[Discussion] Personality & Stuff. Small Rant.

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Personality, it's a hard concept to wrap your mind around if you've never been exposed to it. But once that little bit of understanding pops into your head, the rest just clicks.

There's so many different directions you could go when talking about personality as well, I personally think that your personality can determine any decision you make in your life. Whether it be the smallest scale like why you don't like the colour blue, or why you chose to become a nurse. Yet, not many people take the time to sit down and actually think about their own personality, or think in general :rolleyes:. I see it as a waste of potential when a person doesn't understand themselves or never really looks for answers within themselves, and it really holds them back, regardless of the situation. How could you know what's best for yourself when you don't even know yourself?

People just need to really take time and just, think. Not about why evolution is correct or flawed, not about how they're going to get they're homework in on time when they have class in 40 minutes. But just, about themselves. You guys owe it to yourselves to really just stop thinking about the large things, or the small things.

If you know yourself, your own personality, it's easy to find which conditions you work the best in, or finding things like proper studying methods, or a perfect job for yourself can come easily. Meanwhile if you ask someone who doesn't really know them self well, then they would sit there with a blank look on their face. Could you guess which person will be more successful in life? And which one will be more satisfied with themselves? Or how much better they do in life? It's the person who knows them self more in depth.

Yeah, this thread is kind of pointless >.>.. I've just had a lot on my mind lately and haven't been on the computer in a while so I can't properly structure my thoughts and sentences into a coherent manner.

Quick question, because I'm curious. Would you rather be part of the majority, or the minority? (Context is irrelevant.) Why or why not? I would personally be part of the minority. As much as I hate to admit it, when I'm different from someone else, I get a sense of superiority and individuality, when I know isn't true. It's just a small god complex which I can't seem to get rid of. Of course, I wouldn't act in such a manner, it's just my subliminal thinking, which I know is wrong.

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I use to be a d!ck to a lot of people... I regret it everyday.
 

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I hate those who can't act themselves. Who follow the crowd.

Yeah, they piss me off.
 

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to answer your question... i would rather just be myself, if that falls in the majority or minority or neither, doesnt matter to me.
 

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I use to be a d!ck to a lot of people... I regret it everyday.
Mehh, regrets. I hate that topic for the sole reason that I have regrets come into my mind more than anything else in life.. I always think to myself, it already happened and there's nothing that I can do to change it, Why can't I just get this thought out of my head? Yet it just keeps coming back day after day. It ruins my mood. I could go on and on about regrets, but I'll spare you :3.
I hate those who can't act themselves. Who follow the crowd.

Yeah, they piss me off.
Tough subject, although I see where you're coming from. Although some people are too introverted to do else wise. I've been in situations where I've felt differently from the leader but I was always too introverted and scared to go against them, so I merely conform. I don't conform for the purpose of hoping to gain social acceptance, but more or less to not cause a scene. I don't know, I can't really word it. Bottom line is I conform, but not for the standard reasons of being popular or because I agree.
 

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i used to be a part of that minority issue.i concluded that i only did that so that i would be something more than others,sth special and could feel better about myself....i realized we are all equals on this world...we are all looking for the same thing..love and happiness..we just have different ways...so one advice..dont be a part of majority nor minority...just be yourself and accept the majority...understand them
 

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I hate those who can't act themselves. Who follow the crowd.

Yeah, they piss me off.

this guy is right but myself, i dont follow any crowd, well as part of your discussion, i will honestly say i dont like anyone, i dont like hanging out with anybody or doing stuff, i am not selfish or anything, i just prefer not to have these friendships because when friends argue its annoying.
 
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Well if a person doesn't understand themselves that's just part of there whole personality as well. Truth be told there's people with great personally, people with blah personality, and people with sh!t personality.
 

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i used to be a part of that minority issue.i concluded that i only did that so that i would be something more than others,sth special and could feel better about myself....i realized we are all equals on this world...we are all looking for the same thing..love and happiness..we just have different ways...so one advice..dont be a part of majority nor minority...just be yourself and accept the majority...understand them
I consciously agree with you, but my subconscious won't listen T_T.. It hasn't been listening to me for years now, I definitely agree with what you're saying 100%, although I'm being childish and feeling superior for trying to gain the same things in a different manner. :\ Whatever, I'll hopefully figure it out eventually.
 

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this guy is right but myself, i dont follow any crowd, well as part of your discussion, i will honestly say i dont like anyone

If you don't like anyone that just means you have a bad personality, and your hard to get along with. Your hust looking at things backwards, eople Arendt following the crowd, they're just hanging out with people they get along with, or have the same personality. Hey at least they can get along with people.
 

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I suggest you take this test and read up one what you get. You'll understand yourself more it that's what your looking for.
Post your result.
 

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Depends on the context.
Like.. if the minority is oppressed in everyway, why would i chose that?
If it's on preferences, it depends on the options.
 

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If you don't like anyone that just means you have a bad personality, and your hard to get along with. Your hust looking at things backwards, eople Arendt following the crowd, they're just hanging out with people they get along with, or have the same personality. Hey at least they can get along with people.

you dont really understand me, i dont like people, at all, that doesn't mean anything about my personality, it has nothing to do with me. its a personal preference
 

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I consciously agree with you, but my subconscious won't listen T_T.. It hasn't been listening to me for years now, I definitely agree with what you're saying 100%, although I'm being childish and feeling superior for trying to gain the same things in a different manner. :\ Whatever, I'll hopefully figure it out eventually.

xd i totally get you and i know how it is.subconsciousness has a mind of its own :D it took me years to figure it out so you`ll do it too eventually :) the only thing that will afecct your subconsciousness is time and listening to your heart and just being the way you are ;)
 

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If you don't like anyone that just means you have a bad personality, and your hard to get along with. Your hust looking at things backwards, eople Arendt following the crowd, they're just hanging out with people they get along with, or have the same personality. Hey at least they can get along with people.

-_- No, it means that person is a loner. You're just being overly judgmental because you yourself are not a loner.
 

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-_- No, it means that person is a loner. You're just being overly judgmental because you yourself are not a loner.

thank you, and as i said, its a personal preference, i choose to be a loner. I wasnt forced into it because i have a bad personality or whatever he is saying :p
 

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-_- No, it means that person is a loner. You're just being overly judgmental because you yourself are not a loner.

A loner does not hate people, they are just introverted. Aura is probably a teenager you thinks its cool to act cold people.
 

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A loner does not hate people, they are just introverted. Aura is probably a teenager you thinks its cool to act cold people.

what are you talking about...? i dont think its cool to be cold or whatever, i just dont have interest in people.
 
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