obito could have went back to the village if he wanted, so no he made his life what it is. kabuto's is not really the worst but it was bad.
He saw the love of his life die in front of eyes due to what he believed to be the corrupt ninja system. Why would he go back? His misery was forged by Madara. It's easy to indoctrinate someone so young and use their pain against them.obito could have went back to the village if he wanted, so no he made his life what it is. kabuto's is not really the worst but it was bad.
Being pushed around time and time after trying so hardYou're making Obito seem like he had such a dramatic child hood. He didn't. As I said in your first part, he was only friend zoned. Thats it. That hardly counts as a hard life, no matter what he did/said as a result from it.