So I started school in august and this is a new school for me, so far I know like everyone in the school and I'm pretty much a part of every click because I'm like a chameleon and can fit in anywhere. So I've got a lot of friends but only a few are really good friends, one of my best friends who is so far, someone of whom is a kindred spirit and I have a lot of fun with him, he share's several similar interests as me and everything...anyway he has a little group of about 5 other friends...and they are all a lot like me, in fact we all share the same interest in music (we are musiscians) and in video games. Although for the most part they are TOTAL *******s still I get along with them I mean we screw with each other a lot and are in the middle of a major prank war. But one of these guys makes it well known that he pretty much hates my guts and all he ever does insult me and mess with my stuff (food at lunch and school books etc.) anyway this family of 6 friends are all REALLY tight and have been for years but this guy pushed it too far today by throwing hot soup at me...which I dodged, and then throwing other condoments at me. I'm not the tough guy type but I've been in a lot of fights which has lead to me getting kicked out of a few schools so I'm trying to avoid that this time around but this guy is at the point of physically attacking me...I mean not like literally attacking but as in throwing stuff at me and messing with my stuff and his insults cross the line. Anyway it made me so mad today I felt like I had a fire in my belly for the rest of the day and I broke two pencils from bending them while sitting and thinking about this guy. I want and need to kick his ass or at least stand up for myself but I know if I do I will lose all these new friends and then one in particular who I am getting really close too, because they will have to have his back since they have been friends for years. But I can't take it anymore it's really pissing me off...anyway are their any suggestions as to how I could go about kicking his ass and/or at least defending myself without losing this other friends? has anyone been in this type of situation before?
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Yes my thoughts exactly but what should I do then? because this is just too much.
I want to so bad!!! man I was so angry today I couldn't stand it its like this terrible feeling that growing inside of me eating away at me trying to make me explode!!! in fact the only time I've ever been this angry is at my dad (I don't have father issues like most teens there have just been a few times before when I punched a hole through my wall because of him) I swear to God I will ****ing lose it if he does this same shit to me again tomorrow!
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IDK....... Talk to him or your friends about the situation and if it cools him down than your ok, but if you don't set things straight, you could lose your friends or mind (Might sound girly or whatever). I'm not the one for violence, but if it comes to it, you have no choice but to defend yourself when he tries you.
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Highschool is not as important as you might think so just kick his ass and lose the friends because in the long run it won't matter...
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Bodhisattva
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how do the other friends in the group react to this guy f***ing with you? if they're on his side, maybe they're not good ppl to be around.
Best way to deal with bully's is to standup to them, Let them know you won't let them take the piss.
Bully's pick on the "weak links".
Fighting is the last option really.
I was bulliedat school, One day I was having a Bad day and i just flipped and beat the living hell out of him, He never picked on me again.
Bully's pick on the "weak links".
Fighting is the last option really.
I was bulliedat school, One day I was having a Bad day and i just flipped and beat the living hell out of him, He never picked on me again.
Yea I know, but the fact is it is important to me right now even if it wont be later and I can't make myself unhappy for the rest of year and probably next year considering I will most likely have to repeat this grade at this point.
Yea I actually walk by him on the way to school but he is always with his one friend who is one of my friends (being a member of the group of 6) so I don't want to walk up and start shit you know because then he could say I started it, because he never starts anything when we are walking home...only at school.
Take it on video and post it
lol that would be hilarious
No way I'm not a snitch...I hate snitches.
This is the best advice yet...yes I plan on talking to my one friend about it but I know the others wont listen to me. The only thing is considering he's been friends with him years before he was friends with me he will be obligated to take his side...even though he tried to defend me at lunch and took my side in the long run loyalty by means of having history with someone is a little deeper you know.
If he does that again kick his ass, dont be a b*tch and not do anything about it because you are scared of loosing friends or getting expelled, stand up for yourself and people will see that, you wont lose any friends, maybe even gain some. But getting bullied like that is just f*cked up...
Settle it like a man.
You don't need friends in HS to have a better life in the future.
Don't ever feel like you're going to regret something later.
If you want to whoop his ass/get your ass whooped let it rip.
If you think it might have severe consequences not worthy of bruising knuckles, let it slip.
Don't trust your heart or brain, act on instinct.
You don't need friends in HS to have a better life in the future.
Don't ever feel like you're going to regret something later.
If you want to whoop his ass/get your ass whooped let it rip.
If you think it might have severe consequences not worthy of bruising knuckles, let it slip.
Don't trust your heart or brain, act on instinct.
Stand up for yourself and tell him off or something. Whether this be yelling your guts out at him or beating his ass, Never let some useless little prick walk over you like that. Also try talking to the people associated with the group as well.
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Avoid him at all costs. If the kid that you have found Kin-ship with can't understand that then that's his loss for not seeing the fact that his old friend is a complete ass-hat who throws hot soup at people because he can't bust a nut off when he's alone in the bathroom.
Be the better man and walk away.
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What is wrong here. No if the others are your friends, they won't stop being friends just because of some1 else.
Also, you already failed since you let him come this far. I'm pretty sure he was doing more and more BS to you, and you let him. You cannot be a *****, and you don't even need to fight. You should have just approached him and tell him to **** off etc etc, I won't give you an exact manual, but you will get no respect by letting yourself be "attacked" and do nothing about it.
Actualy, my best friend is a guy I was making fun of alot, it was going on for some time, he then stood up, stopped being a ***** and got in fight with me, after the fight he got my respect.
Also, you already failed since you let him come this far. I'm pretty sure he was doing more and more BS to you, and you let him. You cannot be a *****, and you don't even need to fight. You should have just approached him and tell him to **** off etc etc, I won't give you an exact manual, but you will get no respect by letting yourself be "attacked" and do nothing about it.
Actualy, my best friend is a guy I was making fun of alot, it was going on for some time, he then stood up, stopped being a ***** and got in fight with me, after the fight he got my respect.
They don't say much actually except insist that he can kick my ass which is stupid because I been getting in fights my whole life lol and this guy is just a prick...normally I would agree their not good friends or whatever but to be honest they are obligated to take his side like I said since they have tight history.
This isn't a bullying situation...Im in 12th grade, this is basically him trying to get me to fight him and he plans on turning all of our friends against me when this happens...which I don't want to happen because I really like them but like I said they have long history together so it makes sense they would take his side...you get me? I've beaten the shit out of many people before and I've gotten the shit beat out of me, so I'm not the type to just take this shit from him but I'm stuck in a tight spot here because I don't want to loose these other friends.
Wait till you see him after dark and throw your hood up and beat the living shit out of him
lol I would actually if I knew where he walked after dark
I don't care about getting expelled lol I've been getting in trouble for shit all school year so I'm not worried about that believe me...I'm just having a good time with the other ppl in this group and don't want to screw that up.
I like that response...your cool man. This is usually how I handle things I just want, for once in my life, to be able to settle things non-violently. So I'm looking for ideas on this.
A useless prick is exactly how I would describe him.
I would like to walk away but I'm afraid my honor will not allow that. Call it immature pride if you must but I sometimes I have a harder time living with what "I" think of myself then what others think of me if you know what I mean. So I can't walk away plain and simple.