My interpersonal relationship.

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So first and foremost i'd like to say im baked off some charlie sheen but the topic is serious and i'd like to ask for some opinions.

So as of late I've been spending more and more time on the internet and various social sites *not dating sites, just various social sites a lot like this one". Anyhow, growing up i was always against internet dating etc, despite sometimes being a hoodrat on myspace or whatever. Perhaps i thought it was nerdy? i'm not quite sure but growing up and becoming an individual grown man i'm the text book definition of nerdy, i mean i love video games, anime and now even my tv and social activity is done through mostly online. Now back to my main point, with this being said this is most people when it comes to being online. Recently I've actually found out i have a crush on this chick online but we haven't really spoke but we have a lot in common, i mean is this weird or is this becoming more common? Growing up i never had problem getting women, i was popular in shape, and attractive, even in this big city i live in it's so hard to find someone i really connect with or share common interests with me. The problem with it, is it's not like she lives somewhere in town and i saw her on facebook, she lives half the country away. And i mean i know she gets her inbox blown up everyday and so i'd have to come through on her inbox and give her something different to get her attention. But i'm just so confused about my situation because it's never really happened before and i mean it's not like I'm desperate in real life she's just so much more interesting then any girl in my home town. So if anyone reads this and comes through and just talks or has had a similiar experience that can give me some advice that'd be great!!
 

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reading.... I can't believe I'm reading all of this.... lmao.

On topic..

Don't let anyone give you advice lol.. do your own thing doodlet.
 
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I think that you should become friends with her. Then gain her trust. Then ask if you can meet her. If she says yes then go and take her out on a couple of dates. And maybe on the third date tell her that you've never connected to anyone like this before and you'd like to take the relationship to the next level. If she says yes then you did it. If not then she just wasn't for you and you've made a new friend.
 

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if she lives far away i say forget her long distance relationships never almost work and it will be different when you meet her in person she might be different you will find someone close by
 

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And I mean that's why it's interpersonal I guess cause she doesn't know I exist and your boy is posting on forums about her lol. It's just odd there's no pheromones involved it's just strictly infatuation over a woman I've never met and it's driving me nuts lol
 

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I think, mostly dating online will be asking for trouble, there's a chance with high percentage that you could get fooled,
some will work but personally I'm not in to online dating and when it come to friendships, I've few good friends that i get along well, easy to talk to and feel a connection with in NB and other sites .
 

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I hate to be that guy, but long distance relationships don't work. Especially when you hardly know the person to begin with. (you mentioned that you guys haven't even talked?) Its just a crush, so get over it, and start going out and looking for people.
 
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