Need help from the ladies on here please

[Pervyy]

Right today my girlfriend said she wanted a break from me because things dont feel the same as they used to and she wants see if some time apart changes that and so she can remember why she loves me.


Right, i need help in ways in which i convince her she still wants to be with me, can anyone help please?

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Yes i am desperate, i really love her

 

[Revan]

I'm no lady, but i had a talk with two of them about the same theme.
Both were extremely annoyed, because their boyfriends tried to get them back, but all they wanted was a little bit time alone.
i cant say weather it helps when you give her some time and distance, but i know two cases where trying to conquer her back by presents, visits (/omnipresence) was absolutely not the right thing to do.

 

[Sin]

Give her a little space.. maybe that's what she needs..

Sometimes people need time apart.

 

[Caliburn]

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Well first and for all I would give her the space. If you're going to try the opposite it will not really help =/

 

[Pervyy]

I'm no lady, but i had a talk with two of them about the same theme.
Both were extremely annoyed, because their boyfriends tried to get them back, but all they wanted was a little bit time alone.
i cant say weather it helps when you give her some time and distance, but i know two cases where trying to conquer her back by presents, visits (/omnipresence) was absolutely not the right thing to do.

Give her a little space.. maybe that's what she needs..

Sometimes people need time apart.

~Moved to the Chatterbox, the Questions/Suggestions-section is only for questions/suggestions related to the forum~​

Well first and for all I would give her the space. If you're going to try the opposite it will not really help =/

Sorry about wrong section


Im scared if i give her 2 much time she will forget me or something, but thanks for the advice

 

[Shunsui]

Im scared if i give her 2 much time she will forget me or something, but thanks for the advice

well if she forgets u its obvious she doesnt love u anymore, if no she will call u first, have u ever been anoyed by a girl? when she calles all the time, talks talks talks, and u feel like Aaaa.... so u lie that ur at work/school or somewhere else just to be with friends? more u comunicate with her now, the less chances u get.. i lost a greate girl some years ago by same mistake we almost had 4 years

 

[Pervyy]

well if she forgets u its obvious she doesnt love u anymore, if no she will call u first, have u ever been anoyed by a girl? when she calles all the time, talks talks talks, and u feel like Aaaa.... so u lie that ur at work/school or somewhere else just to be with friends? more u comunicate with her now, the less chances u get.. i lost a greate girl some years ago by same mistake we almost had 4 years

Hmmm i see what your saying, but this girl goes the same college as me, is in most my lessons, and shes said she wants me be her best friend still =/

Damn you all women!

xd

 

[Shunsui]

Hmmm i see what your saying, but this girl goes the same college as me, is in most my lessons, and shes said she wants me be her best friend still =/

Damn you all women!

xd

nahh im not women, i just had 3 sirious relations, 2 years, than 1 and half, and 3 and half now with new its 3d month ...


well if she wants to be a best friends with you its very bad. first of all it will hurt you... and nothing come out of it.... my suggestion just be cool. dont show ur weakness, act like ur just friends, talk less, chill, party, do stuff.. it helps or should help, trying to get her back, send sms?es, msn spamm, phone calls, roses, chocolate and everything involving u = 99% fail! and dont get cought with other girl xd !!!

 

[Pervyy]

nahh im not women, i just had 3 sirious relations, 2 years, than 1 and half, and 3 and half now with new its 3d month ...


well if she wants to be a best friends with you its very bad. first of all it will hurt you... and nothing come out of it.... my suggestion just be cool. dont show ur weakness, act like ur just friends, talk less, chill, party, do stuff.. it helps or should help, trying to get her back, send sms?es, msn spamm, phone calls, roses, chocolate and everything involving u = 99% fail! and dont get cought with other girl xd !!!

My plan is show i still care without being obsesive, be her best friend, well try, then show her what shes missing out on, if that fails im boned lol =/

 

[Shunsui]

My plan is show i still care without being obsesive, be her best friend, well try, then show her what shes missing out on, if that fails im boned lol =/

mmm i think its will be fail, she needs free space like someone said before. Just try hang out without her for month... if in month nothing changes....
anyway better chances

 

[Chacha]

I'm kind of confused if she just wants space, or if she's totally breaking up with you with a "tact" reason of giving her space so it sounds less hurtful. But, anyways...

I'm a girl, or should I say a woman considering my age, and I think it's not a good idea should you two be BFFs when you still have "feelings" for her that goes beyond friendship.

Trust me, you'd end up bruised. The constant thing in this world is change, and with that sometimes we have to get out of our comfort zone and embrace the change. I applaud you for taking the risk, so I don't think it's a bad idea for you to try it out and be friends with her (til she realizes your efforts and wins her back). But, give it a definite time. If you think it's not working at your end, then so be it and forget the bond.

Honestly, keeping your distance away from that person will really help you to move on for sure.

 

[Pervyy]

Lol this thread can be closed, what she said was a load of crap, she was cheating on me and left me for another guy hehe xd

 

[Michael92]

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Damn you all women!

 

[Pervyy]

Lmao xd

 

[Dark_Sakura1201]

Hmm well my boyfriend was like that will me he wanted space so we dont see each other as much as we did and now that he doesnt have a cell phone anymore we dont really communicate as much unless he signs on the internet, when i see him or if he calls me with his house phone. It seems to work better that way the less we communicate the more we want to see each other and we look forward to it you get me. So this girl must have some stress or something wrong with her if she needs a break from you, but I would say give her 3 weeks. If she doesn't talk to you by then then dont let her get you down, start talking to other people to give yourself choices just in case things don't go the way you want them to go. If the girl contacts you then great she still wants to be with you shes just having issues right now and that can seem to be the problem in most cases when girls, especially in college, need time to themselves to complete work, hand with friend, or just do things in general to get there stress levels down and once that happens shell come right on back to you....or if she doesn't contact you that means she only wanted a short relationship and she wasen't looking for anything long term and shes just trying to put you down easy. I don't know your relationship with her so its really hard to say what she is doing but my best advice for you is give her about 3 weeks to a month which is normally the distance of time that people take from each other, like I said if she contacts you great if not then make yourself available to other chances with other women you know talk to them, it'll all work out for you. Hope the best luck towards you Good luck!!

 

[medusicah]

Lol this thread can be closed, what she said was a load of crap, she was cheating on me and left me for another guy hehe xd

*pats* In general when people say that they want a break they're just trying to take the easy way out. Oh well, if she cheated on you and all that jazz you're defo better off without her, hon.

 

[Rei]

Lol this thread can be closed, what she said was a load of crap, she was cheating on me and left me for another guy hehe xd

When I read your first post that's what I thought; although it seems like a "load of crap" I think she didn't want to hurt you and that's why she lied.

I will close the thread now.