My gf

[shmanton]

I just need some advice or some tips really and i thought this would be a good place to go.

I'v been with my gf for about 9 months now and am loving it, don't want to leave her, but iv noticed that she has put on some weight since we have been together.
She's always been very active and when i do go home (i work away from home alot) she does come out for runs with me and we do do alot.

i dont know what to do cos her weight is also causing her to be upset and iv said it is something she can change she just need to do a bit of excercise but i seem to be rubbish at saying things lightly (im very blunt)

need help on what i should do! please...

 

[Sonne]

I just need some advice or some tips really and i thought this would be a good place to go.

Wrong.

And she is Prego.

 

[shmanton]

hahaha that would be the worst senario but thankfuly she isnt =]

 

[-Vizard-]

Wrong.

And she is Prego.

haha xd

 

[Nathan]

Wrong.

And she is Prego.

Most likely.

 

[Sonne]

hahaha that would be the worst senario but thankfuly she isnt =]

Why?
Are you 14? e_e

 

[Venus]

I say throw her on a treadmill and hold a cookie infront of her so she can smell it, then tell her to chase the cookie.

Or just both of you go on a diet.
If you go on a diet aswell, she'll stick to it better.

 

[Yanto]

Take her to gym if u don't mind...lol just kidding

 

[shmanton]

Why?
Are you 14? e_e

No and for starters it looks different to when someone is or just a bit chubby, also i know her and if she was then she would go balistic and almost kill me. doesnt want one lol

Or just both of you go on a diet.
If you go on a diet aswell, she'll stick to it better.

and this might work if i was home all the time. im away most of the time at work. and yeah im a massive junk food eater =/

 

[Venus]

No and for starters it looks different to when someone is or just a bit chubby, also i know her and if she was then she would go balistic and almost kill me. doesnt want one lol



and this might work if i was home all the time. im away most of the time at work. and yeah im a massive junk food eater =/

Well then there is only one solution, tell her she's a fatty and she'll become anorexic. Then after that say she's too thin, she'll go on a junk food rampage, then when she's perfect weight, suck up to her and make her feel good so she stops eating it.

Or buy her a jenny creig dvd Lmao jk

 

[ninjastormgenaration33]

Somebodies a Father and is in denial

 

[shmanton]

Or buy her a jenny creig dvd Lmao jk

Tbh this seems to be the thing to do lol

 

[Venus]

Tbh this seems to be the thing to do lol

Just tell her straight forward, you don't say it obvious though. Talk about you're weight, say you lost some and she'll look at herself and be like 0_0 Me fatty watty boom batty.

 

[Nathan]

I just need some advice or some tips really and i thought this would be a good place to go.

I'v been with my gf for about 9 months now and am loving it, don't want to leave her, but iv noticed that she has put on some weight since we have been together.
She's always been very active and when i do go home (i work away from home alot) she does come out for runs with me and we do do alot.

i dont know what to do cos her weight is also causing her to be upset and iv said it is something she can change she just need to do a bit of excercise but i seem to be rubbish at saying things lightly (im very blunt)

need help on what i should do! please...

IF you love her, it shouldn't matter on her appearance.

 

[shmanton]

IF you love her, it shouldn't matter on her appearance.

yeah im not gonna leave her but its making her get upset about it and she drones on and on and when i do mention it she gets in a mahoosive mood.
iv given up a bit but i can see she does wanna lose it. just dont know how to get her motivated

 

[Swizzik]

dude tell her that she needs to lose weight...when she gets mad yell at her and ask her "why the **** are you yelling at me its not my fault you look like the pillsbury dough boy!".
when she is mad and leaves and goes and tells her friend her friends will convince her she was overreacting and maybe she does need to lose some weight. go to her and make peace she will feel stupid and give in to your request problem solved!

 

[Minato namikaze2]

lol

 

[Zerabitu]

Give her to me. I shall give her the proper treatment, and I promise results.​

 

[Selendrile]

If you proceed to slap her face, with a hammer, everytime she does something wrong or unacceptable, she will become perfect! (this is actually how women WANT to be treated, they are just too shy to tell you)

 

[Seffy]

Well then there is only one solution, tell her she's a fatty and she'll become anorexic. Then after that say she's too thin, she'll go on a junk food rampage, then when she's perfect weight, suck up to her and make her feel good so she stops eating it.

Or buy her a jenny creig dvd Lmao jk

Actually this could back fire rather badly. If you flat out tell a woman they are fat, then it could send them into a depression (pending how dramatic they are) and cause her to eat more, comfort food.

Personally if you want to help her lose weight, then encourage her to do so. If you talk to her on the phone when you're away be intrested to see if she has been eating healthy and excercising properly, but be nice about it. Encourage her when you see her like if she is sticking to the diet, tell her she looks pretty and she's lost some weight, that will help motivate her to lose more. Some times a simple compliment is enough. Just don't go extreme with it, compliment little by little so she feels like she's actually getting some where with the diet. Either way just keep supporting her the best you can and everything should work out fine =)