Need romantic help

[3MESSIAH]

so you want to give her a gift as a way of saying:i dont want to have a relationship with you just now but maybe someday...

or is it just like a simple gift to a friend??

 

[oShux]

This. You don't even know her feelings for you; if you got friendzoned then you just spent money on a girl who doesn't even like you. Mook.

I have money to spend like that bro And she does like me. Me and her are in that stage where you two are talking before you officially go out. But only because at the moment I'm not looking for a official relationship maybe in 2014 idk. But yea she does like me. It's impossible for me to get friend zoned

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

I'm not giving her a necklace so I can sleep with her :| That's basically like paying for ***. And with the price of this necklace I'd be better off buying a hooker. We already ____ed(<--- Insert word here) I'm just getting her the necklace as a genuine gift .-.

You're confusing and are going to confuse her.

Just stop and return the necklace. If you wanna give her a gift get her a gift card or something. I assure you the necklace is a bad idea if you want to keep things casual.

 

[Booker]

So wait you've had *** but are not dating

Maybe it's just me but *** seems like a dating step, especially when you talk to her often.

 

[oShux]

so you want to give her a gift as a way of saying:i dont want to have a relationship with you just now but maybe someday...

or is it just like a simple gift to a friend??

The 1st one is pretty accurate.

 

[oShux]

You're confusing and are going to confuse her.

Just stop and return the necklace. If you wanna give her a gift get her a gift card or something. I assure you the necklace is a bad idea if you want to keep things casual.

A gift car is a terrible christmas present :| But you're right I don't want things to blow out of proportion I like things being casual U_U

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

So wait you've had *** but are not dating

Maybe it's just me but *** seems like a dating step, especially when you talk to her often.

I agree with this. Very few girls wont see this as not dating.

 

[omarsen]

there is nothing wrong in wanting ***. you are male she is a female, don't hide your desires and be honest with your feelings and what you want. if you want *** NOTHING is wrong with that.

 

[cigi]

Well if you wait too long to ask her out some dude might come and take her away before you know it! And if you positive she likes you like ou said then the necklace is good to give

 

[oShux]

So wait you've had *** but are not dating

Maybe it's just me but *** seems like a dating step, especially when you talk to her often.

It is. But hey I'm just that kind of dude

 

[3MESSIAH]

The 1st one is pretty accurate.

hmm if that`s the scenario then i would recommend you to do it more simply and not too romantic...just romantic enough if you know what i mean

just follow your heart

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

A gift car is a terrible christmas present :| But you're right I don't want things to blow out of proportion I like things being casual U_U

Definitely. U.U

With this kind of relationship you have to be very careful and precise to not confuse her. Good luck my friend!

 

[Sir Blades]

It's not that f*cked up. I'm just taking things really slowly. And decided to get her a Christmas gift. :| New sig btw XD

You are not taking things slowly, you are just sitting at a stop sign making signs with a fire stick. Oh thank you for the sig quote lol

 

[oShux]

Women like when men are forceful.

Break into her home while she is asleep. Leave it in her toilet, with a note and your name on it. When she confronts you about it talk to her. make sure the police are out of earshot. Then tell her you love her even though her toilet smells bad.

Romance in a nutshell.

You need help :|

hmm if that`s the scenario then i would recommend you to do it more simply and not too romantic...just romantic enough if you know what i mean

just follow your heart

Yea that's what I was going for in the first place I gotta know how I'm gonna do it though nothing too romantic just a little.

 

[-Sky-]

Seems like a dysfunctional relationship. You like each other. You've f*cked. You want to do something romantic for her. Yet you don't want to date her.

If this is the case, then I strongly advise against giving this necklace to her in a romantic way. It will send her the wrong message. I don't know where you want to go with this girl, but don't take her on an emotional roller coaster. It's not fair to the both of you.

 

[Ψ Veritas Ψ]

dont listen to these "horribly jealous" scum of the earth


tell her she is really special, and that she deserves a gift for that - show her the gift, she will say its pretty and blah blah - then you look in her eyes and gently ask if you may put it on her neck, Voila!

 

[oShux]

You are not taking things slowly, you are just sitting at a stop sign making signs with a fire stick. Oh thank you for the sig quote lol

lol I mean I am gonna make it official one day. Just not this month

 

[Anorien16]

Okey here I go ...

Method 1 (Rather forward buy easy): Just hang out with her and when she is distracted, put the necklace on her and clasp it from the behind (Remember use protection) ...... u might also give her a hug and whisper Merry Christmas in her her ear softly.

Method 2: Just random ask her to ur home, then ask her to give judgement on a piece of jewelry you are planning to give someone and in that pretense make her try it on ..... and then reveal it that it is for her in proper romantic manner.

Method 3: Just wrap it and give it with a smile.

 

[omarsen]

Please don't start world war 3, if she reject you.

 

[cptenn94]

lol I mean I am gonna make it official one day. Just not this month

Dont listen to the idiots who think its dumb to take it slow.

But if I understand correctly, she is the girl your interested in, but you just want to take it slow and ease on into a relationship.

Now you said you like to talk to her alot. I assume you just go hang out with her and just talk as your hanging out.

What I would do is just go hang out at the usual place, or take her to get a bite to eat or something(a casual place, not neccesarily a resturaunt), and then just ask her to close her eyes for a second.
Then you put the necklace on her, and then you tell her she can open her eyes, and you say Merry Christmas.

Alternatively you could wrap it up, and just tell her "this is for you, Merry Christmas". And then she opens it.


A other alternative, is you could wait till you are ready to enter a relationship with her, and give her the necklace then. And get her something else for Christmas.


The main thing though I would think, is to give it to her in a casual place. If you take her to a more formal place, then it would have the possibility of giveing her a bit of mixed signals.



I got one final idea for what you could do. Im not sure if she would like something like this, but you could make a small game, where the end result is the necklace. For example. You could make some notes that lead her to several different locations, and then the end location, would be her mailbox, where the necklace would be wrapped.

Ex. Note on her door "go to the starbucks and look under the table in the corner"
That note says "go to 1st street, and look on the 2nd telephone pole past the main street intersection."
That note says " go check your rear tail light"
That note says" go check your mailbox"
Then you could have 1 of 2 things. 1. Turn around(then you give her the necklace) or 2. Open this(then she opens the wrapping, and the necklace is there. Then you come up from nearby her and tell her "Merry Christmas."

These are just some ideas that i thought of off the top of my head, not knowing anything about the girl.


Ultimately though, it is completely up to you. If you do what you feel is right, then im sure you will be fine.


I wish you good luck, and hope you have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!