question for girls

[legarcon]

A couple of weeks ago i had a fall out with my girl friend, i said some things she took the wrong way and even though i apologized a few times about it, i feel like the fight kinda killed the magic, she behaves completely different ever since that happened, so i want to apologize one more time but i want it to be special, what i plan to do is to give her a little box which has a note that reads "order them by number" and inside the box i will put rose petals each will have a letter which put together will spell "i am sorry", also i plan on putting a little number on the petals so she will put them in order herself and discover what it says.

I'm suppose to see her the Thursday , my question is : should i go to visit her by surprise or should i wait for thursday to give her the little detail? after all i hear a lot that women like surprises.

BTW: i know you're gonna ask, so the fight was over a rendezvous that never happened, i was supposed to pick her up from school but she didnt see me and i didnt see her either and since she lost her cellphone i couldnt call her so i thought she stood me up, so i sent an angry voiceclip via FB and said she didnt care about me , and that's where all began.

 

[-immortal-]

Send her some flowers

 

[iNotorious]

By surprise/

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Nah play it safe, just go on Thursday and bring your A game.

The set day is better in my opinion because you'll both be ready for it, she may not be emotionally ready when you surprise her and that will make things worst.

 

[FemmeFatale]

Isn't that Sweet.
It would be much better if you can just give her the box without being there at all.
Every girl is different, being angry makes things unpredictable

 

[Tennis Robot]

I don't think you should do something that cute for an apology. Like, you should be more focused on making her happy rather than having her forgive you. If you really care about her, that is. So ask yourself: are you really doing this for her, or are you doing it for you?

 

[Angelic.]

buy her a phone XD

 

[Demonic.]

Just get another girl. Then replace that one after a week. It's called rotation baby.

 

[Pirate King]

interesting

 

[Madara the Solo King]

Surprise her.

 

[legarcon]

I don't think you should do something that cute for an apology. Like, you should be more focused on making her happy rather than having her forgive you. If you really care about her, that is. So ask yourself: are you really doing this for her, or are you doing it for you?

i really try to make her happy but after the fight everytime i try to make her laught or smile, it's like she slams the door in my face, i dont get her to open up with me as she did before

 

[Tennis Robot]

i really try to make her happy but after the fight everytime i try to make her laught or smile, it's like she slams the door in my face, i dont get her to open up with me as she did before

Well if you aren't making her happy, then why try to force yourself into her life? Wish her the best, whether she wants to be with you or not

 

[Pumpkin Ninja]

Lesson: Never lose your cool.

To be honest, I think you just need to give it time and maybe it's just in your head.

 

[UchihasRightfulHeir]

Just get another girl. Then replace that one after a week. It's called rotation baby.

This guy^

OP: ETB

 

[YowYan]

Are you a lesbian couple?
Because only a girl would send an angry voice note instead of asking why she wasn't at the rendez vous point.
At least that's how my girl and my friend's girlfriends act all the time.

 

[legarcon]

Well if you aren't making her happy, then why try to force yourself into her life? Wish her the best, whether she wants to be with you or not

i really dont have high hopes for that, rather consider this as my last try, i wont force her to love me if she doesnt want to but at least if this is going down i need to know i did everything i could so i don´t have any regrets about it

 

[Mr Akatsuki]

Send her a dickpic /thread


No, just surprise her with a small gesture. Show her how you feel but don't let her take all control. Communication is the key :hug:

 

[legarcon]

Are you a lesbian couple?
Because only a girl would send an angry voice note instead of asking why she wasn't at the rendez vous point.
At least that's how my girl and my friend's girlfriends act all the time.

yeah i know i got in drama queen mode but in my defense i had like 10 days of not seen her so i really though she was ditching me

 

[straightup]

Nah play it safe, just go on Thursday and bring your A game.

The set day is better in my opinion because you'll both be ready for it, she may not be emotionally ready when you surprise her and that will make things worst.

Bros on point with his game. And you wanna know a little secret to make her fall for you hard? Don't blow her phone up and don't get emotionally connected to hard. I'm not the most handsome man in the world by any means but you will never catch me with a girl under 8.0. And it's pretty easy getting them too. Just give them a little attention and then stop for a little. Make it seem like you have a life to live outside of her.

 

[NineSNS]

Too bad that a case of not finding each other was so destructive.

She probably felt like you stood her up, too, but it seems that you went on the attack when you felt that way.

It will take more than an apology to earn back her good opinion of you, so don't stick around unless you're willing to be patient.