[Discussion] Relationships

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I think relationships should be 50/50.

I have Bf right now, and I had one before.

The one before was really annoying.. I couldn't be friend with other boys, just be friend with girl.. I was going crazy.. :crazy: He was the king of the Relationships, I couldn't even decide a little thing >_>
THE WORST BF.

But, now I'm happy with my new bf ^^
 

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Relationships are a waste of time, they almost always end and people only get hurt.
There isn't many partners that are truly loyal, they can say they are and think they mean it but they usually cheat.
I agree if this is high school you're talking about or even earlier. High school is the biggest joke for dating, love at 16 is also a joke. After high school its more serious and people mature, its less about looks and more about personality. You find "nice" people while there's less "hot d**che bags" or "b*tchy sl*ts" Oh and cheaters...well guess that cant always be avoided. Well I find it to be like this anyways xd
 

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When you are courting the girl (dating) and not in a relationship it's usually good for the man to play... I do not suggest you pay everytime though because then she might be a gold digger.

But a good rules of thumb is on the first date you should pay..afterwords when your in a relationship than 50/50

50/50 in everything. The girl will actually respect you more for this. and if she always expect you to pay for everything then call her out on it.
 

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for me I have always offered to help pay for something or to just pay for something in general but they always say "thanks for the reach but I got it." or "I want to pay for it." and I know a lot of girls that ask if they can pay or try to pay and the guy they were with (even if it was just a friend) never has wanted them or has let them pay.
 

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Okay well I`m having a convo with my lady friend. I asked her why should a man always treat a woman when a relationship suppose to 50/50 well at less 60/40. Now why doesn`t a woman a treat a man If they both understand each other and situations.[/QUOTE]

Relationship is 50/ 50 or 80/ 20 it doesn't matter... if the situation demands and they understand each other either of the party should be ready to treat the other and usually they are under normal circumstances.

A lot depends ion what's the exact scenario and relationship between the two and background of the people.

A lot of times men manipulate women to give 70-80 while themselves just 30-20 in the relationship. And vice versa.
 

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The more paranoid you are about the relationship, the more likely you will fail. At the same time, the more naive you are about a relationship, you will still fail. These are conventional wisdoms, but...

I live in the state of Florida where females are rapidly going bi and leaving no other female unturned. With that said, you can't even trust females around other females without suspicion here (scary indeed)....

About the ancient times, it's not that women didn't make money at home because they were able to bargain with household objects and even sale extra clothes that they made to markets while their husbands were away on caravans. Some wives even became prostitutes (that last statement didn't help did it?).
 
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When you are courting the girl (dating) and not in a relationship it's usually good for the man to play... I do not suggest you pay everytime though because then she might be a gold digger.

But a good rules of thumb is on the first date you should pay..afterwords when your in a relationship than 50/50

50/50 in everything. The girl will actually respect you more for this. and if she always expect you to pay for everything then call her out on it.
From a girls perpective, I agree with that. U_U
 
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