relationship advice thread for guys
- Thread starter kagome33
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girls like guys that are confident *just dont try to hard on it*
girls *most girls* like the chase of getting a guy to like them, in otherwords just ignore the ones you like. *too an extent* if you kiss a girls ass all the time shes not going to want to be with you. and im going to copy and paste something that a member once said on here that is completley true
its called the 11th man theory
say there is a woman in a room with 10 men, and all 10 men are telling her how beautiful she is, and how amazing she is and they are lighting her cigarette and buying her drinks and just treating her like gold. Then all of a sudden in walks the 11th man, he takes one look at her and says "hey how ya doin'", turns his back on her and starts talking to his boys, THAT'S the guy she wants to be with, the 11th man, not any of the 10 men who were treating her well all night, but the one guy that couldn't care less, why? Because for some reason women don't want nice, they don't want real, they don't want to be treated well, I mean not at first and sometimes not ever.
Raito Yagami
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It's pointless for you because all you have to do to get laid is wake up your sister.
MrSharingan
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That NEVER works. Every time I try'n act all cool, the girl I'm interested in bounces with some other guy. And everytime I'm too nice they end up trying to take advantage of me U_U
your probably acting that way to the wrong women
shy women are the type that you should act smooth to because odds are they have the lowest self esteem. but dont over do it on being smooth thats how they take advantage of you. in other words dont constantly act like a justin beiber video to women.
for the women you act cool to, your not using the 11th man theory.
its like buying a car you like. you want the car but you want it at a good price so you act like you dont want it and thats how you talk the guy down.
get what im saying?
act cool to her just pretend you couldnt careless about her "AT FIRST" then when she gets whith you then start easing up on that.
MrSharingan
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Shadowslayer
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ok tell me if this makes sense to you, but there was a girl I liked and I had been her friend for over 2 yrs and during that time I started to like her. So one time i decided to hint to her that I liked her more than a friend, and the next thing I knew she was telling me I don't know her i creep her out, and never talk her again. Now its not like we barely talked the time we were friends, cus we did a lot. So when I got her response I was very confused and hurt by her words. Just want your thoughts on the whole thing