I tried reading through these posts to figure out what was going on but I got too confused.....
But really everything's a shade of gray.... I don't think one could make the deceleration that nobody can understand the Uchiha, or anything of that sort, I'm sure there's people out there that have lost loved ones that were young, and they learn to cope with it...
And also, I thought that the Curse of Hatred kinda symbolized why the Uchiha always turn crazy...it's like in their blood to use hatred to their advantage, while Senju and the Will of Fire fight with love... yin/yang, all that stuff ya know? At least that's what I thought... I never thought someone would make the assumption that everyone lives perfect and can't connect the themes of the story to why the Uchiha are insane.