanding and so is an energy draining trap hole that extremetizes everyone against each other, creating a very deep 'us vs them' scenario,similar to what you have in current USA with the democrats and those other guys.

So it troubles me greatly when charlatons come in,as though to help, but only further the divide. They do this by creating false explanations and labels for categorizing people (and therefore, how one should react to them) instead of understanding them.

So I'm quite aware that from where you're standing, my arguements look very typical of an anti-*** work, anti-liberty, religious extemist kind of guy and that such a guy is only worthy of a pre-set type of reaction, a set play and not a genuine reply.

On account of that, I ask that you not consider me as such.

I do not argue, especially with relative strangers on the internet, simply for the sake of it. Especially when it comes to topics that shape lives and livelihoods, I would not do such a thing. If you want proof of this, the best I can provide is to say look at my avatar and then go into the latest Kakuzu thread. You'll see that I said he might loses to someone of equal standing, because that's my genuine understanding.

For clarity, I'm not arguing against *** workers, but against the trade itself. My point is that the job itself is what is unfair on them and that because it carries many troubles, people should be discouraged from it. Not forbidden, because exceptions exist, but discouraged, because an exceptional situation for one person is a painful mistake and trap for 100 others.

The problem I can't work around (yet) is that the world is too much of a corrupt place for *** work to be genuinely safe and 'normal'. Even putting aside the conscience point, if such work can genuinely be normal work that doesn't harm its workers more than it serves them, the society we currently live in does not allow it to be. If, one day, it does get good enough, then i myself would celebrate anyone doing a job they enjoy. But currently, I have too many reasons to think that only a small portion are satisfied by it and that the majority are crippled by it. I mean, we sometimes here of wives being raped by their own husbands, so can you genuinely say you don't think many,if not all, direct *** workers do not face rape or rape-like scenarios from all those bastards who feel that they own people because they pay for a service? That's my point. The work itself is inhumane. If there are measures and ways to insure the safety of *** workers, then I suport those and if they are sufficient, I'd stop speaking against *** work itself. But currently, such measures do not exist, as evidenced by all the police units dedicated to the industry.
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whats going on????...
Basically, I think the world is too dangerous for prostitution to be a safe and humane job, Grapey might disagree, but mostly he just has a lot of reason to show that it's not all bad.

We both agree that people should still be allowed to choose their own jobs because its their own lives to risk
 
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Haha, not at you, but the general flow of the conversation itself. And also at myself, for not being able to properly arrest and steer it.

Okay then, allow me to go into details.

On one side you speak of social perspective (being forced, but still there nonetheless) but on the other you treat *** workers like they're literal aliens to society, not being born within it and therefore sharing the same 'social consciousness'. Doesn't work out.

Again, why did the Romans choose it? Because it resonates. As I've already noted, plenty of peoples stick to their own stuff despite a history of western oppression, so it can't just be about what was forced on people. Hence my belief (which is subject to change, given evidence) that those who stick with it do so because it resonates. An example would be Africans who were oppressed, justified by a misinterpration of Genesis chapter 10, yet they still stick to Christianity.

Again, its part of their job to talk nicely to you. You know what its like to have a pimp who watches your every move? I respect the inside you have with them, but if it were that simple then you wouldn't have special police forces in almost every society that specifically monitor the *** industry. At best, I can say that the ones who say they enjoy it may be exceptions.and that's just among the ones on social media etc. Most *** workers aren't the fancy porn stars avalilable online. They're the girls who freeze on cold winter streets only to be hired by a stinking drunkard . . . Like, there are things I can't even say on THIS website because I know some people are watching me. Can you imagine if those people were actual pumps and gang hangers? And if my livelihood depended on their good mood?

You're right that it's not wise to assume, completely correct. You're also assuming that the ones you talk to are the majority . . . (also, next post)

I'm also against any stigma placed on people . . . Next post

Your point on the ancient *** workers is not only covered by my Washington point, but it contradicts the idea you next present of Christian morals being outdated (not that morality is validated by time, anyway).


My understanding of spirituality basically comes down to that we all have a body, a conscience and those two are strongly connected. It teaches that people would rather not even play with someone they don't know, never mind allow said person a direct invasion into their body. So to think that *** workers genuinely enjoy their work in general and that it doesn't doesn't affect their mentality goes against that. We also look for social approval (to the dismay of Exodus 23v2) so the fact that society stigmatises *** work automatically makes it mentally harmful (you've got a point that this stigma can be immoral in its own right, but the fact remains it exists).

Basically, apply the same critical thinking that you put on the anti-*** work side to the pro-*** work side. Actually, go even deeper, with both sides.

That's just looking at it directly. There are also links to drugs, physical abuse, gangs and child prostitution that normal prostitution is almost tied at the hip to.
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Look, I understand that there are many '12yr olds' on the internet who troll and argue sides simply for the sake of arguing (not quite, but simply to support their sides).

So I understand why most people are on the defensive and so do not open up in convos, but simply come in to unload their side of things and don't really consider what the other side is saying. Or even when they are objectively correct, they don't look at where the other side is coming from so as to find common ground.

This is very natural, but it prevents understanding and so is an energy draining trap hole that extremetizes everyone against each other, creating a very deep 'us vs them' scenario,similar to what you have in current USA with the democrats and those other guys.

So it troubles me greatly when charlatons come in,as though to help, but only further the divide. They do this by creating false explanations and labels for categorizing people (and therefore, how one should react to them) instead of understanding them.

So I'm quite aware that from where you're standing, my arguements look very typical of an anti-*** work, anti-liberty, religious extemist kind of guy and that such a guy is only worthy of a pre-set type of reaction, a set play and not a genuine reply.

On account of that, I ask that you not consider me as such.

I do not argue, especially with relative strangers on the internet, simply for the sake of it. Especially when it comes to topics that shape lives and livelihoods, I would not do such a thing. If you want proof of this, the best I can provide is to say look at my avatar and then go into the latest Kakuzu thread. You'll see that I said he might loses to someone of equal standing, because that's my genuine understanding.

For clarity, I'm not arguing against *** workers, but against the trade itself. My point is that the job itself is what is unfair on them and that because it carries many troubles, people should be discouraged from it. Not forbidden, because exceptions exist, but discouraged, because an exceptional situation for one person is a painful mistake and trap for 100 others.

The problem I can't work around (yet) is that the world is too much of a corrupt place for *** work to be genuinely safe and 'normal'. Even putting aside the conscience point, if such work can genuinely be normal work that doesn't harm its workers more than it serves them, the society we currently live in does not allow it to be. If, one day, it does get good enough, then i myself would celebrate anyone doing a job they enjoy. But currently, I have too many reasons to think that only a small portion are satisfied by it and that the majority are crippled by it. I mean, we sometimes here of wives being raped by their own husbands, so can you genuinely say you don't think many,if not all, direct *** workers do not face rape or rape-like scenarios from all those bastards who feel that they own people because they pay for a service? That's my point. The work itself is inhumane. If there are measures and ways to insure the safety of *** workers, then I suport those and if they are sufficient, I'd stop speaking against *** work itself. But currently, such measures do not exist, as evidenced by all the police units dedicated to the industry.
well like i said my very post, its proven it works, ive been to countries and states where its legal and ive seen it work. you also again keep pointing to the extreme point of view, talking about pimps and freezing on a street corner lol. when for the most part its not like that, ive been all around the world. there’s only handful of times ive seen someone working a street corner in my life. *** work is also broader term for the industry as a whole. im not gonna pretend like theres not drug addicted women being trafficked. but that single perspective youre holding on too so tough is a smaller piece of an entire painting, this is fact

also the George Washington thing you keep bringing up is irrelevant to the Oracle point. Oracles were seen as holy in their societies, this is fact. just how George Washington being a respected general that was chosen to become the first president here is fact. you think him being a slave owner hurt his reputation in a society where slavery was common? lol no fam. probably by my people yeah but the free majority didnt care about that. just how Oracles doing *** work in a time where it was common and even respected didnt hurt how people thought the gods spoke through them. im not saying history is always told perfectly. but if we start discrediting everything as that to serve a point, its not any better

i also think a lot of people do resonate currently with Christianity genuinely. -but- its fact in Rome people were FORCED to follow it or die, conquered nations were also FORCED too or executed as heathens. your environment during your upbringing also heavily shapes your perspective, this also fact. for the most part if you go to church every Sunday and are taught this is how you should be by your parents, more than not you will adopt the same beliefs. when you have centuries of that, when new societies are created and churches are one of the first things being built. its ingrained in the collective and thats how the stigma is created, im not attacking peoples religious beliefs as ingenuous but this is how it got to the point in the bigger picture

i think the danger of rape is a reality and precautions are put in place because of this for *** workers, women in general do this daily and always consider it sadly because its a reality. but as i said in my last post, when you keep things in shadows, and surround them in shadowy dark narratives like freezing on a street corner like youre doing, its going to attract shadows that puts them in more danger. when its legal people have more even more protection as its been proven as more areas of *** work become legal. when i was in Amsterdam and Thailand, they actually police officers that were assigned specifically to areas where *** work was heavy incase they were needed by the workers. having legal rights to do it helps tremendously and makes it even safer, which is being realized. the police forces against it, theyre focused on human trafficking, which i think they should always be. there not focused on individual like escorts or prostitutes. their focused on big crime organizations where people are being kidnapped and forced to do it. which will always be, legal or not because making people *** slaves is wrong

on the spiritual tip, i dont disagree with body and mind connection. it being a INVASION though would mean theyre entering you without you wanting them be there. which *** workers are allowing you to be there, its not like their being raped everytime they do their job. ive also had a lot of *** with women i barely knew and i enjoyed it. so just from that, assuming that they cant enjoy what their doing because they dont know the person is an incorrect generalization. though i agree the stigma can affect them mentality, i know some who their family like disowned them. but again thats a larger problem with how the collective has been taught to see it, than the person themselves. actually its a great lesson ive noticed because it teaches that how you feel about yourself and your worth comes solely from within you, not what others think of you. but if they lack any kind of spiritual insight, i could see that being tough to deal with. but making your decisions in life solely by how other people view it, when youre not hurting others, is not a great quality of life imo as well
 
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well like i said my very post, its proven it works, ive been to countries and states where its legal and ive seen it work. you also again keep pointing to the extreme point of view, talking about pimps and freezing on a street corner lol. when for the most part its not like that, ive been all around the world. there’s only handful of times ive seen someone working a street corner in my life. *** work is also broader term for the industry as a whole. im not gonna pretend like theres not drug addicted women being trafficked. but that single perspective youre holding on too so tough is a smaller piece of an entire painting, this is fact

also the George Washington thing you keep bringing up is irrelevant to the Oracle point. Oracles were seen as holy in their societies, this is fact. just how George Washington being a respected general that was chosen to become the first president here is fact. you think him being a slave owner hurt his reputation in a society where slavery was common? lol no fam. probably by my people yeah but the free majority didnt care about that. just how Oracles doing *** work in a time where it was common and even respected didnt hurt how people thought the gods spoke through them. im not saying history is always told perfectly. but if we start discrediting everything as that to serve a point, its not any better

i also think a lot of people do resonate currently with Christianity genuinely. -but- its fact in Rome people were FORCED to follow it or die, conquered nations were also FORCED too or executed as heathens. your environment during your upbringing also heavily shapes your perspective, this also fact. for the most part if you go to church every Sunday and are taught this is how you should be by your parents, more than not you will adopt the same beliefs. when you have centuries of that, when new societies are created and churches are one of the first things being built. its ingrained in the collective and thats how the stigma is created, im not attacking peoples religious beliefs as ingenuous but this is how it got to the point in the bigger picture

i think the danger of rape is a reality and precautions are put in place because of this for *** workers, women in general do this daily and always consider it sadly because its a reality. but as i said in my last post, when you keep things in shadows, and surround them in shadowy dark narratives like freezing on a street corner like youre doing, its going to attract shadows that puts them in more danger. when its legal people have more even more protection as its been proven as more areas of *** work become legal. when i was in Amsterdam and Thailand, they actually police officers that were assigned specifically to areas where *** work was heavy incase they were needed by the workers. having legal rights to do it helps tremendously and makes it even safer, which is being realized. the police forces against it, theyre focused on human trafficking, which i think they should always be. there not focused on individual like escorts or prostitutes. their focused on big crime organizations where people are being kidnapped and forced to do it. which will always be, legal or not because making people *** slaves is wrong

on the spiritual tip, i dont disagree with body and mind connection. it being a INVASION though would mean theyre entering you without you wanting them be there. which *** workers are allowing you to be there, its not like their being raped everytime they do their job. ive also had a lot of *** with women i barely knew and i enjoyed it. so just from that, assuming that they cant enjoy what their doing because they dont know the person is an incorrect generalization. though i agree the stigma can affect them mentality, i know some who their family like disowned them. but again thats a larger problem with how the collective has been taught to see it, than the person themselves. actually its a great lesson ive noticed because it teaches that how you feel about yourself and your worth comes solely from within you, not what others think of you. but if they lack any kind of spiritual insight, i could see that being tough to deal with. but making your decisions in life solely by how other people view it, when youre not hurting others, is not a great quality of life imo as well
Would you believe me if I said that the very reason you have some many facts is why they are mostly faulty (the lack of depth I've pointed out)?

See, when you go to all these places, you're a tourist of the highest calibre. So the country itself will work its as* off to make sure you only see the pretty pictures. This means you only see the top-end stuff, not even the mid-tier stuff, never ever mind the low end majority (in almost every industry, the low end stuff is always the vast majority of workers). So of course you'll only see the good stuff. Not only, but mostly. If nothing else, the country itself will try to limit your exposure to the lower tiers. It's just how business works. So while your net of exposure will be very wide, it'll also be very shallow.

I'm increasingly confident of the above because I've already seen it in your points, as I've been pointing from the second reply. They cover wide areas - religion, personal freedom, business methods - but they almost never go deep and thoroughly into those areas. When it comes to issues of personal risk, you always have to go deep into an issue.

Otherwise, your facts are quite good on their own. I'd say you're just overestimating them - thinking they cover all areas when they mostly skim the surface. Apply them in context and you'll do extremely well on these issues. The fact that you care enough to remember all you've heard/seen is quite encouraging.

The only problem proper that I've seen is an unintended double standard in your evaluation.

Consider:
- you say stigma against saex work is social constructed, but use the same socially constructed stigma against religion (I come from such a former victim of Europe, I can tell you it's very different)
- you note the harm done by stigma from a Christian perspective, but fail to note it affecting the saex workers and their mentality
- you note the fallibility of societys morals, but treat the holy status of Oracles as perfect, even when I've pointed out that the idea did not always translate to personal happiness of the ones in question
- and so on


Your critiquing skill is noteworthy. Just apply it all round. You'll reach new levels when you can even critique the ground you yourself are standing on. That's it for now, but I look forward to future interactions with you.
 
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Would you believe me if I said that the very reason you have some many facts is why they are mostly faulty (the lack of depth I've pointed out)?

See, when you go to all these places, you're a tourist of the highest calibre. So the country itself will work its as* off to make sure you only see the pretty pictures. This means you only see the top-end stuff, not even the mid-tier stuff, never ever mind the low end majority (in almost every industry, the low end stuff is always the vast majority of workers). So of course you'll only see the good stuff. Not only, but mostly. If nothing else, the country itself will try to limit your exposure to the lower tiers. It's just how business works. So while your net of exposure will be very wide, it'll also be very shallow.

I'm increasingly confident of the above because I've already seen it in your points, as I've been pointing from the second reply. They cover wide areas - religion, personal freedom, business methods - but they almost never go deep and thoroughly into those areas. When it comes to issues of personal risk, you always have to go deep into an issue.

Otherwise, your facts are quite good on their own. I'd say you're just overestimating them - thinking they cover all areas when they mostly skim the surface. Apply them in context and you'll do extremely well on these issues. The fact that you care enough to remember all you've heard/seen is quite encouraging.

The only problem proper that I've seen is an unintended double standard in your evaluation.

Consider:
- you say stigma against saex work is social constructed, but use the same socially constructed stigma against religion (I come from such a former victim of Europe, I can tell you it's very different)
- you note the harm done by stigma from a Christian perspective, but fail to note it affecting the saex workers and their mentality
- you note the fallibility of societys morals, but treat the holy status of Oracles as perfect, even when I've pointed out that the idea did not always translate to personal happiness of the ones in question
- and so on


Your critiquing skill is noteworthy. Just apply it all round. You'll reach new levels when you can even critique the ground you yourself are standing on. That's it for now, but I look forward to future interactions with you.
i respect you for being able to have a mature discussion like an adult, Alpha's can disagree but still explain their points without there being hard feelings that someone challenges them. i cant say youre perspective is completely factual or correct but i respect it, you genuinely seem to be coming from a caring place which is valid and you had good reasons that showed this. but you seem done so ill leave you with things to consider as well

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1. i explained to you how the societal stigma is where it is now, from where it was and used factual examples like Oracles and how they were perceived in their societies as a contrast to the swtich and HOW that became ingrained in the western collective unconscious that is in current western society, that is in no way shallow lol

2. i explained how the mental stigma can affect them mentally, AGREED that its real, how its affected people ive know in the industry and how its not a valid representation of the persons worth, work or self

3. i told you facts but youre responses were mainly just projections of your own person feelings than the reality. like i told you the majority of *** workers, ARENT being *** trafficked, this is literal fact. *** work in general is a broader term that covers many areas of using sexuality for financial gain, this is fact. you picked one little piece blowing it of proportion and projected your feelings unto how the workers feel, without any possible way of knowing that. i presented oracles into the discussion and you start bringing up how they would feel, when you couldnt possibly know that, im not pretending too. everything ive spoken on how someone feels, im giving examples of people ive actually talked too in MANY areas of *** work BECAUSE i care to understand the deeper working of people actually doing it to further my understanding. not making assumptions based on how i feel or my beliefs. just because i choose not to involve myself with human *** trafficking to get the perspective of those victims outside of like documentaries. doesnt equal me not understanding the lowest level because i understand everything above it. it also doesnt make the lowest level the majority because the stigma is spotlighted on that. an easy example would be, Janitors/Custodians are considered working at the lowest level of almost any business or institution, the majority of the workers, in schools, hospitals, retail, commercial offices, etc. arent janitors

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so yeah, i hope you actually got real information from this discussion that opened your perspective more. that was really the point, not like saying what your feel in your heart in invalid. but yeah the fews times ive talked to you it has been interesting so i look forward too it as well
 
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Thanks man.

I don't often post in this section, but when i do I'll appreciate your input

eveyone talking here good english exept me...i envy u all when it come to this sorry..i just wish i can talk english fluently like u all..
Words are just a tool, what matters is the meaning.


From my experience, what you mean is often worth the time it takes to understand it.
 

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Thanks man.

I don't often post in this section, but when i do I'll appreciate your input


Words are just a tool, what matters is the meaning.


From my experience, what you mean is often worth the time it takes to understand it.
damn bro!!! ur words realy meanz lot to me...i feel like we can someday be good friends..
 
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eveyone talking here good english exept me...i envy u all when it come to this sorry..i just wish i can talk english fluently like u all..
read in english and practice it by writing a lot. Just post what is in your mind and when you are not sure check it with translate. Except some gross mistranslations who will make you rofl translate is an useful tool (after you get a translation if you reverse it and the original meaning is there then you can be sure about it ). Also search for the meaning of a word in english instead translate it, this gives you examples of how to use that word and all the meanings and grammar things you have to know as a base.
Not lastly, construct your sentences in english directly, if you try to translate your thoughts they may never come out in english as you intended them.
And you should ignore all this, i think you are talking very well.

OT if i would go in Japan and need a person to talk to i would take a guide better than a girlfriend (umm.. boyfriend in my case). A guide may explain me things i don't know about Japan and i think they are more qualified to fulfill my curiosity about this country than a person who gives their time to fake a friendship/love feeling.
 
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read in english and practice it by writing a lot. Just post what is in your mind and when you are not sure check it with translate. Except some gross mistranslations who will make you rofl translate is an useful tool (after you get a translation if you reverse it and the original meaning is there then you can be sure about it ). Also search for the meaning of a word in english instead translate it, this gives you examples of how to use that word and all the meanings and grammar things you have to know as a base.
Not lastly, construct your sentences in english directly, if you try to translate your thoughts they may never come out in english as you intended them.
And you should ignore all this, i think you are talking very well.

OT if i would go in Japan and need a person to talk to i would take a guide better than a girlfriend (umm.. boyfriend in my case). A guide may explain me things i don't know about Japan and i think they are more qualified to fulfill my curiosity about this country than a person who gives their time to fake a friendship/love feeling.
thank you so much..

i can't........ anymore.....

i won't explode...in my case i will implode..have a nice day..
 
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