Minato Loved his family, he didn't bat an eye lash to save Naruto from the wickedly evil grasp of the Antagonist Tobi, nor afterwards did he hesitate even for a second to sacrifice his life for the Village, That's proof at least that he cared more for the Village then anything else in the World, his image is seen several times throughout recent Chapters surrounding Naruto because of how Naruto acts when protecting the village and the people that he loves. Which is proof enough for me that Minato loved all things in his life equally not just his wife. BUUUUT.. that's not saying he wouldn't feel some hatred towards Naruto if he had lived for being a contributing factor in his wifes death.