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I have been annoyed by a lot of things in the past, but here are a couple I can remember.
1. This whole Jason Collins thing. I'm sorry if this is rude, but I couldn't care less if there is a gay player in the NBA. The way people are calling him a hero and praising his courage is baffling. The media has been begging for a professional sports player to go public about being gay for a long time now. Anybody who did this was signing up for a lot of publicity- a lot good publicity. Why good? Because if anybody says anything negative, they are slammed for being homophobic.
A couple examples- There was an NFL player who tweeted a joke like "I respect Jason Collins for being true to himself, but I don't know why people want to be gay. There are so many beautiful women in the world!" He was immediately slammed by the media, called homophobic, had to delete the tweet, and both him and his nfl team apologized for him being "insensitive."
Then there was an (I believe) ESPN reporter. He was asked the question, on air, "What is your personal opinion about Jason Collins being gay?" He answered truthfully by saying something like, "I respect Jason Collins as a player and a person, but I'm a christian and being gay is against my beliefs." He was also slammed for being homophobic and people immediately began calling for him to be fired.
I just find it ironic that people who are fighting for gay rights- who are literally fighting for people to accept their beliefs- refuse to accept beliefs that go against theirs. This is coming from someone that has no problem with gay people, and think they should have equal rights.
2. Feminism! This drives me insane. How this is still relevant, I don't know. It's getting to the point where males are the disadvantaged ones. My head literally blows when some women say things like, "I broke up with my boyfriend because I don't think he has the means to support me."
My reaction: you have fought for equal job opportunities and equal rights, but still you think you should be catered to! Most women, in my experience, still believe that it's up to their husbands to support them. You might say it's because they have to care for their children, but a lot of women don't have or even want children! And yet they still think they should sit back and be cared for! Also, I see women give this piece of dating advice all the time- "If he doesn't pay for the meal at a restaurant, he's rude and you should dump him! Don't even consider paying for half!" Oh my god. Kill me.
3. When people call heavier women "real women." If you look at an article with models in it, the comment section is always filled with people saying, "Eww! Look at those sticks! I prefer women who have more meat on their bones." It amazes me that people shun skinny women who make an attempt at being healthy, dismissing them as "fake", and then praise heavier women as being "real". What they don't understand is that not every skinny woman has an eating disorder, and throw up after every meal to shed the pounds. Some people actually have something called a "fast metabolism." People think they are taking the moral "high ground" by praising heavy women, but all they are doing is being insulting and ignorant.
I know, I'm crying, right? But I think these are pretty legitimate points.
What annoys you?
1. This whole Jason Collins thing. I'm sorry if this is rude, but I couldn't care less if there is a gay player in the NBA. The way people are calling him a hero and praising his courage is baffling. The media has been begging for a professional sports player to go public about being gay for a long time now. Anybody who did this was signing up for a lot of publicity- a lot good publicity. Why good? Because if anybody says anything negative, they are slammed for being homophobic.
A couple examples- There was an NFL player who tweeted a joke like "I respect Jason Collins for being true to himself, but I don't know why people want to be gay. There are so many beautiful women in the world!" He was immediately slammed by the media, called homophobic, had to delete the tweet, and both him and his nfl team apologized for him being "insensitive."
Then there was an (I believe) ESPN reporter. He was asked the question, on air, "What is your personal opinion about Jason Collins being gay?" He answered truthfully by saying something like, "I respect Jason Collins as a player and a person, but I'm a christian and being gay is against my beliefs." He was also slammed for being homophobic and people immediately began calling for him to be fired.
I just find it ironic that people who are fighting for gay rights- who are literally fighting for people to accept their beliefs- refuse to accept beliefs that go against theirs. This is coming from someone that has no problem with gay people, and think they should have equal rights.
2. Feminism! This drives me insane. How this is still relevant, I don't know. It's getting to the point where males are the disadvantaged ones. My head literally blows when some women say things like, "I broke up with my boyfriend because I don't think he has the means to support me."
My reaction: you have fought for equal job opportunities and equal rights, but still you think you should be catered to! Most women, in my experience, still believe that it's up to their husbands to support them. You might say it's because they have to care for their children, but a lot of women don't have or even want children! And yet they still think they should sit back and be cared for! Also, I see women give this piece of dating advice all the time- "If he doesn't pay for the meal at a restaurant, he's rude and you should dump him! Don't even consider paying for half!" Oh my god. Kill me.
3. When people call heavier women "real women." If you look at an article with models in it, the comment section is always filled with people saying, "Eww! Look at those sticks! I prefer women who have more meat on their bones." It amazes me that people shun skinny women who make an attempt at being healthy, dismissing them as "fake", and then praise heavier women as being "real". What they don't understand is that not every skinny woman has an eating disorder, and throw up after every meal to shed the pounds. Some people actually have something called a "fast metabolism." People think they are taking the moral "high ground" by praising heavy women, but all they are doing is being insulting and ignorant.
I know, I'm crying, right? But I think these are pretty legitimate points.
What annoys you?
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